So Let's Talk About Sex....
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This doesn't bother me in the slightest. I know 2 people who lost their virginity at 14, one of whom got pregnant.Julianking93 said:
Being able to exercise ones sexual freedom at a young age means you get it out of your system and are unlikely to do stupid things when you're older. I will admit, having sex with 100+ people by 19 is waaaay too much but hey, some people have insatiable appetites.
I personally am, as you put it, an old prude. I prefer to pursue a relationship before going any further (With little success).
I'm 28. I've had about 200 partners- like 95% of those were from ages 17-23. I slowed down a lot once I got herpes. It's caused me a little extra grief with dating, but no buggie. Least it wasn't the hiv. Made me think though.
I feel like I should impart some wisdom here; but everyone is unique and we would all respond differently to the same experiences.
All I can say is that I've learned an awful lot about people, and it's so easy to understand the motivations of others now. I have infinite patience and self control, generally speaking; but especially with dating and taking it slow. I'm a charmer, my touch can melt anyone, my self confidence is unwavering. I had problems with feeling and emotional attachment, put myself into therapy, worked out my issues. I'm extremely open and honest, I communicate well, and I never have a desire to cheat because every possible sexual wish has been fulfilled.
Now, i'm the total package with a dark and mysterious past that no one wants because, "I'm too easy." That's what the 33 yr old im dating told me last night. She has only ever loved guys who don't show anything back.
Apparently, even at middle age, women still go for insecure, irresponsible, emotionally dull, inexperienced drama queens... and I'm just some angel of orgasms to pass the time with in between.
Two months ago it was the 23 yr old who thought I was such a great guy, but she wanted her freedom. She didn't know why, didn't know what she was going to do with her freedom, she just knew she NEEDED it. Only thing your freedom is gonna get you honey, is an eventual free trip to the clinic. No boy has ever taken her on a "date," they ask her to "hang out." She was pretty disappointed when I told her to get lost when she asked me if we could be like friends who take their pants off. Too old for that shit.
God damn it. I've just about seen and done it all; and I'll summarize it like this-
Remember that movie "War Games," where the 80's computer that controls the nation's missiles learns that there are no winners in nuclear war, by playing tic-tac-toe at warp speed, over and over again?
It decides the only way to win, is not to play.
I feel like I should impart some wisdom here; but everyone is unique and we would all respond differently to the same experiences.
All I can say is that I've learned an awful lot about people, and it's so easy to understand the motivations of others now. I have infinite patience and self control, generally speaking; but especially with dating and taking it slow. I'm a charmer, my touch can melt anyone, my self confidence is unwavering. I had problems with feeling and emotional attachment, put myself into therapy, worked out my issues. I'm extremely open and honest, I communicate well, and I never have a desire to cheat because every possible sexual wish has been fulfilled.
Now, i'm the total package with a dark and mysterious past that no one wants because, "I'm too easy." That's what the 33 yr old im dating told me last night. She has only ever loved guys who don't show anything back.
Apparently, even at middle age, women still go for insecure, irresponsible, emotionally dull, inexperienced drama queens... and I'm just some angel of orgasms to pass the time with in between.
Two months ago it was the 23 yr old who thought I was such a great guy, but she wanted her freedom. She didn't know why, didn't know what she was going to do with her freedom, she just knew she NEEDED it. Only thing your freedom is gonna get you honey, is an eventual free trip to the clinic. No boy has ever taken her on a "date," they ask her to "hang out." She was pretty disappointed when I told her to get lost when she asked me if we could be like friends who take their pants off. Too old for that shit.
God damn it. I've just about seen and done it all; and I'll summarize it like this-
Remember that movie "War Games," where the 80's computer that controls the nation's missiles learns that there are no winners in nuclear war, by playing tic-tac-toe at warp speed, over and over again?
It decides the only way to win, is not to play.
The Man With the Soap said:
17 may be a little late, but having a kid at 12/13 is just fucking weird.
OT: Have sex with who you want and when you want (as long as they're agreeing to it, obviously...). The amount of high and mighty's that turn up on threads like these is actually a little annoying.
Personally I prefer sex within a relationship. Sex when done in this way is normally better and far, far more satisfying, especially on an emotional level. I can't understand people that prefer one night stands, I prefer the intimacy and the emotions that go on between the two people involved rather than just the pure fluid transfer.Julianking93 said:
That being said, I'm willing to go for a one night stand if I'm single. Who knows, we might hit it off.
I meant the people the OP mentioned, who have slept with 100s of people at a young age. They obviously have no respect for themselves, so I have no respect for them either.FamoFunk said:
I just don't think it's right and wouldn't be surprised if they slipped up once and caught something.
Not to mention the reputation some of the people I know have got from it.
As long as you're staying safe, that's fine. I know a lot of people who just stupidly risk it. I made sure me and my boyfriend were checked for everything before we started sleeping together.
Its fine to me what people do...entirely their own buisness imo. However i personally do not endorse the idea of sleeping around, people are right it does take away the intimacy. Plus being in the age of HIV/AIDS etc etc its probably not a good trait from a health point of view.
The same way you believe sex is something special that can bring partners together the same way other people believe sex is not special at all. I consider nothing about sex to be special. It's a part of life just like breathing is. Whenever somebody says that "sex is special". I always wonder why they don't consider shitting, pissing, breathing, eating and swallowing special.
Julianking93 said:
This pretty much sums up a lot of people's views here. But people don't need emotional attachment to masturbate, to take drugs, to drink, to play games online with strangers. You don't need to be emotionally attached to a roller coaster, or the other people riding it.MirrorSweep said:
Sex is fun. Much more fun than 'doing it yourself'. Of course it's nothing compared to 'making love' to your partner, and I would never dream of cheating on anyone. But when single, if you and someone find each other mutually attractive, what's wrong with a little fun?
I find it funny how there are so many people here that talk about sex as a sacred thing, but have never had any.
that's not alliteration............VikingIncogneto said:
OT: I'd rather have a few special people than a whole army hookers
My god, I can't work out which comment is funnier. We need a new thread entirely to poll these to calls.goodwithwords08 said:
same feelings as you.
I hate it, I think of it as being special but it seems nowadays alot of people...especially girls nowadays dont and would rather sleep around
Its kind of sad tbh
I hate it, I think of it as being special but it seems nowadays alot of people...especially girls nowadays dont and would rather sleep around
Its kind of sad tbh