So, I'm going to speak about my personal experience with girl gamers here. I have played online with girl gamers and I have found that those who find it necessary to tell me that they are a girl are annoying as shit. "You just got beat by a girl!" is one of those types of gamers favorite phrases, to which I always respond, "Why the hell does that matter?" Then I get told I'm just a sore looser...so animosity towards this type of girl gamer has been second nature to me.
Though honestly, I don't respect the guy gamer who feels it necessary to shout out about his skillz either.
However, I have played with another type of girl gamer. The one that covers my ass in tf2, the heavy to my medic. The kind that owns me in Killzone 2, but treats the kill like any other. The kind that don't find it necessary to tell me every other five seconds that they are a girl. I respect this type of girl gamer, because they don't propagate the sexism that the other kind does.
Once again, I respect any gamer who does these things, so it's really not limited to girls I suppose.
Ladie Au Pair said:
This happens to put girl gamers in an awkward place. We want your attention and are trying hard to get it, legitimately. We write articles, reviews, walkthroughs? We kick your ass on XBox Live and even help develop the games you play.We explain that we are legit as any other gamer and we?re all the same, just with different equipment. But you don?t hear us, and that?s where things go down hill.
Why do you want our attention exactly? There are tons of guy gamers who don't get attention, so couldn't this list of grievances be said for both parties or did I miss something?
Like I said, sex sells. Sex sells a lot. To make matters worse, there are people who understand that they can use it to get attention. There are girls, who play games, who use it to get attention. As a friend of mine recently said, ?Success in a capitalist society is determined by number of hits on the site, and midriffs generate traffic.? You can see where this is headed.
There are a lot of "girl gamers" who show off there bodies to get attention because they don't know how else to do it. Unfortunately, they tend to give the rest of us girl gamers a bad name. And some how... these skin showing girl gamers are the ones who you find in the media. I mean google image searching "girl gamer" isn't safe for work...
And the guy gamers who oggle these "girl gamers" give guy gamers a bad name...can we just ostracize all of them?
This has become mostly tangent on my part, so I feel like throwing in one more thought. Should we as a whole be calling women who happen to play video games, girl gamers? It seems almost like a type of segregation. Why not just call them...oh I don't know,
gamers?