Serioulsly Mom, thats your best advice?

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Guy32

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Well whether or not you should give him another chance depends on a couple things. Firstly, how bad was it? And secondly, how did you find out? If you found out from someone else then I can understand breaking up with him, but if he told you then he obviously realizes he made a mistake and was trying to fix it.
 

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Fox1789 said:
I broke up with my boyfriend monday because he cheated one me.. he came to my house last night begging for me back and i sure as hell wasn't giving him another chance. Then i talked to my mom about it and she was convincing me to take him back...what the hell?
Did you ask her why?
 

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Deshara said:
Oh god, my ex's (we had been together about 3 years) parents wanted her to date their friend's son. She didn't. So every day after church they'd go out some place and have them drop their son off with them and forced them to go on dates and have him pour gifts onto her and sob on about how horrible his life is with Hepatitis (he lied that he was dying from it and later admitted that he was an inactive carrier of it and isn't affected at all) until she dumped me. My parent's advice? I should have just been more of a bachelor and not put up with being with girls long-term because they'll never make me happy, as in fuck them and don't date them. That came from my mother, about a girl I had been with for 3 years, who had been the person who helped me cope with and overcome my chronic depression and actually made me a happy person -.-

Oh, and the reason her parents gave for trying to get her with him? Because I always have sex on my mind and am a horrible person, and he's a good kid. He would spend every day in church trying to get into her pants (she would complain about it to me like every week), and the first thing they did when she left me for him was to buy her birth control and condems because they knew all they'd be doing every time they saw eachother was fucking. Honestly, what goes through parent's minds is fucking beyond me.

EDIT: The people saying that you should never listen to a person who's cheated kinda bug me. I mean, not everyone is being rediculous, but there seems to be an assumption that if something happened with someone else, they're a sleezy bastard who spends all their free time screwing other girls. I guess it's a fair assumption to make in most cases, but as someone who's had someone try to force themselves on me and then got accused of cheating for it, it just bugs me to see that >.<
Dude that seriously fucking sucks, if Amber's grandmother tried to force her to date someone else, there'd be some serious murder going on in Pennsylvania. Especially if it actually worked! I can't even imagine how fucking frustrated you would have been, my skin is prickling hot just thinking about it happening!
 

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I really like this one girl. From what my mom has heard, she thinks I should go out with another girl to make the first one jealous. Then, apparently the first girl will want to go out with me.

That`s why I never go to my mom for advice.
 

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My mom normally gives good advice such as, "Everything in moderation" usually followed by "if you want to drink just make sure you be sober before you work (or school)."
 

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Fox1789 said:
I broke up with my boyfriend monday because he cheated one me.. he came to my house last night begging for me back and i sure as hell wasn't giving him another chance. Then i talked to my mom about it and she was convincing me to take him back...what the hell?

so i was wondering if any of you have ever gotten strange advice from your parents
All the time. I don't have parents anymore though, so enjoy all that misguided advice while it lasts. You'll miss it.

I wouldn't take him back either btw.
 

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Fox1789 said:
I broke up with my boyfriend monday because he cheated one me.. he came to my house last night begging for me back and i sure as hell wasn't giving him another chance. Then i talked to my mom about it and she was convincing me to take him back...what the hell?

so i was wondering if any of you have ever gotten strange advice from your parents
I'll point out you may be giving something great up. I wont pretend to know the details of your relationship or whatever but I made the same mistake he did and if my gf had not forgiven me over time then we would not be in the enduring loving relationship we are today. That was years ago and we have been together more than three now. Did he have any sort of reason for what he did other than you werent there and he thought he could get away with it?
 

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"Don't be a fool; wrap your tool."

Randomly when I was going to school....I'm female and not at all sexually active. What the hell am I supposed to wrap and what do I use it for?!
 

soren7550

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Well, I remember when I informed my mother that I nearly blacked out & collapsed on the subway and when I found out my father was essentially stalking me, her 'helpful advice' was "So?"

Great being loved like that right? (to make things better when I started to panic about the whole father stalking me bit, she had the nerve to complain that I was 'over reacting' and being 'too dramatic'.)
 

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Baby Tea said:
I used to think my parents advice was stupid.
Then I grew up.

Now I see that my parents are very wise, and I was an idiot.
yeah this, my parents are quite wise on the relationship front and well I guess every front. Now if they would just stop nagging me about getting a job...
 

Azure-Supernova

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Deshara said:
Azure-Supernova said:
Deshara said:
Oh god, my ex's (we had been together about 3 years) parents wanted her to date their friend's son. She didn't. So every day after church they'd go out some place and have them drop their son off with them and forced them to go on dates and have him pour gifts onto her and sob on about how horrible his life is with Hepatitis (he lied that he was dying from it and later admitted that he was an inactive carrier of it and isn't affected at all) until she dumped me. My parent's advice? I should have just been more of a bachelor and not put up with being with girls long-term because they'll never make me happy, as in fuck them and don't date them. That came from my mother, about a girl I had been with for 3 years, who had been the person who helped me cope with and overcome my chronic depression and actually made me a happy person -.-

Oh, and the reason her parents gave for trying to get her with him? Because I always have sex on my mind and am a horrible person, and he's a good kid. He would spend every day in church trying to get into her pants (she would complain about it to me like every week), and the first thing they did when she left me for him was to buy her birth control and condems because they knew all they'd be doing every time they saw eachother was fucking. Honestly, what goes through parent's minds is fucking beyond me.

EDIT: The people saying that you should never listen to a person who's cheated kinda bug me. I mean, not everyone is being rediculous, but there seems to be an assumption that if something happened with someone else, they're a sleezy bastard who spends all their free time screwing other girls. I guess it's a fair assumption to make in most cases, but as someone who's had someone try to force themselves on me and then got accused of cheating for it, it just bugs me to see that >.<
Dude that seriously fucking sucks, if Amber's grandmother tried to force her to date someone else, there'd be some serious murder going on in Pennsylvania. Especially if it actually worked! I can't even imagine how fucking frustrated you would have been, my skin is prickling hot just thinking about it happening!
I was helping out with a party she held, and had promised he wouldn't be there. He showed up anyway. I was good, and while putting up fold-up chairs afterwards, helping to clean up, he walked up and asked me if I'm jealous that he gets to kiss her and I don't. And then turned his back on me and tried to kiss her. While I was holding a metal chair.
Dude... you are a bigger man than I... Assholes like that don't deserve to breathe.
 

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Personally, if it was me, I would tell him to get stepping.

but when my girlfriend waffled back and fourth for months and I took her back only for it to go to pieces again.
 

jesse.

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My dad just says "Sleep" a lot
and I just say okay thanks I didn't know I was allowed too anymore.
 

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Thibaut said:
Baby Tea said:
I used to think my parents advice was stupid.
Then I grew up.

Now I see that my parents are very wise, and I was an idiot.

But in this case, I would disagree with your mother.
Cheaters only learn when they lose, not when they get away with it.
This.
Definitely this.
 

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Fox1789 said:
I broke up with my boyfriend monday because he cheated one me.. he came to my house last night begging for me back and i sure as hell wasn't giving him another chance. Then i talked to my mom about it and she was convincing me to take him back...what the hell?

so i was wondering if any of you have ever gotten strange advice from your parents
Probably because she's cheated herself and felt bad about it in the past. Tsk tsk.

My parents telling me to take my ex-husband back due to religious reasons. Now that is messed up.