Sexism in gaming, do we really give a f**k?

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Bluestorm83

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I would like to add my two cents to this conversation.

I am sure there is some sexism in the media and industry. There's sexism everywhere, to some degree. However, I would like to say that the issue is being exaggerated or understated by both sides. We often see characters like the Sorceress who has ignited the latest round of the debate (though not as exaggerated and blatantly impossible as she is.) However, despite their sexual connotation, breasts and the derriere are not actual sexual organs. A recent Penny Arcade comic made the point that men might consider the debate different if there were a character who had a massive, pendulous penis that dragged on the ground in what looked like a potato-sack loincloth. Ironic, and raising a good point, but the penis is an actual reproductive organ. Breasts, however inflated they may be in artwork, have no actual purpose in the further continuation of the human race. That's why we have flat chested women; all the important, mechanical parts are still there, but her body's not lying to you to trick your male-mammal instincts into thinking that she can nurse more offspring.

On that note, I would posit that all of these "sexist" female characters are actually just overly idealized human beings. Look at the male side of the coin. Who are we men represented as in videogames? There's two basic types: The Refridgerator Marine, like Marcus Phoenix or the Master Chief. Second type is the Pretty Boy, like 99% of JRPG heroes or american types like Nathan Drake. But I don't care. Even though I personally have much more in common with Ronnie from the "WHOMP!" comics than either of these types. To me, what a person IS is determined by what a person DOES. DO these characters put it on the line to save the day, get it done, protect the whatever? Yes. Their idealized male depiction no longer matters. I'm not telling women not to be offended when a videogame heroine is a rail thin, buxom abomination who could never function in reality, but I am kindly asking them to judge the character by their deeds, not merely their depictions. If that creature is a mewling, stupid, promiscuous husk who can't do anything except be saved and then bedded by the main man in the game, then okay, THAT'S sexist as all hell. But if she has something real to contribute to the story and to the struggle contained within, take a moment to really examine things. There may well be some gender politics or something in play, but "Sexism" is a very definite thing that says "Your gender is inferior." I daresay that one character in one setting is not sufficient to determine what a medium says about 50% of the population of its reality.

Much argument is caused when one group makes assumptions about the mentality of the opposing group. This is true of political parties, genders, "races" (though I would like to point out that there's ONE race, HUMAN,) religions, ad nauseam. Even this thread has had much "Men think this" from women, and "Women think this" from men. Men do not know what, how, or why women think. This much, women can tell you. Women, you too do not know what, how, or why we men think. I'm very fortunate to be a man who can predict and understand the mentalities of most other men, but you ladies are a friggin' mystery to me. We are LITERALLY wired differently. Please don't assume that because there is some absurd over-femalization of a character's physical aspects that those who designed that are sexists. Men have a tendency toward "getting more." Either we were designed that way by a Creator or it arose through the trial and error of nature for a very, very long time. But it's there, in our psyche. If Food is good, MORE food is better. If land is good, MORE land is better. And yes, if breasts are good, MORE breasts is A-OK too. Even if overly-sexualised female characters really ARE the fantasy of their creators and the game's male audience, that doesn't necessarily make anyone involved sexists. Men can like pretty women and also value them as people at the same time.
 

omega 616

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matthew_lane said:
He obviously didn't mean fantasy as in the genre of fiction, but fantasy as in "not reality" or "better than reality".
Being glib? How droll.

And yet here we are with yoga pants out up the arse and every other fashion item that comes along that celebs started first. "no offense" rule still holds up! the "no offense" rule is "when ever no offense is said, it must be followed by insults".

No, it's not. It's a phrase, a saying it doesn't do anybody any harm at all ... with the exception of overly sensitive people, who seem to take offense like free samples.

Well, that's not true at all. Most body builders have partners, they are the ones rubbing tanning creams and oil on them. Look at the fantasy film Conan, who was the main actor in that? Arnold Schwarzenegger, a body builder! There have been plenty of body builders in fantasy films, even at least one fantasy board game had this figure on the front of hero quest.

No, just struggling to see what he is saying.

That makes no sense, fiction isn't reality, it's usually better than reality
 

omega 616

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Desert Punk said:
omega 616 said:
So not that much of an anomaly? You made James Bond, an action hero?
Well considering you said the majority made brutes or super models, it would qualify as an anomaly.

and the majority of RPG characters are not sleek suit wearing folk. Not sure if you play many RPGs
I meant it still fit in with the "I want to be a better me" or "this is how I want to see myself" ... I was employing hyperbole, rather than accuracy.
 

SecondPrize

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matthew_lane said:
SecondPrize said:
I care more about the income inequality and poor representation of female developers in all facets of the industry
Doesn't exist mate. What you've just done is called "equality of outcome." Equality of outcome is not equality at all, its a form of pandering to the idea that we can use social marxism to deny talented people jobs as long as they are from the out group, so that they can be replaced by untalented people with no drive, on the basis of in-group preference, regardless of what the particular in-group is.

What you want is Equality of Oppurtunity where everyone is given the same oppurtunity to succeed or fail on there own merits. An we already have that, in fact we have already moved on to the Equality of Outcome with affirmative action hiring policies & in-group only scholarships (which is really dispicable).
Are you suggesting that it isn't a problem when average salaries in various positions in the industry differ based on your junk?
 

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matthew_lane said:
Ah, I get you now. I'm not convinced you can dismiss my claim outright though, and while it (i.e. women not being able to identify with the protagonist due to conflicting sexuality/attitudes toward sexuality) may or may not be a primary reason for their contempt for the industry, I'd be surprised if it wasn't a factor.

matthew_lane said:
An that would be another conflation. You are attempting to use negatively loaded language to try to make it appear as if any character one considers attractive is now a "tarted up tramp," to use your own terminology.
No, not at all. I'm drawing a parallel between the attitude of the previous poster and the (proposed) attitudes of female gamers. In the poster's case he felt the modern Final Fantasy males to be "extremely gay" (i.e. too overtly sexualised to comfortably relate too - the notion his character might be in the spank banks of teenage girls or - heaven forbid - guys, didn't sit well with him). It's not using "negatively loaded language" to describe "attractive" characters, it's using sexually-charged language to describe sexually-charged characters. Again, I'm proposing it's not attractive female characters women are uncomfortable playing as, it's sexualised female characters they find uncomfortable (because they're primarily spank bank material, like the guys in Final Fantasy).
 

Drizzitdude

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hazabaza1 said:
I've stopped caring about the content in games and how badly it misrepresents whoever for whatever reason.
I hear you and feel the exact same way, its stupid when people get into a fuss because of some stupid issue involving something as silly as gender. If you don't like it don't buy the game right?
 

Fynik

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Ah yes. Not caring so much one calls a game faggy and hints the reason people complain about the representation is because they're unable to get laid and seeing idolized shapes is because it reminds them of their reprehensible existence. Smooth. Good discussion there, I can see you don't care at all. Yep.
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@matthew_lane:

That's... Not quite how that works. It helps, certainly, and you are right that once you accomodate for those factors the wage gap as it is lessen - but it's still a fact that, in most industries, your wage can be tied directly to your genitalia and the notion that "If they could pay women less, they'd hire women" assumes that all companies are 100 % effecient at all times to which we can only say, oh, I don't know, New Coke. Or maybe that debacle in the Gulf.

Companies are made up of people, and people set the hiring policies. As we can see, from the forum and the world outside, people sometimes mistake some things for other things. Economic rationality is laudable but sadly not used very often. Try again?
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... Yes, you don't care so much you took the time to state how much you don't care. I can see your relentless apathy is really paying off.
 

Geo Da Sponge

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flarty said:
Look at them big burly men, with their big over exaggerated arms, and their tiny heads. With marcus fenix holding his gun like its a large semi erect penis. Its fucking faggy. Yet none of us complained, no one complained, many of us liked the gow games (they suck btw).
Well, I've read through all five pages of this thread and I've seen like... Two or three people call out the OP on this, which is kind of disheartening. Welcome to the Escapist, where we get so distracted by talking about how sexism doesn't matter or exist that we'll miss the blatant homophobia dropped right into the middle of the OP. How can you say with a straight face that the stuff that people complain about doesn't matter when you'll pretty much immediately turn around and call the fantasy of a male character, not even a sexual fantasy either, just a power fantasty, "faggy"? And he's not the only one:

Auron said:
likalaruku said:

Pictured above: Sexy.
Funnily enough this kind of design is one of the many reasons I started hating jrpg's after Final Fantasy 9. It's, and I run the risk of being crass and politically incorrect here, extremely gay.
Look, you. If you can see that character designs like this make you uncomfortable, is it really such a stretch to figure out that some people might feel the same way about female character designs? And that like you, that doesn't necessarily mean that they're planning to tear down the companies that made those games and burn them to ashes, they might just be a bit sick of seeing them?

Oh, also the fact that the OP keeps on saying that people talking about sexism on the Escapist have all been men trying to be white knights, when the most vocal feminists I've seen on here have been women. It's almost as if there are actually female gamers out there, and they have opinions or something. And before someone quotes me to complain about what I just said, no, I'm not saying that all female gamers have a problem with sexism in gaming, or that your opinions are wrong if you don't. But you can't just assign arguments to specific people, make up motivations for them, and then disregard the argument because of that.
 

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I like this guy! He knows his s*it and is willing to point out blatant hypocrisy without any bulls*it - nice, dude.

Back to the point, though: Unfortunately, while you're right about the problem lying in our own, loser-ly existence, society's problem, however, stems from the simple concept of double standards. Feminism, after the initial first wave in 50's/60's America, has been heading more towards superiority, rather than equality; and, of course, no feminist will ever admit to that, but that's a whole other issue. As you said yourself - it's okay that men are portrayed as testosterone-fueled gibbons, over-masculine power-houses with whom only a handful of people on earth could actually match-up to, in terms of physique and ability; yet, when women are portrayed as slutty bunnies, hopping about with their giggle-physics - now we have a problem!

Am I saying it's not a real issue? No, of course it is - it's stupid. But is it harmful? I doubt it. Unfortunately, however, pseudo-feminists like Sarkeeisian (or however the f you spell dat name), have been latching onto any bandwaggon they possibly can, to spread their convoluted message of the evil patriarchy that still somehow exists even though it doesn't. Whether it be videogames, other popular media, books, hell, even other movements, such as the free-thought, atheist movements, they aim to spread their seed there, as well. (anyone who's heard of Atheism+ will know what I mean). So yeah, I suppose we shouldn't really bother at this point, and as the thread's tittle suggests, we shouldn't really givea a f*ck.
 

Fynik

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@matthew_lane:

Except I think that there's more people than us readily visible on this very thread, and with several genders declared and differences in opinion - so if you did that, you'd be willing choosing a lower sample size, with specific information confirmed already and your hypothesis would be untested since you just found things declaring it true based on your already decided belief while multiple others factors were in ready evidence.

... Oh hey, that's probably applicable to the point we're discussing!

@n00beffect:

Good on you for that view, go have a cookie and take your time denying the hard work of people and assuming that feminists are out to get men and prove themselves superior. I hear there's an anti-matriarchy resistance army forming in Kansas, maybe you should join?

Yes, I'm being glib. Apologies if it's annoying, yet, come on - "imaginary patriarchy" is not quite the same as "depictions of women and men in video games".

Also you can find examples of people complaining about the way GoW (Both Gears and God, actually) depict men in this very thread. So... Yeah. Your points kind of falling already.

@Geo Da Sponge:

Tadah. Spot on.