SEX!!!

[MattRooney06]

and this is why i love the escapist and its escapees everyone sticks up for every one

no she wouldent shes not the type plus shes christinan so its actually against our riligion to cheat on people lmao

 

[kanyatta]

looking through this loads of perople say that you need sex in a romantic relationship or in a loving one not true

i love my girlfriend with all my heart shes so special to me we havent once had sex (savin for marrige) and we do romantic thoing all the time like today i took her to a flash resteraunt and then we went for a moonlit walk and when we got back i gave her this realllly pretty flower i found no sex was needed for it to be romantic

then again its easy for me to say this but its all amatter of oppion i mean some people might disagrre but thats cool

Was it her idea to wait untill marriage? Because I hate to say it, but unless she's ugly, a good party without you and a guy with his head and balls in place and a bottle of fine liquor around can seriously cock up your plan.

True, that. But only if she's a total dick.

If a girl wants to wait for marriage, I would hope it's not the same girl who goes to parties single and gets drunk every weekend... Hypocrisy, anyone?

 

[Lukirre]

SEX IS THAT ALL-CAPS THING YOU DO WITH SOMEONE WHEN YOU WANT THEM TO FEEL THE SAME HAPPINESS THAT THEY GIVE TO YOU.

Words can only express love to a limited extent. I still write poetry and odes and what-have-you (inb4 "LOL UR GAY"), but the bottom line is that a rip-roaring orgasm is going to make your lover feel better than listening to a semi-sincere Homer-esque epic about how you'd tear the heads from a hydra to protect her, no matter how nerdy she is.

To me, that's really all it is; sex is the concentrated, physical embodiment of the world's greatest love song.

Also, virgins need to stop presenting their baseless opinions as fact; it's like writing a serious review about a game you have no intention of ever playing, you pretentious gits.

That is probably the most intelligent and agreeable response to this thread that I've read so far.

On top of that, I'd have to add that it's a necessary biological catharsis.
Hormones driving humans to reproduce and all.

 

[countwiggles]

sex isnt important i gave up a casual sex relationship with one girl for a real relationship with a different girl were i dont get sex. I am so much happier.

 

[kanyatta]

looking through this loads of perople say that you need sex in a romantic relationship or in a loving one not true

i love my girlfriend with all my heart shes so special to me we havent once had sex (savin for marrige) and we do romantic thoing all the time like today i took her to a flash resteraunt and then we went for a moonlit walk and when we got back i gave her this realllly pretty flower i found no sex was needed for it to be romantic

then again its easy for me to say this but its all amatter of oppion i mean some people might disagrre but thats cool

Was it her idea to wait untill marriage? Because I hate to say it, but unless she's ugly, a good party without you and a guy with his head and balls in place and a bottle of fine liquor around can seriously cock up your plan.

True, that. But only if she's a total dick.

If a girl wants to wait for marriage, I would hope it's not the same girl who goes to parties single and gets drunk every weekend... Hypocrisy, anyone?

Uh... are you saying I'm a hypocrite...? Because I fail to see any way in which I have shown myself to be such.

In short, that post makes no sense.

I'm saying, if a girl is like "oh, I think it's best for us to wait for marriage," and then goes and puts herself in a situation like that, she probably is a hypocrite.

 

[Avatar Roku]

I guess I just fail to see how sex builds a relationship at all. It's just personal gratification, and it would take some startling epiphany to make me think otherwise.

Fair enough. If that's the way you see it, fine. The way I see it, however, is that it is, if not vital to a relationship, very important. As I stated above, it's a display of love, trust, intimacy, companionship, and support (that's if it's done in a serious relationship, not a one night stand or some such, obviously). I think that's fairly self explanatory, but if you want me to expand on it, I will.

 

[Xanadeas]

looking through this loads of perople say that you need sex in a romantic relationship or in a loving one not true

i love my girlfriend with all my heart shes so special to me we havent once had sex (savin for marrige) and we do romantic thoing all the time like today i took her to a flash resteraunt and then we went for a moonlit walk and when we got back i gave her this realllly pretty flower i found no sex was needed for it to be romantic

then again its easy for me to say this but its all amatter of oppion i mean some people might disagrre but thats cool

Was it her idea to wait untill marriage? Because I hate to say it, but unless she's ugly, a good party without you and a guy with his head and balls in place and a bottle of fine liquor around can seriously cock up your plan.

True, that. But only if she's a total dick.

Spoiler

I love you man. xD

Also for those of the view that something is better or worse because it is natural or unnatural... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_nature enjoy.

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

looking through this loads of perople say that you need sex in a romantic relationship or in a loving one not true

i love my girlfriend with all my heart shes so special to me we havent once had sex (savin for marrige) and we do romantic thoing all the time like today i took her to a flash resteraunt and then we went for a moonlit walk and when we got back i gave her this realllly pretty flower i found no sex was needed for it to be romantic

then again its easy for me to say this but its all amatter of oppion i mean some people might disagrre but thats cool

Was it her idea to wait untill marriage? Because I hate to say it, but unless she's ugly, a good party without you and a guy with his head and balls in place and a bottle of fine liquor around can seriously cock up your plan.

True, that. But only if she's a total dick.

If a girl wants to wait for marriage, I would hope it's not the same girl who goes to parties single and gets drunk every weekend... Hypocrisy, anyone?

Uh... are you saying I'm a hypocrite...? Because I fail to see any way in which I have shown myself to be such.

In short, that post makes no sense.

I'm saying, if a girl is like "oh, I think it's best for us to wait for marriage," and then goes and puts herself in a situation like that, she probably is a hypocrite.

I have to agree with this.

 

[cleverlymadeup]

Just because something exists doesn't mean it's healthy to actively engage in it...

Besides, studies show that couples that wait for marriage to have sex have far fewer divorces.

I guess I just fail to see how sex builds a relationship at all. It's just personal gratification, and it would take some startling epiphany to make me think otherwise.

yeah i'd LOVE to see those studies that "prove" that, i'm also pretty sure all those studies use VERY bad science and data collection methods

although on a side note with a lot of religious people, they only think of sex as penis in vagina. there are a lot of "waiting till marriage" girls that will perform mutual masturbation, oral sex and participate in anal sex because it's "not sex" but really it IS sex just not penis in vagina

 

[kanyatta]

Also, virgins need to stop presenting their baseless opinions as fact; it's like writing a serious review about a game you have no intention of ever playing, you pretentious gits.

You're probably right. I guess I can't form an opinion on the morality of serial murder unless I've actually performed it or am a victim of it. That logic makes perfect sense.

You can't tell someone their opinion is invalid just because they've made a moral choice, in short.

 

[LazerLuger]

I think most users try to disregard sex because it's something they'll never be able to achieve (I don't know what anybody else looks like here, but it's kinda a hunch).

 

[Pipotchi]

I think of sex as an expression of how much I love having sex

I completely agree. The best relationship is one built on communication and devotion. Sex, for the most part, is just a selfish expression of how much you want pleasure.

Also, for all of the "but sex is natural" people, humans are the only creature on earth who use sex for any purpose other than reproduction.

Actually dont dolphins have sex for pleasure as well? Also some Chimps (bonobo?) have homosexual sex so if they are aiming for reproduction they are going about it all wrong. I suppose they could adopt though

 

[Kogarian]

I don't know anyone on here that looks down on sex...

Me neither

Hmmm. Ssgt. Splatter would be a great name for a male porn star.

That's my XBOX LIVE tag. It's because I cause people to go splat from a shotgun blast in Gears of War 2 or from a headshot in COD 4/WaW

Haha, yes, that's what I thought.

Just saying though...if you ever go into the porn industry...

 

[Xanadeas]

I think most users try to disregard sex because it's something they'll never be able to achieve (I don't know what anybody else looks like here, but it's kinda a hunch).

Yeaah... I personally don't think I'm that attractive but I've had a very large number of people going on about what they'd enjoy doing to me. <_<; I highly doubt anyone's looks matter to much in this case as there's always someone that like something. IE: chubby chasers. o_o

 

[kanyatta]

I think most users try to disregard sex because it's something they'll never be able to achieve (I don't know what anybody else looks like here, but it's kinda a hunch).

This is completely bogus. Anyone that wants to have premarital sex need only go to the nearest club on a weekend. Many of the most attractive people I know actively save themselves for marriage (though not all, obviously), and many fat/ugly f***ers that I know have sex with 2-3 people every week.