SEX!!!
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If I may throw in my own opinion in here for no reason beyond spouting some random words in what seems to be a seemingly long forum rant on "sex is bad" and "no it isn't."
Sex isn't bad. Sex is amazing. Love isn't bad. Love is amazing.
However, both can backfire very very easily.
They should go hand in hand with each other, and one should not be without another. My first girlfriend was rather awkward, and so was I, and we never did anything beyond kissing and 2nd base, so eventually we got tired and broke up. My 2nd girlfriend knew exactly what she wanted in a relationship. Someone to love, someone to fuck. We had both, but it still didn't work out, mostly for entirely different reasons which I won't go into.
Sex isn't something that people should badmouth. It's a great experience, and it's not just a thing that guys want all the time. I've met women that enjoy sex just as much as Average Joe Frat Guy. People in relationships should talk about sex, and if one person (either person) absolutely wants nothing to do with sex then the other person (call me shallow, I don't care) should consider leaving if it can't work out.
From my experience, sex for a man is a release. It's something we naturally need to do. Either from intercourse or masturbation. We build up testosterone, become overly callous and a way for us to balance our crazy antics, rage, stress, and everything else is to have sex.
Now sex for a woman? To be honest I have no idea what it means for a woman. I've heard thousands of different opinions: Like a guy, it's a release. It's something fun to do. It's something they hate to do, but do it to make guys like them. It's something that can be addicting. It's something that should be shared only rarely. It's something they only share with one person. It's something they share with lots of people. It's something to try on both men and women. It's something they do to take control in a relationship, or it's something they do to become closer to their significant other.
So lets say, sex for women is different for every woman.
And sex for a man? Well, I have yet to hear of a man tell me anything different about his experience with sex. And mine is pretty much the same as well.
Don't put sex off as a bad thing. Try it. Be open. If it isn't for you, then don't do it again. Simple as that.
Sex isn't bad. Sex is amazing. Love isn't bad. Love is amazing.
However, both can backfire very very easily.
They should go hand in hand with each other, and one should not be without another. My first girlfriend was rather awkward, and so was I, and we never did anything beyond kissing and 2nd base, so eventually we got tired and broke up. My 2nd girlfriend knew exactly what she wanted in a relationship. Someone to love, someone to fuck. We had both, but it still didn't work out, mostly for entirely different reasons which I won't go into.
Sex isn't something that people should badmouth. It's a great experience, and it's not just a thing that guys want all the time. I've met women that enjoy sex just as much as Average Joe Frat Guy. People in relationships should talk about sex, and if one person (either person) absolutely wants nothing to do with sex then the other person (call me shallow, I don't care) should consider leaving if it can't work out.
From my experience, sex for a man is a release. It's something we naturally need to do. Either from intercourse or masturbation. We build up testosterone, become overly callous and a way for us to balance our crazy antics, rage, stress, and everything else is to have sex.
Now sex for a woman? To be honest I have no idea what it means for a woman. I've heard thousands of different opinions: Like a guy, it's a release. It's something fun to do. It's something they hate to do, but do it to make guys like them. It's something that can be addicting. It's something that should be shared only rarely. It's something they only share with one person. It's something they share with lots of people. It's something to try on both men and women. It's something they do to take control in a relationship, or it's something they do to become closer to their significant other.
So lets say, sex for women is different for every woman.
And sex for a man? Well, I have yet to hear of a man tell me anything different about his experience with sex. And mine is pretty much the same as well.
Don't put sex off as a bad thing. Try it. Be open. If it isn't for you, then don't do it again. Simple as that.
i don't think sex is needed right away.
i think that you should know the person and love them or not have sex with them.
i'm not really into abstinence. i have sex with my boyfriend, we've been together for a few years.
i do think if you want to stay with someone there must be sex involved at some point even if you decide to wait til marriage or until you're "ready". it is important to do it sometime. if you don't plan on having sex/have no interest in having sex with whomever you are dating then you are not really dating. that is a friendship. dating leads to sex.
i repeat,
DATING LEADS TO SEX.
ps. if done right, sex is amazing.
i think that you should know the person and love them or not have sex with them.
i'm not really into abstinence. i have sex with my boyfriend, we've been together for a few years.
i do think if you want to stay with someone there must be sex involved at some point even if you decide to wait til marriage or until you're "ready". it is important to do it sometime. if you don't plan on having sex/have no interest in having sex with whomever you are dating then you are not really dating. that is a friendship. dating leads to sex.
i repeat,
DATING LEADS TO SEX.
ps. if done right, sex is amazing.
Its because we're all secretly 9-year olds who haven't realised the opposite gender goes deeper than cooties.The infamous SCAMola said:
Theres another plus of sex. Health purposes.
Scientific fact: Males who engage in intercourse 4-7 times per week, between the ages of 18-25 are 33% less likely to suffer from prostate cancer.
There are other ones, plenty of them, including a greater sense of well being with life. Not a mask for how bad someone's life is, as someone previously mentionned. But improving the quality of life itself.
Scientific fact: Males who engage in intercourse 4-7 times per week, between the ages of 18-25 are 33% less likely to suffer from prostate cancer.
There are other ones, plenty of them, including a greater sense of well being with life. Not a mask for how bad someone's life is, as someone previously mentionned. But improving the quality of life itself.
So wait, I need to have sex w/ my friends just to keep our friendship going? Surely sex isn't actually necessary to the relationship as you have implied here.
I love quite a few of my friends but I don't sleep w/ them so that they don't leave me.
And for the record, I don't look down on sex at all unless it's rape. I just find it far more important to find someone who will tolerate you more than anyone else can.
I love quite a few of my friends but I don't sleep w/ them so that they don't leave me.
And for the record, I don't look down on sex at all unless it's rape. I just find it far more important to find someone who will tolerate you more than anyone else can.
It actually can. First example that comes to mind is a couple who I am friends with. The two of them are deeply entrenched in a loving, caring relationship and have been for a number of years. However, both have other 100% sexual interests on the side. This does not devalue the relationship they have, as they are still intimate as well. A lot of folks find this lifestyle wicked and debaucherous ... and all I ask them is "Why? Who are you to tell them that they are wrong in their personal quests for happiness?"madbird-valiant said:
But yes, couplings can exist for nothing but lust. They just tend to be short lived because they aren't really relationships, just something to tide you over while you wait for the pizza to show up.
Its not that uncommon, especially nowadays. Some folks just develop at younger ages. It doesn't mean they understand it, or what they're doing, persay, but they'll do it nonetheless. My first was @ 11.Overlord Moo said: