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Vrex360

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Sex is meant to be a beautiful thing, but due to our urge to taboo everything it has now been considered a sick act. That said I do sort of disaprove of mindless sex. I may have said this already but sex between friends only messes everything up.
 

manaman

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Vrex360 said:
Sex is meant to be a beautiful thing, but due to our urge to taboo everything it has now been considered a sick act. That said I do sort of disaprove of mindless sex. I may have said this already but sex between friends only messes everything up.
Sex was not "meant" to be anything. Sex is a fact, it is how we as a species reproduce. Sex being enjoyable is just coding to get us humping as much as possible so the chances of impregnation occurring is higher. Because we are a thinking species we attribute a level of mysticism to it. It makes us mini creators, so it must be a treasured thing.

It is not a sick act, as much is it is not anything to be revered. It is a natural act of two people attracted to each other.

Aside from that I cannot really comment on the whole relationship aspect. Since I meet the women I wanted to marry, and she married someone else I have not really been all there in any of the relationships that followed. Finally this just kinda sunk to a string of one night stands. Hey she was part of why I finally moved back to the US.
 

Xanadeas

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MaxTheReaper said:
Mazty said:
Not really.
As sex is such a large social act, it isn't down to personal taste who does & doesn't like it - everyone likes it.
Saying a relationship doesn't need sex would be the same as saying a relationship doesn't need speech, or any form of attraction to one another.
In a sane, rational person, a relationship needs all of the above.
I don't.
And that's all I would need to say "you're wrong," and leave it at that, because you said "everyone," which is like wearing a target at a shooting range.
Or voting Democrat in Kentucky.

So it is down to personal taste, or in this case, distaste.

Also, I am sure there are plenty of severely OCD people who think sex is disgusting, so even if I am not like them, we agree that it is not an act we would willfully perform.
That's silly, not everyone with OCD has an obsession with cleanliness... I'm more concerned with everything being lined up and even... And not touching things that are obviously dirty or dusty... And washing my hands every time I've touched another person. <_<

Silliness aside EVERYONE needs something but it isn't always sex. I prefer to be alone myself but even at times I find myself wishing I had someone to curl up next to at night. Generalizations can sometimes be correct.
 

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MaxTheReaper said:
Xanadeas said:
That's silly, not everyone with OCD has an obsession with cleanliness... I'm more concerned with everything being lined up and even... And not touching things that are obviously dirty or dusty... And washing my hands every time I've touched another person. <_<

Silliness aside EVERYONE needs something but it isn't always sex. I prefer to be alone myself but even at times I find myself wishing I had someone to curl up next to at night. Generalizations can sometimes be correct.
I didn't say that everyone with OCD was obsessed with cleanliness.
I just stated that I am sure there are plenty of people with OCD who are obsessed with cleanliness, and who cannot have sex/would not want to for that reason.

I simply don't want sex.
Cuddles are an entirely different matter.
jamesworkshop said:
Why exactly has this thread reached 13 pages in 2 days
Because of stunning contributions such as your ow--no, bad Max.

Actually, that is a good question.
I vote "Because of the title."
Vanguard_Ex said:
...aren't all relationships based solely on love?
No.
Especially today, it seems like a lot of relationships are based solely on the "need" (it is not a need you whiny jerks) to fuck.
Now that I think about it you're right, sadly. You do seem to correct me a lot...this a personal slight, or do you just like to correct? :p
 

SL33TBL1ND

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Godofgame67 said:
Sex is the reason we have relationships. Think about, why do we work? To get money, why do we need money? To buy stuff and have nice things. Why do we need nice things? To get respect. Why do we need respect? To get noticed by people. Why do we need to get noticed? To get a date. Why do we need a date? To get a relationship. And why do we get a relationship? To get laid.
What a lovely represantation of life today, I commend you good sir!
 

R.O.

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Sex in the relationship only works if one person wants it more than the other. One partner has to give more than they receive. If both partners are competing for extra sex time, then the relationship won't work. That being said, sex is very overrated. There are but so many things you can do really and you go through the same cycles everytime, getting horny, sexing, and getting unhorny. I think it is wise to choose to opt out of sex for long periods of time. No relationship is going to be ideal for everyone but a less sex relationship can work.

Plus another big problem is that there are but so many hot chicks available at any given time while internets porns is always ready for me and the girls usually look better, plus I don't have to pay or catch a disease. So it is probably wise to just have a girlfriend who is loyal, can cook, clean and is clean, and will do whatever you say rather than just a sex puppet who looks good but can't do anything.

No matter what, obediance is more important than sex. Obediance is not a cycle. The girl has to do whatever you say at all times, there is no up and downs for obediance. Sex is always highs and lows, and in my opinion, mostly lows. When you break it down to obediance, looks don't matter anymore and you become less shallow. You realize how cool it is to have someone do whatever you say. You can still sex good looking puppets and throw them away but make sure you don't fall for the looks trap. If she looks good and does whatever you say, that is wassup too though.
 

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cleverlymadeup said:
sorry if you just sit around and not do anything sexual with your partner at all, that's a friendship. i mean look at it this way, you sit around, talk, watch tv but you don't touch one another in any way beyond the occasional kiss, that's friendship
So an elderly couple must be humping like rabbits in order to love each other? I love my parents, but I'm sure as hell not going to jump their bones. If you have a positive relationship, it's a form of love by definition.
You're essentially arguing against the psychological community who has dedicated over half a century to the research of love and relationships. No offence, but I think I'll back them on this one.
 

JohnSmith

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ThatJagoGuy said:
cleverlymadeup said:
sorry if you just sit around and not do anything sexual with your partner at all, that's a friendship. i mean look at it this way, you sit around, talk, watch tv but you don't touch one another in any way beyond the occasional kiss, that's friendship
So an elderly couple must be humping like rabbits in order to love each other? I love my parents, but I'm sure as hell not going to jump their bones. If you have a positive relationship, it's a form of love by definition.
You're essentially arguing against the psychological community who has dedicated over half a century to the research of love and relationships. No offence, but I think I'll back them on this one.
Difference of definition between platonic love and romantic love. Romantic love is at least partly sexual.