No, see, we're men. We don't get to be raped, because we don't have vaginas. So when we cry foul because we're treated as rapists by default (you know, male being the default) we're automatically incapable of understanding and are victim blaming for simply wanting to not be treated as rapist-in-potential.
That's the important message all victim blaming proponents want you to keep in mind. If you're offended by being called a rapist-in-potential, you are a rapist/misinformed misogynist. If you want to raise awareness by teaching people who've never had to deal with adversity the actual disgusting human side of things, you're victim blaming because you're not accepting your inner rapist.
Teaching a woman (actually, anyone. Because men also have this silly little opening in the back that's penis-sized) to be aware of her (their) situation, to not get so hammered that you lose track of everything around you, and to teach those selfish, entitled, jack-brained morons you call friends to not be so self-absorbed that they lose track of you in their own quest to maximize their own petty, venal, entertainment, and that you, as a self-absorbed, entitled, jack-brained moron, may want to keep an eye on your fellows, is always, ALWAYS, victim blaming. Because I'm free to do anything I want to without any responsibility to self-protection because I shouldn't have to be worried about anything while I'm inebriating myself into a mumbling ninny.
