Question about sexuality.

[Dreltox]

(I made a bloody account to respond to this. Congrats on an amazing topic!) I'm gay, and I realized it mid making out with a girl. I realized that, well, it just wasn't, "right" for me. I think I had wanted so bad to be heterosexual, only because of the homophobic realm I had used to reside in. I think sexuality is a HUGE deal, particularly in it's conflict with religion. Being raised Roman Catholic, and told that it would mean an instant ticket to hell to be gay, really did not help the realization that I was gay. It also helps greatly in the push to be Atheist. I've never had a problem with straight guys, or girls. Just more over their personality, and as sad as it is, religious beliefs, do kind've hurt my thoughts on them. (I'm not a bigot, I swear!)

 

[Dreltox]

I was going to post hetero male, but then It dawned on me.
I haven`t been attracted to a girl in months. I`ve formed close freindships with them, but haven`t crossed the line into infatuation. And If it does appear, it stays for a few days and then vanishes.

So Im not at all sure about what I am 0.0

I don't want to scare you, but that's exactly how I was/am.

 

[William Dickbringer]

I've always knew I was straight and never really felt as attracted to guys as I do girls
as for should sexual orinrentation goes I really don't care if you're gay straight trans-gender bi

 

[Woodsey]

I am straight. Since that's "normal" I've never had any inner-debate with myself about my sexuality.

Does it matter what people are? For the most part, only if you're uncomfortable in your own sexuality, or are a religious zealot. So no, it doesn't at all.

 

[Dreltox]

I was going to post hetero male, but then It dawned on me.
I haven`t been attracted to a girl in months. I`ve formed close freindships with them, but haven`t crossed the line into infatuation. And If it does appear, it stays for a few days and then vanishes.

So Im not at all sure about what I am 0.0

I don't want to scare you, but that's exactly how I was/am.

That would be interesting. It doesnt scare me at all really, I don`t understand why it would scare me. TBH, Ive been questionisng it for a month or so now.

Well, I suppose what may matter more, is have you found attraction in males? Or no attraction to any gender at all? (Sexually, I mean.)

 

[jawakiller]

I knew I was a heterosexual male since I was five years old in kidergarden. Kissed a girl I knew and thought, "dang, that was fun." From then on I was a womanizing, sex-loving male. Never found any attraction to other males. And no, I'm not in denial. At least I don't think I am... Damn you liberals, making me question my orientation. haha

 

[ninetails593]

It's not much waking up. You go through a denial stage first.

 

[xchurchx]

Im a Straight guy
But my best mate is Asexual IE he isn't atracted to either sex
At the age of 18 id call that a gift as im still having wild teenaged fantasies
WHEN WILL THEY END???!!!

 

[Dreltox]

I was going to post hetero male, but then It dawned on me.
I haven`t been attracted to a girl in months. I`ve formed close freindships with them, but haven`t crossed the line into infatuation. And If it does appear, it stays for a few days and then vanishes.

So Im not at all sure about what I am 0.0

I don't want to scare you, but that's exactly how I was/am.

That would be interesting. It doesnt scare me at all really, I don`t understand why it would scare me. TBH, Ive been questionisng it for a month or so now.

Well, I suppose what may matter more, is have you found attraction in males? Or no attraction to any gender at all? (Sexually, I mean.)

The attraction to girls is there but..... meh. Why bother? Im at the age where most males only think about looks, and while they are pretty, they`ve got some development left in the personality department. And I tend to look for both.

So I guess this is me, using standards that should be reserved for adults, setting myself up for some failure.

Aaaah. I understand that. Today's portrayal of a pretty woman isn't exactly 1950s acting like a lady. I think a sub-conscious push into my homosexuality, if that such factors exist, were things like Kim Kardashian (I know she's new, she's the only famous only because she had a sex tape example I can think of.), and how they acted. Did I want to be around that? Or some nice guy who isn't a stupid spoiled whore? I don't think you're setting up for failure. Waiting til the personality matures is probably one of the best things one could do, regardless of sexuality.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I was going to post hetero male, but then It dawned on me.
I haven`t been attracted to a girl in months. I`ve formed close freindships with them, but haven`t crossed the line into infatuation. And If it does appear, it stays for a few days and then vanishes.

So Im not at all sure about what I am 0.0

I had a crush on a girl for a long time before it finally got through my thick skull that nothing would ever happen between us. I tried to date other girls for a bit, but nothing really felt "right" there. Then I met my current gf, and we've been together for almost a year now. Sometimes it just takes the right person to get your interest back into such things. I wouldn't worry so much about being gay because you haven't been attracted to girls in a while. I remember seeing tons of girls and thinking, "Hey, they're pretty." but that's about as deep a thought as I put into them unless I actually spoke to them. As I said before though, I had issues with finding someone worth dating for a while. XD

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

(I made a bloody account to respond to this. Congrats on an amazing topic!) I'm gay, and I realized it mid making out with a girl. I realized that, well, it just wasn't, "right" for me. I think I had wanted so bad to be heterosexual, only because of the homophobic realm I had used to reside in. I think sexuality is a HUGE deal, particularly in it's conflict with religion. Being raised Roman Catholic, and told that it would mean an instant ticket to hell to be gay, really did not help the realization that I was gay. It also helps greatly in the push to be Atheist. I've never had a problem with straight guys, or girls. Just more over their personality, and as sad as it is, religious beliefs, do kind've hurt my thoughts on them. (I'm not a bigot, I swear!)

My argument about homosexuality and religion is fairly simple.

If you're born gay, God made you that way, and who is man to judge God's will?
If being gay is a choice, God gave man free will, and if it is a sin, it can be forgiven, so again, who is man to judge?

Of course, I'm not Catholic, so I doubt it would be as cut and dry as that. You'd be surprised at how many people that argument shuts up though. XD

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I knew I was a heterosexual male since I was five years old in kidergarden. Kissed a girl I knew and thought, "dang, that was fun." From then on I was a womanizing, sex-loving male. Never found any attraction to other males. And no, I'm not in denial. At least I don't think I am... Damn you liberals, making me question my orientation. haha

I'm a conservative, but thanks for playing. XD

I've always been curious about this type of thing though. I've never questioned my sexuality, and I know several gay/bi people that have always felt that they were gay/bi, so I was wondering how people came to be the way they are. If they've always been like that or if they realized it later in life.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Im a Straight guy
But my best mate is Asexual IE he isn't atracted to either sex
At the age of 18 id call that a gift as im still having wild teenaged fantasies
WHEN WILL THEY END???!!!

One of two answers.

1) They won't.
2) If you get a gf and get laid. XD

 

[Klopy]

Does sexuality really matter?

I don't think it does in most cases. The word itself means nothing to me, hetero or homo. If it impacts their character, then I suppose it does.

I'm a heterosexual, and a straight furry. I heard about furres and didn't understand them at all... so I inquired around and met some cool people. If sexuality didn't matter, I probably wouldn't have had a second thought about it and never made the friendships that I still value.

It sucks, though, about all of the backlash toward the furry community. If more people had the same conversations I had, there probably would be more understanding and less hate.

 

[Dreltox]

(I made a bloody account to respond to this. Congrats on an amazing topic!) I'm gay, and I realized it mid making out with a girl. I realized that, well, it just wasn't, "right" for me. I think I had wanted so bad to be heterosexual, only because of the homophobic realm I had used to reside in. I think sexuality is a HUGE deal, particularly in it's conflict with religion. Being raised Roman Catholic, and told that it would mean an instant ticket to hell to be gay, really did not help the realization that I was gay. It also helps greatly in the push to be Atheist. I've never had a problem with straight guys, or girls. Just more over their personality, and as sad as it is, religious beliefs, do kind've hurt my thoughts on them. (I'm not a bigot, I swear!)

My argument about homosexuality and religion is fairly simple.

If you're born gay, God made you that way, and who is man to judge God's will?
If being gay is a choice, God gave man free will, and if it is a sin, it can be forgiven, so again, who is man to judge?

Of course, I'm not Catholic, so I doubt it would be as cut and dry as that. You'd be surprised at how many people that argument shuts up though. XD

You have no idea. I've tried discussing this to my awful Uncle (whom does not know I'm gay.) He has an explanation for it all. I don't believe he even cares about who they are, if they're gay, it's an instant they're evil.

 

[ApeShapeDeity]

Well, when I was about 19 I was out with some friends and we were all drinking quite a lot. One of the guys was a (pretty handsome) carpenter, and he kissed me...

It was at that very moment I realised that I was simply, purely and irrevokeably STRAIGHT!

If had ever been curious at all before that, it cured me of it forever.

P.S. A person's sexuality DOES matter, to them. Personally, it's none of my business...