You made it sound like someone has to WORK for your sexual affection, which is ridiculous. Love may be a labor, but its not some factory for your fun place.yamitami said:
What you explained is reasonable though.
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What you explained is reasonable though.
I have yet to lose it, although a couple of ladies offered to help me with that problem. I turned down the first due to awkward relations with their family, and the second I came very close to having sex with but...well...let's just say we were not expecting her Grandmother to be home so soon.
I guess I could actually have sex if I tried, but I have a crippling fear of intimacy and while I'd like to lose my virginity, it's never been a big deal to me either. Meh.
I guess I could actually have sex if I tried, but I have a crippling fear of intimacy and while I'd like to lose my virginity, it's never been a big deal to me either. Meh.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
yes and yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
i dont particularly remember but it was before 16 with the nanny... she was 18... yeah...
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
no they didnt knew at the time
How many people have you slept with?
lets just say "several
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
its fine, as long as both parties know what they are doing and are mature enough to carry on with the consecuences
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
yes, the "VD" rate in the place i live is very very very low, so the chanse of me "getting" something of the sort is close to zero
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
i dont think its better than normal sex, i think its more of a "prelude" for formal sex (lets just skip that "normal" think ok? nothing is ever "normal" with sex)
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
yes i do
What're your views on anal sex?
i feel exactly the same with anal or vaginal sex, its just my mind that makes he "think" its better "holly!! she actually did it!!!!"
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
yes and no, i dont really like the male body i find it repulsive (yes even my own) so i wouldnt dare to do it with another guy and a girl
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
nah, i think you covered it all!
Have you had sex?
yes and yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
i dont particularly remember but it was before 16 with the nanny... she was 18... yeah...
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
no they didnt knew at the time
How many people have you slept with?
lets just say "several
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
its fine, as long as both parties know what they are doing and are mature enough to carry on with the consecuences
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
yes, the "VD" rate in the place i live is very very very low, so the chanse of me "getting" something of the sort is close to zero
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
i dont think its better than normal sex, i think its more of a "prelude" for formal sex (lets just skip that "normal" think ok? nothing is ever "normal" with sex)
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
yes i do
What're your views on anal sex?
i feel exactly the same with anal or vaginal sex, its just my mind that makes he "think" its better "holly!! she actually did it!!!!"
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
yes and no, i dont really like the male body i find it repulsive (yes even my own) so i wouldnt dare to do it with another guy and a girl
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
nah, i think you covered it all!
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
-Yes
Have you had sex?
-Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
-20 or 21, which I'm guessing puts me at the older end of people who have had sex. (Also, I feel pretty terrible about not remembering my age since it wasn't that long ago but it was close to my birthday so that's my excuse.)
-With boyfriend who was decidedly more experienced than I was but also decidedly more nervous. The whole shebang took two separate attempts because he was so scared screwing something up that he couldn't hold an erection. On the other hand, I was much more cavalier about it (I mean at the end of the day, it's just sex) which I continue to think is hilarious. My whole life I was never going to have sex until I was in love (I wasn't at the time, but I am now, so maybe it sort of retroactively counts?) and then once I decided to do it I was more "meh" about the whole. (Don't get me wrong, sex is AWESOME, but the first time was like your first time doing anything - a little awkward and amateurish.)
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
-I'm answering this anyway. I had told my mom for years that I was going to call her the morning after having sex for the first time, but I don't think she actually believed that I would. I definitely got a high-pitched TMI over the phone.
How many people have you slept with?
-Just one, and if all goes according to plan, it'll stay that way. Note that this was not how I envisioned things turning out; I figured that a few bad experiences would help me know a good one when it came along. Instead, I randomly ended up losing my virginity to a guy I could see myself spending the rest of my life with (and who feels the same way about me), even though I definitely didn't see it that way at the time.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
-I have a pretty major (somewhat irrational) fear of STIs and babies made by strangers. I'm on birth control, and obviously in a casual sex situation I would be using a condom, but STILL. These things happen and I don't want them to happen to me. So on moral level, it's fine, and on a fantasy level, it's something I would perhaps partake in if I was single, but when it came right down to it I wouldn't be able to follow through with it because I don't want diseases or children thankyouverymuch. (Children maybe later, diseases never.)
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
-As of now, I do not use a condom with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex, condoms were a requirement (on my part, see fear of babies above). Boyfriend didn't like them because of the comfort issue (not sure that's phrased right, but you know what I mean) and because we had to buy the super expensive non-latex ones. (Latex allergies run in my family and we don't THINK I have one, but a reaction down there would be one of the worst ways to find out that I do.) At a doctor's appointment, my doctor asked about my sex life (and high-fived me when I said I finally had one...) and when I mentioned Boyfriend's aversion to condoms he sad that the percentage increase in protection you get from condoms+pill is not enough to offset the hassle if he really doesn't like them and that I was almost definitely fine not using condoms. So I don't. More money in my wallet + happier boyfriend = good thing. (Also, as this is entirely relevant to not using condoms, I made Boyfriend get tested before we had sex the first time. Like I said, irrational fear of diseases.)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
-Oral sex performed on me: meh. Seriously, it is so underwhelming. Maybe this is because anyone who has performed it hasn't been spectacular at it, or maybe it's just not my thing, but either way, I give it a serious meh.
-Oral sex performed BY me: yeahhhh... we're working on this one. Personally, I haven't done it. I'm super Type A, and the idea of being bad at something makes me physically ill. Boyfriend has mentioned that he'd really like it if I did it, but I'm still working up to it. Maybe one day I'll get over my nerves.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
-Yes, and often, but (on a related topic) I have never watched porn. This combination seems to confuse people, but porn's just never been something I've been interested in trying out.
What're your views on anal sex?
-I'm not all "LET'S DO IT WOO" but I wouldn't rule it out if the other person was really into it. However, being the person on the bottom, it would have to be something worked up to slowly over a long period of time (ie, many sexual encounters) with the opportunity to say no at any point.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
-No. This totally weirds me out. I'm (obviously) fine with other people doing it, but it's not something I would want to do. Maybe this is because I've really only had sex with one person (who happens to be the love of my life) and letting someone else in on that seems like an invasion of my relationship. I'm not really sure.
-Yes
Have you had sex?
-Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
-20 or 21, which I'm guessing puts me at the older end of people who have had sex. (Also, I feel pretty terrible about not remembering my age since it wasn't that long ago but it was close to my birthday so that's my excuse.)
-With boyfriend who was decidedly more experienced than I was but also decidedly more nervous. The whole shebang took two separate attempts because he was so scared screwing something up that he couldn't hold an erection. On the other hand, I was much more cavalier about it (I mean at the end of the day, it's just sex) which I continue to think is hilarious. My whole life I was never going to have sex until I was in love (I wasn't at the time, but I am now, so maybe it sort of retroactively counts?) and then once I decided to do it I was more "meh" about the whole. (Don't get me wrong, sex is AWESOME, but the first time was like your first time doing anything - a little awkward and amateurish.)
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
-I'm answering this anyway. I had told my mom for years that I was going to call her the morning after having sex for the first time, but I don't think she actually believed that I would. I definitely got a high-pitched TMI over the phone.
How many people have you slept with?
-Just one, and if all goes according to plan, it'll stay that way. Note that this was not how I envisioned things turning out; I figured that a few bad experiences would help me know a good one when it came along. Instead, I randomly ended up losing my virginity to a guy I could see myself spending the rest of my life with (and who feels the same way about me), even though I definitely didn't see it that way at the time.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
-I have a pretty major (somewhat irrational) fear of STIs and babies made by strangers. I'm on birth control, and obviously in a casual sex situation I would be using a condom, but STILL. These things happen and I don't want them to happen to me. So on moral level, it's fine, and on a fantasy level, it's something I would perhaps partake in if I was single, but when it came right down to it I wouldn't be able to follow through with it because I don't want diseases or children thankyouverymuch. (Children maybe later, diseases never.)
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
-As of now, I do not use a condom with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex, condoms were a requirement (on my part, see fear of babies above). Boyfriend didn't like them because of the comfort issue (not sure that's phrased right, but you know what I mean) and because we had to buy the super expensive non-latex ones. (Latex allergies run in my family and we don't THINK I have one, but a reaction down there would be one of the worst ways to find out that I do.) At a doctor's appointment, my doctor asked about my sex life (and high-fived me when I said I finally had one...) and when I mentioned Boyfriend's aversion to condoms he sad that the percentage increase in protection you get from condoms+pill is not enough to offset the hassle if he really doesn't like them and that I was almost definitely fine not using condoms. So I don't. More money in my wallet + happier boyfriend = good thing. (Also, as this is entirely relevant to not using condoms, I made Boyfriend get tested before we had sex the first time. Like I said, irrational fear of diseases.)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
-Oral sex performed on me: meh. Seriously, it is so underwhelming. Maybe this is because anyone who has performed it hasn't been spectacular at it, or maybe it's just not my thing, but either way, I give it a serious meh.
-Oral sex performed BY me: yeahhhh... we're working on this one. Personally, I haven't done it. I'm super Type A, and the idea of being bad at something makes me physically ill. Boyfriend has mentioned that he'd really like it if I did it, but I'm still working up to it. Maybe one day I'll get over my nerves.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
-Yes, and often, but (on a related topic) I have never watched porn. This combination seems to confuse people, but porn's just never been something I've been interested in trying out.
What're your views on anal sex?
-I'm not all "LET'S DO IT WOO" but I wouldn't rule it out if the other person was really into it. However, being the person on the bottom, it would have to be something worked up to slowly over a long period of time (ie, many sexual encounters) with the opportunity to say no at any point.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
-No. This totally weirds me out. I'm (obviously) fine with other people doing it, but it's not something I would want to do. Maybe this is because I've really only had sex with one person (who happens to be the love of my life) and letting someone else in on that seems like an invasion of my relationship. I'm not really sure.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) Nope can't say that I have.
Have you had sex? ^ nope
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I don't support it but it's none of my business what others do behind closed doors.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Only with someone I trust.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
tempting, but no probably not. I'm a one girl kinda guy. Same sex is also out of the question. I'm a really jealous person, I wouldn't be able to handle it, plus I'd be to scared of touching the guy...ewww
Have you had sex? ^ nope
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I don't support it but it's none of my business what others do behind closed doors.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Only with someone I trust.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
tempting, but no probably not. I'm a one girl kinda guy. Same sex is also out of the question. I'm a really jealous person, I wouldn't be able to handle it, plus I'd be to scared of touching the guy...ewww
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes.
Have you had sex?
I've certainly drilled the hole, my good chap.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
I was 19. It wasn't that bad. I wouldn't say it was the best I've ever had, but it certainly wasn't the stereotypical 'OH MY GOD HOW DO I PUT IT IN THERE AND OMG OMG OMG OMG WHAT DO I DO NOW THIS IS SO AWKWAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUH..!"
It was over fast, though.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
Just like I do not acknowledge the sexual life of my parents (they stopped after conceiving me, mind you), they do not acnowledge mine. Of course, we all know that everybody has sex. So there's that.
How many people have you slept with?
Four.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Nothing wrong with that. It's what I would enjoy, if I would not be in a relationship. I am of the opinion that everyone is, deep inside, a slut. This certainly goes for the men. We just want to sleep and dick around.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Yeah, every once in a while. Although we (my girlfriend and I) usually use a condom because it's less messy afterwards. I have been tested for STD's before we started banging, so no icky yicky sicky-business.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
To be fair, I love getting it. I'm less keen on giving it. But you give love, you get love. I'll get by.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I never masturbate because I'm a TRUE man and I have a girlfriend and I have lots of sex and I never lie and, oh stop it. Of course I do. Everyone, some sexually repressed or troubled individuals excluded, masturbates.
What're your views on anal sex?
I don't like it. To be fair, I've never rammed my Long Kok up someone's butt, but... you know... I don't want to. Shit comes out of that end. I would be unable to control my thoughts, wondering with every thrust if she wipes her arse properly.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
I don't know... There's only so much of me to get around to give women pleasure, and someone of the same sex would be kind of gay...
Yes.
Have you had sex?
I've certainly drilled the hole, my good chap.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
I was 19. It wasn't that bad. I wouldn't say it was the best I've ever had, but it certainly wasn't the stereotypical 'OH MY GOD HOW DO I PUT IT IN THERE AND OMG OMG OMG OMG WHAT DO I DO NOW THIS IS SO AWKWAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUH..!"
It was over fast, though.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
Just like I do not acknowledge the sexual life of my parents (they stopped after conceiving me, mind you), they do not acnowledge mine. Of course, we all know that everybody has sex. So there's that.
How many people have you slept with?
Four.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Nothing wrong with that. It's what I would enjoy, if I would not be in a relationship. I am of the opinion that everyone is, deep inside, a slut. This certainly goes for the men. We just want to sleep and dick around.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Yeah, every once in a while. Although we (my girlfriend and I) usually use a condom because it's less messy afterwards. I have been tested for STD's before we started banging, so no icky yicky sicky-business.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
To be fair, I love getting it. I'm less keen on giving it. But you give love, you get love. I'll get by.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I never masturbate because I'm a TRUE man and I have a girlfriend and I have lots of sex and I never lie and, oh stop it. Of course I do. Everyone, some sexually repressed or troubled individuals excluded, masturbates.
What're your views on anal sex?
I don't like it. To be fair, I've never rammed my Long Kok up someone's butt, but... you know... I don't want to. Shit comes out of that end. I would be unable to control my thoughts, wondering with every thrust if she wipes her arse properly.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
I don't know... There's only so much of me to get around to give women pleasure, and someone of the same sex would be kind of gay...
I think i know what you mean, i am just not completely sure about the words "pretending" or "fake", it was more some kind of insecurity "can i really get through with this?seriously?" and then one realises "Yeah, you can get through with nearly everything if you are confident, yeeah", thats the moment where i started to figure out where the boundaries of my new confident freedom were. Intense times. And very fun. My best friend in that years, a girl i knew from school and am now studying with, jokingly called me a whore back then way more than a few timesBara_no_Hime said:
The final result in my case now was, the only boundary of confidence is the how much of a jerk you wanna be.
Nope, and some people think that's weird. Come on, I'm only 20, it's not like I'm an old man just yet!
Have you had sex?
Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
16 and 1/2, probably 17.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
They know I've had sex, my sister found out when and how I first did it. I believe she made plenty of implications. More overtly my former housemate while drunk told my father about a girl I'd (biblically) known.
How many people have you slept with?
Two. (For the purpose of this question I assumed vaginal sex)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
It's certainly fun if it can be kept that way. But it does have a way of complicating stuff.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
With reluctance, I'd have to know the girl and I were both clean. I'd have to know she wasn't crazy or lying about the pill.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Most of my experiences involve teeth, but when done well it's the best thing in the world to wake you up.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?
Never seen the appeal, but if a girl was really keen I'd oblige her (and rethink my choice in women)
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Never again.
Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
16 and 1/2, probably 17.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
They know I've had sex, my sister found out when and how I first did it. I believe she made plenty of implications. More overtly my former housemate while drunk told my father about a girl I'd (biblically) known.
How many people have you slept with?
Two. (For the purpose of this question I assumed vaginal sex)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
It's certainly fun if it can be kept that way. But it does have a way of complicating stuff.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
With reluctance, I'd have to know the girl and I were both clean. I'd have to know she wasn't crazy or lying about the pill.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Most of my experiences involve teeth, but when done well it's the best thing in the world to wake you up.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?
Never seen the appeal, but if a girl was really keen I'd oblige her (and rethink my choice in women)
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Never again.
It's a ton of work, but very rewarding. My little guy's cute as a button.theonlyblaze2 said:Don't listen' to 'em. I personally can't wait to have a kid of my own. None the less, congrats!Nigh Invulnerable said:Yeah, we laugh about it. Though someone else quoted me and was all, "You may want a paternity test. Durr Hurr!" and I'm just thinking, "Screw you, buddy. You don't know me or my wife. Suggesting, even jokingly, that she was not faithful to me is idiotic."theonlyblaze2 said:That will be a great story for when he is older. Or it will be proof that he is Super Man, so watch out!Nigh Invulnerable said:I was over 21 and married my first time. She's the only person I've been with, and to prove it, here's a picture of our son:
EDIT: He's some kind of super baby too, since we were using spermicide with a condom that didn't noticeably break. We're 90% sure of the day he was conceived.
Oh, it started out pretty fake - I acted really wild and crazy. I pretended to be clumsy. One of my friends described me as "psychotic". But I did make a lot of friends - my social life exploded. Having lots of friend raised my confidence a little, and I was a little less insane, and my friends stuck around (and some grew deeper) which raised my confidence more.Fetzenfisch said:I think i know what you mean, i am just not completely sure about the words "pretending" or "fake", it was more some kind of insecurity "can i really get through with this?seriously?" and then one realises "Yeah, you can get through with nearly everything if you are confident, yeeah", thats the moment where i started to figure out where the boundaries of my new confident freedom were. Intense times. And very fun. My best friend in that years, a girl i knew from school and am now studying with, jokingly called me a whore back then way more than a few timesBara_no_Hime said:
Anyway, yeah, that's how I turned from the scared wall-flower into the flirty, slutty, confident sex-bomb I am now. **ironic smile** I'm modest too.
^ This.ultimateownage said:
The more serious response?
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Nope.
Have you had sex?
No, I'm 14.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
N/A
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
N/A
How many people have you slept with?
N/A
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
IMO, I wouldn't do it, but I have no problems if people want to do it.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Depends if I trust her and both of us were tested. If I don't know her, might as well put it on.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I don't know.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I have...
What're your views on anal sex?
I'm not going to answer this.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
IMO, I couldn't care less, but some guys might be too selfish, if you know what I mean.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
No, It's OK.
And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?
Well, I haven't had a girlfriend yet, not to mention... I'm 14, so you can probably see where the rest is going.
Ohohoh, yes.BlueberryMUNCH said:
No, I have not. Was put off by her request for me to "cut her during."
That's fine if both parties are only after sex.
Yes. Yes I would.
Enjoy giving and receiving. Cannot compare to actual sex for obvious reasons.
Yes. Only action I'm getting right now.
I'll pass.
No, I wouldn't.
I only seem to be sexually attractive when I'm taken. And by some of my girlfriend's friends as well! WHY!!?!?!
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
-Yes. And that stuff was pretty dirty.
Have you had sex?
-Nope. My ex was willing to do everything under the sun, except cock in hole. Unless said hole was mouth. Or unless "cock" is replaced with "fingers." Sometimes she would consent, then suddenly freak out and deny, often literally right as I put the rubber on.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
-I would have been 20. I'm nearly 21 now and...no go.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
-Yes, I called my parents right after I finished fingering my girlfriend to her fourth orgasm. With my fingers still wet from all that. They've never expressly asked, nor I expressly told them. It's an unspoken kind of thing.
How many people have you slept with?
-Just the one I mentioned. There was the previous ex who I never got beyond 2nd base with before she friend zoned me.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
-I'm conflicted. I don't like the idea, but it's not for me to judge. Plus, every so often, I do get a little envious of better looking studs who get tail on a weekly or daily basis from unattached women.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
-Not unless she was tested for disease. That shit's nasty.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
-It's fine, though I'm partial to handjobs.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
-Of course, like everybody else.
What're your views on anal sex?
-Not really appealing. Just imagine, you're sticking your dick where shit comes out. And you might cause some farts to unleash...would just kill the mood.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
-Eh, only if there were multiple women. And I'd much rather it be a "single, unattached and not looking for anything special" situation. I could never have my balls rubbing someone else's.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
-I'm two weeks from my 21st birthday and still a virgin. Though oddly enough, no one seems to know it. A lot of my friends knew I was in a committed relationship (for half a year, anyway) before things went south, they just assumed we had sex as most couples do and had the decency not to interrogate me about it. I can't say I'm too upset about still being a virgin at my age, though I do fear the one day that it's finally about to happen and she figures it out. Then rejects me because of it. I've heard of it happening before: can't quite figure out why it does, but there you have it.
-Yes. And that stuff was pretty dirty.
Have you had sex?
-Nope. My ex was willing to do everything under the sun, except cock in hole. Unless said hole was mouth. Or unless "cock" is replaced with "fingers." Sometimes she would consent, then suddenly freak out and deny, often literally right as I put the rubber on.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
-I would have been 20. I'm nearly 21 now and...no go.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
-Yes, I called my parents right after I finished fingering my girlfriend to her fourth orgasm. With my fingers still wet from all that. They've never expressly asked, nor I expressly told them. It's an unspoken kind of thing.
How many people have you slept with?
-Just the one I mentioned. There was the previous ex who I never got beyond 2nd base with before she friend zoned me.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
-I'm conflicted. I don't like the idea, but it's not for me to judge. Plus, every so often, I do get a little envious of better looking studs who get tail on a weekly or daily basis from unattached women.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
-Not unless she was tested for disease. That shit's nasty.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
-It's fine, though I'm partial to handjobs.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
-Of course, like everybody else.
What're your views on anal sex?
-Not really appealing. Just imagine, you're sticking your dick where shit comes out. And you might cause some farts to unleash...would just kill the mood.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
-Eh, only if there were multiple women. And I'd much rather it be a "single, unattached and not looking for anything special" situation. I could never have my balls rubbing someone else's.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
-I'm two weeks from my 21st birthday and still a virgin. Though oddly enough, no one seems to know it. A lot of my friends knew I was in a committed relationship (for half a year, anyway) before things went south, they just assumed we had sex as most couples do and had the decency not to interrogate me about it. I can't say I'm too upset about still being a virgin at my age, though I do fear the one day that it's finally about to happen and she figures it out. Then rejects me because of it. I've heard of it happening before: can't quite figure out why it does, but there you have it.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) Yes
Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? 14. 2 weeks before my 15th birthday, was with my long term boyfriend, we are going out for 1 year and decided to take it to the next level, I was with him for another 2 years. We broke up just because the relationship naturally ran its course. We are still good friends, I would never regret the fact I lost my virginity then. The actually action was pleasant not as some others have been.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.) My Dad did, I have a close relationship with him. My mother found out we were having sex (when I was 15) went mental but then got used to it.
How many people have you slept with? 6
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Not for me. I see sex as a pararel to how well you know someone mentally, I like the closeness and initmacy of sex. But if you want to go and do it then feel free.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yes. Its sooo much better, but however get checked first.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? All part of the fun
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Stupid question
What're your views on anal sex? Tried it, not for me.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? Have done, part of being pan sexual means I don't spend time on a person's biological sex. Part of my experimentation phase. Don't think I would go back to it again.
Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? 14. 2 weeks before my 15th birthday, was with my long term boyfriend, we are going out for 1 year and decided to take it to the next level, I was with him for another 2 years. We broke up just because the relationship naturally ran its course. We are still good friends, I would never regret the fact I lost my virginity then. The actually action was pleasant not as some others have been.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.) My Dad did, I have a close relationship with him. My mother found out we were having sex (when I was 15) went mental but then got used to it.
How many people have you slept with? 6
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Not for me. I see sex as a pararel to how well you know someone mentally, I like the closeness and initmacy of sex. But if you want to go and do it then feel free.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yes. Its sooo much better, but however get checked first.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? All part of the fun
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Stupid question
What're your views on anal sex? Tried it, not for me.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? Have done, part of being pan sexual means I don't spend time on a person's biological sex. Part of my experimentation phase. Don't think I would go back to it again.
This phenomenon, it might be as old as the times of the first washed and shaved human being (when it was possible to tell the cavemen apartRobCoxxy said:
), is indeed mysterious. My personal experiments showed me, that it might have something to do with having fun without looking for the flirts at all.
For whatever reasons being not interested makes yourself more interesting.
And i guess it might be one of Stinson's laws that it can be learned and utilized
Have you had sex? Yes.
How old were you when you first did? 19
Wanna tell us about your first experience? Summer season fling/bit of fun, really. Lovely guy, and without going into too much detail, it was 'enjoyable'
Do your parents know? They know. Not that we've ever really discussed it.
How many people have you slept with? 4
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? So long as both parties know that's the situation, it's fine. "Leading people on" however, isn't, and always leads to complications further on down the line.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Have done, whilst on the pill/implant. I was in a long-term relationship, and we'd both been tested.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? I prefer giving to recieving. Apparently that's fairly uncommon(?) - so I've been told, anyhow, but having a guy go down on me... I dunno, makes me feel on edge, and I can't relax and enjoy it. Doesn't repulse me, and I do enjoy giving oral sex, and find it a turn on.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Occasionally.
What're your views on anal sex? Never done it, so can't really comment. Would try it, if asked by a partner that I trusted.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? Don't think so. I don't think I'd be all that comfortable with the idea, which would probably make for a negative experience.
How old were you when you first did? 19
Wanna tell us about your first experience? Summer season fling/bit of fun, really. Lovely guy, and without going into too much detail, it was 'enjoyable'
Do your parents know? They know. Not that we've ever really discussed it.
How many people have you slept with? 4
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? So long as both parties know that's the situation, it's fine. "Leading people on" however, isn't, and always leads to complications further on down the line.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Have done, whilst on the pill/implant. I was in a long-term relationship, and we'd both been tested.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? I prefer giving to recieving. Apparently that's fairly uncommon(?) - so I've been told, anyhow, but having a guy go down on me... I dunno, makes me feel on edge, and I can't relax and enjoy it. Doesn't repulse me, and I do enjoy giving oral sex, and find it a turn on.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Occasionally.
What're your views on anal sex? Never done it, so can't really comment. Would try it, if asked by a partner that I trusted.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? Don't think so. I don't think I'd be all that comfortable with the idea, which would probably make for a negative experience.
My first time having sex was when I was 20 I think. Funny story... I met a girl on WoW. We flirted a ton, voice chatted etc. Eventually spent a week together and had a glorious amount of sex. It was pretty good tho I only really knew what I knew from porn so, I'd be better now I'm sure. Anyway it wasn't the mindblowing experience people make it out to be sometimes.
Before that I've fooled around a bit. Like touching... I guess when I was 17/18. My first gf gave me some awesome handjobs lol.
Before that I've fooled around a bit. Like touching... I guess when I was 17/18. My first gf gave me some awesome handjobs lol.
Haha yeah this. Apparently quite of a few of my gf's friends like me. Ranging from one who's a bit obsessed (she found a guy who anyone would swear is my twin) to another girl who said to my gf she wants to find a guy just like me... etc... and yet when it took me like 2 years to find a girl since my last relationship. WTF girls!?!Fetzenfisch said:This phenomenon, it might be as old as the times of the first washed and shaved human being (when it was possible to tell the cavemen apartRobCoxxy said:
My personal experiments showed me, that it might have something to do with having fun without looking for the flirts at all.
For whatever reasons being not interested makes yourself more interesting.
And i guess it might be one of Stinson's laws that it can be learned and utilized
Have you had sex?
Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
18. it was awkward, uncomfortable and we both had no idea what the hell we were doing
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
They didn't know officially until I was 21. Before then they could only assume I was a bad Christian... Which I was
How many people have you slept with?
At this point? around 21
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I'm not going to go out and find someone at the bar. I will sleep with someone outside of a relationship, but it;s going to be with someone I care about and know. I'm not the guy to break trust.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
We have to be actually dating for me to let the rascal free, and even then I'm hesitant. I'm young and she (I will assume) would be too... we don't need a minion
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Oral sex is personal and if done right fantastic. Also, I happen to be amazing at it (and that's by testimonials)[/B]
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Everyone masturbates, it's just a matter of how much.
What're your views on anal sex?
Things go out, not in.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Did it before, not really interested to do it again. it was just a lot of extra work and not a lot of fun in the end.
Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
18. it was awkward, uncomfortable and we both had no idea what the hell we were doing
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
They didn't know officially until I was 21. Before then they could only assume I was a bad Christian... Which I was
How many people have you slept with?
At this point? around 21
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I'm not going to go out and find someone at the bar. I will sleep with someone outside of a relationship, but it;s going to be with someone I care about and know. I'm not the guy to break trust.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
We have to be actually dating for me to let the rascal free, and even then I'm hesitant. I'm young and she (I will assume) would be too... we don't need a minion
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Oral sex is personal and if done right fantastic. Also, I happen to be amazing at it (and that's by testimonials)[/B]
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Everyone masturbates, it's just a matter of how much.
What're your views on anal sex?
Things go out, not in.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Did it before, not really interested to do it again. it was just a lot of extra work and not a lot of fun in the end.