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Nwabudike Morgan

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Well, if you're going to be stuck with an obsessive stalker, try to get some free shit off of her. Lemons, lemonade, and so on.
 

Aztek463

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Abort! Abort! The differences in beliefs and whatnot can be worked around...but if she's acting this clingy after only a short time, it's time to pull out (no pun intended) as soon as possible, if not sooner.
 

Chris0132

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It doesn't really matter what you do, the worst she might do is go insane and stab you to death in your sleep but that's really unlikely and you'd be dead afterwards and therefore not in a position to care.

The worst think you're likely to effect is a hissy fit, which you can simply ignore, so I would suggest simply airing your complaints to her and see how she reacts.
 

Internet Kraken

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Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
 

Daveman

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right... now you gotta be a massive dick to this girl. MAKE her WANT to leave you alone.
 

Nwabudike Morgan

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Internet Kraken said:
Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
I think you missed the part where it was revealed that she's completely fucking nuts.
 

Internet Kraken

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Nwabudike Morgan said:
Internet Kraken said:
Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
I think you missed the part where it was revealed that she's completely fucking nuts.
I wouldn't say she's completely fucking nuts just because of that.
 

nolongerhere

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Ah. If she truly believes she is in love with you after so little time, then you may have a problem [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Yandere] walking away from it.

I admit I'm exagerating, but still, she does sound as if she's not all there, and that the bit that isn't there ran away from the crazy that is there. I would suggest letting her down gently, and keeping your doors locked at night.
 

Julianking93

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Internet Kraken said:
Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
Goddamn It, I do accept the fact that we have different beliefs, that's not the problem.

The problem is that she has the exact opposite morals as I do and she's completely bonkers over me now and won't leave me alone.
 

Nwabudike Morgan

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Internet Kraken said:
Nwabudike Morgan said:
Internet Kraken said:
Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
I think you missed the part where it was revealed that she's completely fucking nuts.
I wouldn't say she's completely fucking nuts just because of that.
Did you read the update?
 

Julianking93

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theflyingpeanut said:
Ah. If she truly believes she is in love with you after so little time, then you may have a problem [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Yandere] walking away from it.

I admit I'm exagerating, but still, she does sound as if she's not all there, and that the bit that isn't there ran away from the crazy that is there. I would suggest letting her down gently, and keeping your doors locked at night.
Jesus Christ, that's the perfect definition of her. I'm in trouble aren't I?
 

Internet Kraken

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Nwabudike Morgan said:
Internet Kraken said:
Nwabudike Morgan said:
Internet Kraken said:
Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
I think you missed the part where it was revealed that she's completely fucking nuts.
I wouldn't say she's completely fucking nuts just because of that.
Did you read the update?
Yes

Julianking93 said:
Internet Kraken said:
Well it sounds like this girl really cares about you if she was so concerned about where you went. So clearly she is able to tolerate the fact that you two have different opinions. Why can't you?
Goddamn It, I do accept the fact that we have different beliefs, that's not the problem.

The problem is that she has the exact opposite morals as I do and she's completely bonkers over me now and won't leave me alone.
If she really loves you that much, then she will probably be willing to change some things in your relationship. Have you even tried talking to her about this?
 

Aztek463

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theflyingpeanut said:
Ah. If she truly believes she is in love with you after so little time, then you may have a problem [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Yandere] walking away from it.
Seriously. If you have a rabbit, keep it well hidden. It'll be Fatal Attraction all over again.
 

Chris0132

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Julianking93 said:
theflyingpeanut said:
Ah. If she truly believes she is in love with you after so little time, then you may have a problem [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Yandere] walking away from it.

I admit I'm exagerating, but still, she does sound as if she's not all there, and that the bit that isn't there ran away from the crazy that is there. I would suggest letting her down gently, and keeping your doors locked at night.
Jesus Christ, that's the perfect definition of her. I'm in trouble aren't I?
No you aren't, people do not get murdered by girls from the internet, or at least most people don't, maybe one or two people do, but you are extremely unlikely to be one of them.

As I said, this is quite inconsequential, the worst you will get is some unwanted attention, which can be rectified quite easily by ignoring her or at the most extreme, a restraining order.
 

Kodlak

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I hope for your safety that she hasn't tried putting your name into google, if your username is your actual name... and I be thinking it is time to man up.
 
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Julianking93 said:
This girl is batshit crazy over me.

I never thought it would be possible. After all my wishing for a girl to love me and for me to love, I get the craziest one of all.

Last night, I was at my father's house. Its in an isolated area outside of town and I don't get any cell phone service. No big deal, but when I came back this morning, my phone got 6, count them, 6 text messages, 4 missed phone calls and 1 message from, you guessed it, this girl.

This may be normal to an extent, but not for me. I was only out of contact with her for 13 hours, yet she's got messages everywhere asking where I am.

I even have Yahoo Messenger, AIM and iMac chat, and all of those are riddled with messages from her asking where I am and why I haven't called her. She's fucking nuts.

Now I [i/]really[/i] don't know what to do. We live in the same town. She knows my name. She knows my face. And she's completely bonkers over me and I never felt the same about her.

What do I do?
This happened to me a while back, during the summer. The correlation is strangely identical. I even met her online (<--- and there's the problem eh?). However, she lived in a different city.

Unfortunately, I have no idea what you can do here. In my case we were going out for a bit, but I dumped her in the end because of this obsession. She's actually fine now, and very nice (she had other problems which have been solved, but it is rude of me to tell you lot about them).

Also, in reference to your other problem, everyone I've ever dated has been part of the God squad, and I'm an Atheist, so it can be kinda strange. First thing to do is make sure they are an Atheist, or at least a moderate in whatever belief they have.
 

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Julianking93 said:
Snippity snippity snipey
You did tell her you would be out of contact for a while right? if you dropped off the face of the earth without warning people are libel to panic abit, especially in early stages of relationships.
so to clarify are you two offically a couple now?