She's Back. Please help...

[Brad Shepard]

thats true, but still, you dont think that someone that you care about needs a 2nd chance if they mess up?

Normally, yes. However, in this case, it's an exercise in futility. Relationship? Probably not. Friendship? I can see that happening.

You bring up a good point, but from what i read on all the post about this girl, he really likes her, so he might as well give her another chance, if she truly changed, then great, if not, so be it right?

Perhaps, but shouldn't the waters be tested as a friend first to see if she really has changed? The guy's been hurt before by this same person, so caution, if nothing else, would be advisable.

That would be the smart move, I feel stupid for not thinking about that.

( I just saw this is a Lelouch & Lelouch talk)

 

[UnusualStranger]

Duel personality discussion. Interesting. (I just saw this is a Lelouch & Lelouch talk)

Anyway, I would advise extreme caution. Upon severing the cut with her, sorry to sound offensive, "Jesus Freakout" she may become perhaps a little bit too....clingy. I would suggest you to set a time for you and her to meet up and chat. Thats it. Don't plan for a movie, perhaps a meal or something, but nothing special. Chat with her. Feel out where she stands, and how she really feels about severing her religious ties. If it makes her miserable, then you should advise her to go back to it, and you two could perhaps be just friends.

You need to test the waters, but do so with a plan to leap out of the waters if they turn out to be boiling hot.

Thats the best I can think of.

 

[Pegghead]

Give her a chance, that's really all you can do.

 

[SimuLord]

As some of you may remember, I had a bit of a relationship problem with a girl I met on Omegle who turned out to live in my city. She was almost perfect but it turned out she was a crazy Jesus freak.

Spoiler: Here's the original thread

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.159245?page=1

Now, I just got a call from her about an hour ago. She was lightly sobbing and apologizing for everything she did and said. She says she's now left all the Jesus stuff behind her, realized she was wrong and now wants me back.


For those of you who remember the original thread and helped me with my last problem, maybe you can help again now.


So, Escapist, what the hell am I going to do?

I had feelings for her and she did for me too, but that one flaw was the big deal breaker for us (including the fact that she became obsessive)

But now she says she's alright and realizes her mistakes. What should I do? Its been over a month since I last saw her so maybe she really isn't crazy anymore.

I'm thinking about just forgetting her and moving on like we did before but I just don't know.

Speaking as a fierce anti-Christian, any opportunity to encourage her apostasy should be taken at full bore. Atheism, paganism, secular humanism, whatever sort of -ism you like (and yes, there is a VERY obvious semen joke waiting to be made there, I'm leaving it for the readership.)

(edit: although it goes without saying she is not just a "room full of crazy", she is the fucking Kremlin Full of Crazy.)

 

[Revolutionary]

Move on dude its probabbly a ploy to get you back thinking you can be changed

 

[Psypherus]

I wouldn't go for it. if it doesn't work the first it's not gonna work a second.

 

[TimeLord]

Spoiler: Probably the wrong answer

I'd totally fill the void left by Jesus's departure.

Repeatedly.

I've never said this before in my life but:

Duuuuude

 

[silver wolf009]

leave her man, run off into the sunset and dont look back.