the December King said:
You kinda did, though, didn't you? Your series of 'observations' have been laced with references to GamerGate.
You mean that one instance. Which had nothing to do with you.
I didn't want an out, I genuinely wanted to know what you thought. And you're still being confrontational.
No, you're being offended.
And honestly, this is a problem with you. You have said as such before, that you "feel" offended when topics of equity come up because you "feel" like you're automatically painted as the bad guy in such scenarios. This is why I don't normally engage you, because it's impossible to approach you without you "feeling" offended.
And it's not just me, because you've made general comments to the same end. You start from a place of umbrage and work back. I don't like that, and I don't waste my time with it most of the time.
I'll try one more time. Do you think the punishment fit the crime? Your opinion. Not 'facts', not stats, just what you thought of the whole thing, after looking into it, which you appear to have done, to some extent.
But you can't separate the facts from the case. You can't separate these things. This is an absurd contradiction. It's like asking me to define "fruit" without using vowels. And you still haven't clarified. Fits the crime in what sense? By Indiana's standards? By moral standards? By God's standards? By Batman's standards? Because you spoke about it being unfair in that you "felt" a man would not get similar treatment. This does not appear to be true. By the standards of the state of Indiana, it seems "fair." By the standards of US Justice, wherein diminished capacity is also supposed to be into play, it could be considered fair.
Or are you asking if this "feels" right, the same sort of emotional appeal that leads to the sensationalism you complained about before? Because I have a "feeling" that's what you mean, even though it's incongruous to your arguments that a man wouldn't get off like this.
And to be frank, I don't care. I have no interest in emotional appeals. What struck me about this thread was that people were crying "the poor men get treated so horribly this is so unfair!" even though that's not, you know...true. It looks more like, from a real-world perspective, that they simply offer plea bargains to a lot of violent offenders which are quite lenient. But apparently, the facts don't "feel" right, so they don't get factored in. If you can't engage on an intellectual level, I am simply not interested. And since you either cannot or will not do something so simple as investigate to test your "feelings" on the matter, I imagine this conversation is going to end very soon.
But honestly, if you don't like it when the media sensationalises things, maybe you shouldn't sensationalise things, either.
EDIT: To reiterate, there is an actual truth claim here: is this woman being treated differently because she's a woman? People are claiming she is, that this is sexist or unfair or feminism in action based upon this idea that a man would not get off so lightly. So we can evaluate this. I'm aware of multiple instances of similar levels of probation for violent, even repeat offenders who were men, or even who targeted women. As such, this claim appears to be false. I could not find a case with absolute parity (man cuts at a woman's vagina over pedophilia suspicions), so I will admit to a certain degree of doubt, but it seems improbable. If this was a case of feminists getting their way or an unfair bias, we would expect to see cases with women getting probation and house arrest and men not. We do not see this.
That more than half the thread seems to be about a form of sexism that appears to not exist speaks to the interest in honesty that's going on here. People just want to complain about how a man doing the same thing would be treated worse, even if it's false.