Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Julianking93]

Same reason here. Wanted to see if anyone I knew posted.
Surprisingly, only a few did but... I've only read the first 6 pages. I'm afraid to continue <<
I really shouldn't have read those 6 pages ;~;
It shouldn't get me (or anyone for that matter) down though. I... can't really think of a reason why it shouldn't, but it shouldn't :3
*moves to your corner and hugs*

I'm glad no one I knew, knew posted here...At least no one I'm attracted to That's why it gets to me. Also, because I'm lonely and hate any sort of "PDA"...can't even stand when I see people holding hands
*hugs*

Might as well answer the rest of the questions...
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? I'm single...and male...that sufficient enough?
What're your views on anal sex? I also like men way more than women...
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? I like men way more than women but I still like both(all three ^.^) but I don't think I could handle a 3some...that being said I don't know if I could handle one on one...

Took me a second to realize what PDA meant. Yeah... I hate that too and have talked about it before. (why the hell do I keep dwelling on this?????)
It hurts to even see a couple holding hands. I could get into detail, but that would just make me throw my keyboard against the wall >>

There were more questions? *checks*
Huh. Well, I suppose I'll answer those as well:

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
-Are you kidding? It's upwards of 4 times a day and has been for almost 5 years.
What're your views on anal sex?
- Don't like it. It's just weird. I'd imagine it'd just hurt horribly for both parties and I want nothing to do with it. Oral sex on the other hand....
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)?
-Eh, I don't know. Maybe if I got enough confidence I might but as of now, I'll happily just take one person.

 

[Julianking93]

Me too, especially since I'm the definitely more of the "pure-hearted love" type... and can I move in that corner with you and Julian?

That is honestly what makes me happy in all of this. That I, and thankfully a few others, identify more with the romantic sexual encounter rather than simply wanting to fuck anything and everything.

And yes... you can

 

[spartan1077]

Corner is open to everyone like us

Ya, and at school I see people constantly making out and stuff. Makes me want to walk up to them and just smash them in the face...why do I keep coming here

Also, 4 times a day? Shit, I don't get that much private time...

 

[KingKamor]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter?' Not with a stranger, if that's what you're talking about.

Have you had sex? Yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? I was 18, and so was my girlfriend. We went on a hike on the local mountain because my parents were away until the next day or so. Got back home and closed the blinds in my room. It wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be, since she was a virgin until that day, as well.

How many people have you slept with? Only one.

What are your views on 'casual sex?' If that's your thing, then go for it. I don't think that I would do it too often if given the chance, but that's just me.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? I always had a distinct mission of "everything must go as planned," while I went out with her, so we actually went through the trouble of using both methods at the same time.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? I, personally have not received or given oral sex, so I wouldn't know.

Also, do you masturbate? Yes.

What're your views on anal sex? As long as it's not in me, then have at. Haven't actually done it, myself.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? It's one of my dreams to be at the center of attention of two women. I'd shoot off two fast if more than two were involved.

Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? Probably not.


I'm actually taking a Human Sexuality class this semester in college. We just started up last week so we haven't gotten around to talking much yet, but I'm looking forward to it.

 

[Dango]

Corner is open to everyone like us

Ya, and at school I see people constantly making out and stuff. Makes me want to walk up to them and just smash them in the face...why do I keep coming here

Also, 4 times a day? Shit, I don't get that much private time...

Oddly I don't really see people making out in school. I mean I see people kissing and holding hands but most of the people at my school are good enough people that they just don't do that. This lead me to believe that most of the people in my grade generally avoided things like sex... but then after spending a night gossiping among friends, I found out I was really, really wrong... and lonely, too

 

[Julianking93]

Corner is open to everyone like us

Ya, and at school I see people constantly making out and stuff. Makes me want to walk up to them and just smash them in the face...why do I keep coming here

Also, 4 times a day? Shit, I don't get that much private time...

That's the worst of it. Though, I'm no longer in school (thank fucking god!) but I'm always out in town and I see teen couples together like that... really just makes me want to cry. I find it odd to take solace in something so mean but... and I may be lying to myself by saying this.... I find it comforting somehow knowing it's just a stupid teen romance that probably means nothing... that's not healthy, is it? >>

And yes.... what you don't do it that much? I mean, fuck that's normally cutting back for me. If there's nothing else to do, I'll just... you know. Or if I can't go to sleep, I'll keep doing it until I can't anymore or put myself into a coma... is that a good thing? No... yeah, no probably >>

 

[DefunctTheory]

And yes.... what you don't do it that much? I mean, fuck that's normally cutting back for me. If there's nothing else to do, I'll just... you know. Or if I can't go to sleep, I'll keep doing it until I can't anymore or put myself into a coma... is that a good thing? No... yeah, no probably >>

Its probably not a good thing, but hell, who am I to judge. I've beat myself to sleep more than a few times.

 

[spartan1077]

Oddly I don't really see people making out in school. I mean I see people kissing and holding hands but most of the people at my school are good enough people that they just don't do that. This lead me to believe that most of the people in my grade generally avoided things like sex... but then after spending a night gossiping among friends, I found out I was really, really wrong... and lonely, too

I don't see them making out during school hours, usually just laugh and hold hands and(wow this makes me feel sad) kiss and things, but waiting for the buses to come, it's like a pg-13 orgy...and I'm just standing there feeling like crying sometimes...and the people in my school "fuck like rabbits" we have tons of pregnant teenagers and every weekend there is a "semi" which is basically "Dress like a whore(or if you're a guy, in a tight t-shirt), go to someone's house, get wasted on beer(illegally), get stoned, have a bunch of sex with every"...I think sex holds more than pleasure personally

And yes.... what you don't do it that much? I mean, fuck that's normally cutting back for me. If there's nothing else to do, I'll just... you know. Or if I can't go to sleep, I'll keep doing it until I can't anymore or put myself into a coma... is that a good thing? No... yeah, no probably >>

I can't do it that much...for one, the internet is monitored so that means no Porn. For two, I don't get that much time in private...although I usually do it to go to sleep or in the morning to have incentive to get up :/
If I did it every time I was horny though...

And I'm going to start thinking that way. That all those asshole couples will break up anyways...

 

[Not G. Ivingname]

I am kind of scared and jealous that so many people have done it for years and I still a virgin at 18.

 

[KingKamor]

And yes.... what you don't do it that much? I mean, fuck that's normally cutting back for me. If there's nothing else to do, I'll just... you know. Or if I can't go to sleep, I'll keep doing it until I can't anymore or put myself into a coma... is that a good thing? No... yeah, no probably >>

And I thought that my own once-a-day routine was pushing it. Guess it's different for everyone. Then again, I live with two roommates, and can usually find something to do between video games, anime, or reading. Plus, I'm still in college, so yeah.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

My prostate is a hot bed of cancer, not a g-spot, thank you very much.

...? Are you saying you have/had prostate cancer? If so, I'm very sorry.

However, biologically speaking, when an embryo differenciates to either male or female, there's a little organ that turns either into the g-spot or the prostate, depending on your gender. So it really is the same thing, and it works pretty much the same way if stimulated properly.

If you're joking or saying that you will never use it as such, then I will stick my tongue out at you and make a squinty face. Assuming, again, that you don't have cancer.

 

[Johanthemonster666]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
What're your views on anal sex?
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?

1) Yes



2)I was 17, lost it to an ex-boyfriend who I asked just so I could feel what it was like. (big mistake that I regret) Losing your virginity is overhyped.

3) I assume they do, though they prefer not to ask about that; it's a little strange to hear about your child's sexual experiences when health and saftey aren't an issue.


4) 4 partners technically, oral sex and frotting have been predominate (I've only had intercourse with one Exe and my current boyfriend)

5) Consented open relationships,"casual" encounters, friends with benefits are all an individual's or couple's choice. Whatever makes the person happy and what conditions, precaution's are made to ensure that the people involed are safe.


6)I'm a guy who likes guys, so this question is irrelevant as far as birth control is concerned. My first time was protected and 99% of my romps since then have been with a condom.


Unprotected anal sex with many casual partners, new boyfriends or with "fuck buddies" is a big no-no in my book. I've only had unprotected sex with my current boyfriend after waiting 11 months and getting my blood screened for STIs for his peace of mind(he's was a virgin, so I didn't have to worry about him.) Besides, we wear condoms every now and then anyway, it just keeps things clean.

7) I love oral sex, and I take pride in "tending" to my boyfriend in that department
Oral sex takes practice, and it requires trust, care, and being careful about STIs just as much as with intercourse (aka, don't carelessly blow random people unless you're willing to contract Genital Herpes, Hep.C and so on)

8) Of course I masterbate, and it's everyone's right to do so as often as they want.

9) Anal sex, pegging, or anal play in general can be awesome (for gay, bi or straight men) but requires basically everything I've already mentioned to make hitting "the male G-spot" a fun and pleasurable activity e.g. trust, communication, taking it slow, being gentle and USING PLENTY OF LUBRICATION. I enjoy it (giving or recieving)

Having said this, anal sex isn't for everyone and that's cool.


Ironically, when they polled couples in major metro-area cities across the US, anal sex was practice by heterosexual couples (guys and girls) far more than with gay couples (most of the gay couples that responded prefered oral sex)

10) It's crossed my mind, and my boyfriend has discussed it with me. But our relationship is monogomous and we think it best to keep it that way for now. Threesomes aren't entirely out of the question so long as he and I want to try.

Group sex is too much for me. It may be nice to fantasize about, but I prefer to keep my attention on one person. Even threesomes are easier to direct so that all three individuals get attention and can switch positions more easily.

 

[Dango]

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Don't worry, I kinda think the same thing. But I take comfort in that mainly because most of the guys in my school are the kind who seek relationships just because for sex, so if the couple breaks up, it means less sex, which for some reason makes me happy... so yeah I try to stay as positive as possible about it.

 

[Irridium]

I am kind of scared and jealous that so many people have done it for years and I still a virgin at 18.

Eh, don't be. Doesn't live up to the hype.

OT: I'd answer all those, but I'm too tired/lazy. So I'll just go with "yes". Wasn't that great to be honest.

 

[ajemas]

I'm a male, by the way.
Not as far as oral sex, but yes.
Nope.
I was 16, and I was such an idiot. I wish that I could go back in time and punch myself sometimes. It was one minor encounter with this one girl, and I should known better.
No.
Zero.
If it doesn't affect me, then whatever. Personally, I no longer have any desire for any kind of intercourse.
God no. I don't trust many people, and I certainly wouldn't believe anybody if they said that they didn't have any STD's. Even if I was somehow brain damaged enough to engage in sexual intercourse, I would wear a condom.
Oh man, the thought of it, someone doing it to me or vice-versa, disgusts me. Jesus, I would rather get punched in the face than go through that.
I do masturbate, but only as a method of physical release. It isn't sexually driven, and is just a physical process. I don't see why I should have to have sex if I can get the same feeling, by myself, without any need to risk pregnancy, STDs, or the woes of personal feelings.
NO. I would have to take the longest shower ever if I did. No... just no.
I start to panic if even ONE person breaks my personal space, how do you think I would feel if it was more than one, in a sexually charged atmosphere? No, I could never ever do it.

As you have probably gathered by this point, I have no desire to lose my virginity. I don't have any interest in sex, and don't plan on getting married or having kids. People tend to be surprised by this, but it's just how I was built.

 

[DefunctTheory]

My prostate is a hot bed of cancer, not a g-spot, thank you very much.

...? Are you saying you have/had prostate cancer? If so, I'm very sorry.

However, biologically speaking, when an embryo differenciates to either male or female, there's a little organ that turns either into the g-spot or the prostate, depending on your gender. So it really is the same thing, and it works pretty much the same way if stimulated properly.

If you're joking or saying that you will never use it as such, then I will stick my tongue out at you and make a squinty face. Assuming, again, that you don't have cancer.

I most likely do have some sort of cancer. I've been exposed to enough radiation to render me sterile, so I have to assume something else is going on in there too. Throw in the toxic environments I've roamed, and a smoking habit of titanic proportions, and I'd be surprised if I am not diagnosed with cancer in the next 5 years.

I do not, however, have prostate cancer. I was merely referring to a common... 'usage' of the prostate that I would prefer, over ramming objects into my ass to get off.

See my previous post for a humorous example of how God spits in my eye over this issue, however.

 

[Dango]

Oddly I don't really see people making out in school. I mean I see people kissing and holding hands but most of the people at my school are good enough people that they just don't do that. This lead me to believe that most of the people in my grade generally avoided things like sex... but then after spending a night gossiping among friends, I found out I was really, really wrong... and lonely, too

I don't see them making out during school hours, usually just laugh and hold hands and(wow this makes me feel sad) kiss and things, but waiting for the buses to come, it's like a pg-13 orgy...and I'm just standing there feeling like crying sometimes...and the people in my school "fuck like rabbits" we have tons of pregnant teenagers and every weekend there is a "semi" which is basically "Dress like a whore(or if you're a guy, in a tight t-shirt), go to someone's house, get wasted on beer(illegally), get stoned, have a bunch of sex with every"...I think sex holds more than pleasure personally

Despite the amount of sex people at my school have, I've never actually heard of anyone getting pregnant (just a few clearly false rumors). But yes, people at my school are constantly getting wasted or stoned when they have free time. That's part of the reason I'm so lonely, really. My friends have started getting drunk and stoned every weekend(fortunately most of the girls don't ... or at least the girls that I kinda like don't), but since I'm not really into that, I just spend the weekends by myself ...And I definitely agree with that last part.

 

[squintzepalladoris]

22 hetero male. Sexual encounter: yes when young, like playing doctor stuff.
Had sex: No
Casual sex: I don't care for it, I guess I'm old-fashioned. I believe sex is something special.
Oral sex: Would love to try it.
Masturbate: Yes, more often than I'd like to admit.
Anal: Would try it.
Threesome: 2 girls and me, yes. 1 girl, 1 guy, and me, no.

 

[spartan1077]

Despite the amount of sex people at my school have, I've never actually heard of anyone getting pregnant (just a few clearly false rumors). But yes, people at my school are constantly getting wasted or stoned when they have free time. That's part of the reason I'm so lonely, really. I'll my friends have started getting drunk and stoned every weekend(fortunately the most of the girls don't ... or at least the girls that I kinda like don't), but since I'm not really into that, I just spend the weekends by myself ...And I definitely agree with that last part.

Ya, when I complain about being lonely people tell me to go to parties. But I'd rather not sit around watching a lot of superficial bitches and straight men get wasted, stoned and go at it, while I'm completely sober and not high. Oh well, maybe I'll find someone I love that lives near me at some point but for now, I'll stay lonely.

 

[qwertyzxy27]

Yes
No
7. i said my hampster dared me to blow the kid in the fold out couch on a sleepover
yes lol
2
Its alright i guess id do it hahaha
i guess i can answer this, somebody better be wearing a condom! i dont want AIDS
Awesome. Dont know
All the time
Anal sex is just fine and dandy with me ;D i think id perfer topping but am not opposed to being the bottom.
No 3somes for me. and lol ya i think i could stomach the same sex being involved hahaha