So you discover that your girlfriend is transgendered.

[NoblePhilistineFox]

Yell "ITS A TRAP!" and proceed to flee in terror.

DO A BARREL ROLL!, FLEE THE BUILDING!

Meh, as long as the sex is good, I could care less.

so let me get this straight,
you had sex with a transgender person and only figured out that they were transgender a great deal of time afterwards...
...
...
does anyone else see what I see there, y'know, the oblivious part and whatnot.

OT:
meh, as long as it floats your boat it is still considered water.
...but unfortunately for that person, transgender does not float my boat, so I would dump her(?)

if it was my freind or something I wouldnt care.

 

[Korten12]

If they were transgender like they had both parts then I would leave with no question...
If they were once male but now female... I wouldnt know what to say...

 

[Kraj]

Hmm. I'd be fine with it regardless of who it is, unless I was in a relationship with them. Dating or further.

In that case, I won't kid myself. There's romantic love, there's filial love, there's compatibility, and then there's lust. I need all 4 for a stable healthy relationship. Fsk... That... Have a nice life... Should've told me so we could be great friends... but never closer.

 

[Angryman101]

What a fucking nightmare that situation would be. I would end up in the shower for days trying to scrub the dirtiness away and crying.

 

[Jumpingbean3]

I think in all cases I would be fine with that. I'm a very open minded guy and I wouldn't even feel hurt or betrayed if they kept this a secret or even outright lied about it. Transgenders, as a whole, are not exactly smiled upon in popular consciousness and have even been murdered because of their choice of lifestyle. I could perfectly understand keeping it a secret but I would advise her to try to mention this sooner if we ever break up and she enters a relationship with someone else.

 

[Marter]

If I cared enough about the person, I wouldn't care. I would not like that I was lied to, but I would understand, and still care for them, assuming I already do.

 

[RanD00M]

Well I if I am emotionally connected to the person,then I guess I would do all buggery.I love said person no matter what,right?

 

[kotorfan04]

It depends on how good she looked, maybe drink that little bit of knowledge out of my brain.

 

[Nickolai77]

In terms of friendship it probably would not change anything so long as they don't cause me embarassment. If it was someone i was dating...well that's quite a serious secret to keep, i may dump them for keeping such infomation away from me.

 

[Miss_Suzumiya]

...
"You're transgendered?"
"... Yeah."
"... Oh, cool... What you having for Lunch?"

^^ My expected conversation. I don't really care.. XP

 

[bam13302]

WTF, and passively avoid them (just stay away, if there is a legit reason to interact with them i wont go out of my way to get out, but i will just try and avoid them)
If it was my girlfriend, my psychology would probably start coming up with a whole host of excuses to break up. I guess, id probably jsut take it as is comes.

 

[Grey_Focks]

Friend? I'd like to say I wouldn't care, but if someone I thought was a girl turned out to...be packing, shall we say, it would be awkward. Possibly get over it, depends how good friends we were.

Dating? Oh lord...I'd rather not think about that. If they were feminine looking enough to convince me they were a lady to begin with, but...I'd dump her/him (eww..) and probably do some yelling for keeping it a secret. Then again, if they were really hot...I think I'm gonna stop thinking about this.

 

[JanatUrlich]

Wouldn't bother me at all.

 

[Slayer_2]

I LOL at the guy who called this thread sexist...

On topic, I have to say that it would jeopardize any romantic relationship we might have. We could still be friends, though.

 

[Xenofreak]

Coworker/friend/whatever I wouldn't care. In that case, whatever floats your boat. In a relationship though, I'd most likely end it. If it's one of the cases of actual biological reasoning I probably wouldn't. If it's "I just wanted to be a woman instead." on a whim, then it'd be over.