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Xorghul said:
Ciarang said:
Why do people marry again ?

Also if I see an asshole in this thread who says "ooh yeah" I will flip out
Ooh yeah!

OT: I don't really give a crap, it's the way their culture work. Sure, it's fucked up but, it's not really any of our business.
Agree tbh. It's about time we (USA/Britain/Other countries in middle east) took a step back and stopped messing in other people's business. It's their culture, who are we to tell them their culture is wrong - even if we believe it is. Haven't we messed with the area enough to start getting arrogant and to demand they change their views once again? That'll do our popularity a load of good in the middle east won't it?...
'We want you to make your own decisions and legislation and to stand on your own two feet..but that legislation...it has to go, oh and so does this, that, and that one too...' Great.
 

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Mad Maniac with axe-firing chainsaw said:
Its an abominable situation alright, but things have been and are rotten to the core in Afghanistan. Only a determined and well-thought out strategy which keeps the nutters on both sides of the border in line will help to bring equality to Afghanistan. A number of people have noted the possibility of just saying "fuck it" and going home. But if our troops just go home, then we have no chance of rectifying the situation, and it will just get worse. Worst of all, think about all the lives that have been lost fighting the taliban and fighting to raise welfare levels in Afghanistan. Were they all in vain then?
Unfortunately I suppose they might have to be in vain.

This quagmire in the middle east is costing US taxpayers hundreds of billions of dollars. And what will we gain from it?

Morally, I am all for going in there and stopping this monstrous mistreatment of human beings. But realistically, it's consuming time and money that we could be using to fix problems in the United States--things like illegal immigration. I'm more worried about the state of my own country than one on the other side of the world... and US citizen tax dollars should be going to things that help the US.
 

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Macgyvercas said:
Kilaknux said:
Macgyvercas said:
I...I just...I'm sorry, but this is severely messed up.

My faith in humanity just died again.
You mean it ever came back? 'Bout the age of 10 it died for me, and then never ressurected itself. This is just par for the course for the arseholes that are humanity. Oh, that humanity had but one throat for me to throttle.
Okay, I guess i should have said it became a zombie and this just killed it.
...so it was a good thing then?
 

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Macgyvercas said:
I...I just...I'm sorry, but this is severely messed up.

My faith in humanity just died again.
You had faith? You blithering idiot! To the stupid corner with you!
 

Therumancer

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For the better part of 10 years now I have been saying that our operations in the region are fundementally flawed. Our engagement doctrine in the US is based arount the idea that there will effectively be "good guys" in any conflict we get involved in. The idea that the most we'd ever have to do is remove an oppressive regime and liberate an oppressed people. The possibility of a confrontation with a culture that is xenophobic and beyond reasoning with (for religious reasons) was not considered as part of our morality, as was a situation where a culture itself (a set of beliefs held by a people) rather than a goverment or party. What's more after World War II we looked at the carnage and decided to try and put laws into place to prevent something like that from happening again. The idea being that if all went according to plan there would be no need for carnage on that level as there could never be another culture akin to the Nazis.

To put things bluntly, we were wrong. Simply put we put the Taliban into power because they opposed the Russians back during The Cold War. We excpected them to be our friends, and at least back us, so we turned a blind eye on their civil liberties abuses. 9/11 and their attitude towards Al Queda when we asked for their help showed this to hardly be the case.

Being the good guys we went into the region and insted of simply wasting everyone, decided to try and keep things stable while picking out the terrorists and removing the Taliban goverment. The tool we chose to do this with was "The Northern Alliance" who were the former allies of the USSR, and as anyone who remembers the Cold War even vaguely can tell you, an even bigger freak show than the "Taliban Freedom Fighters" we backed.

You really can't deal with the problems in the region because when you get down to it, it's about the beliefs of the people. We knew right from the beginning there was a problem when Afghanistan formed a new constitution specifying it would be an "Islamic State" as opposed to seperating the church and state. What's more, things like "starving one's wife" are pretty much what the people there themselves believe in, and the leadership is indicative of this fact. This shows pretty much how the people there think. Things would be very violent and anti-US (more so than it is) if we didn't effectively have a gun to their head. Right now pulling out of the region with a culture that xenocidal would be a mistake and akin to putting a gun to our own head since we'd be basically turning our back on terrorist retaliation.

As I've said before, rather than worrying about the stability of these regions, and the "rights" of the civilian population and such, we should have pretty much entered with the attitude that the whole culture is borked. Their cultural issues are their own to get over in their own time, but in the meantime we have our own interests in making sure they don't mess with us. We should have pretty much come in guns blazing, wiped out as many people (including civilians) as we could along with what passes for their infrastructure (farms, livestock, huts, etc...). Leave them with like say 4% of their population still enjoying oxygen and massive clouds of radiation/toxic chemicals/biological weapons through the mountains killing off the actual terrorist fighters and leaders hiding out there, and basically leave behind giant hellish death field.

Inhumane? Well yes, but modern standards what I have just suggested is totally immoral, and there are tons of "laws" against it, which admittedly were written without this kind of situation in mind.

The way I see things is that if you've got a nation reduced to less than 5% of it's population, suddenly needing to scramble to rebuild even basic housing, and adapting to extreme enviromental hazards, they are going to be too busy keeping themselves alive to
worry about terrorism. Especially seeing as while you watch them rebuild it's much easier in that state to come in and kick it all over again if they don't start to change their attitudes (ie your not going to let them start building up terrorist training camps, or hold giant speeches screaming 'kill america'. Word of that gets out, in come a few more planes with Daisy Cutters).

Oh sure, the people in the region will hate us, but in the end I can live with that, I'm all about removing the threat to the US more than anything. They can hate us as much as they want as long as they cann't do anything about it. Unfair? Well honestly we didn't force them to fly hijack a trio of planes and attempt to crash them into our seat of goverment, our central military command, and one of our major centers of international trade (having hit 2 out of 3 of those targets). Plus we also gave Mullah Omar an oppertunity to live up to The Taliban's alliance with the US (since we helped them, and put them into power), he's the one who decided not to turn over Bin Ladin or help with Al Queda.

For all stories about Taliban or Al-Queda oppression both groups have massive grass roots support against the US/allies. One of the reasons why we have to look at the whole situation is bad, and you have to basically rip out all of that grass BY it's roots in order to expose the bad guys. We're just too moral to blacktop our lawn basically.


Such are my thoughts, I expect many to disagree. Such sentiments are typically not popular when I express them, but honestly the sheer passage of time has not made me feel any safer (unlike many). I am very concerned about what happens if we leave these groups pretty much as they are in either Afghanistan OR Iraq (never mind places that have been affected by this like Iran or Pakistan) and simply pull out.

Truth is I'm all in favor of a withdrawal from the region, but only after leaving behind a ton of ordinance. I'm not talking "Shock and Awe" but "Death and Destruction".
 
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Therumancer said:
Truth is I'm all in favor of a withdrawal from the region, but only after leaving behind a ton of ordinance. I'm not talking "Shock and Awe" but "Death and Destruction".
Whats the point in trying to help the people of a region if you kill them all in the process?

We're there to try to forge human rights, not take away millions of peoples basic right to survive. Priorities here!

1st Edit: Was Ghengis Khan right to murder his way across three continents only to be a nice ruler to the few pathetic survivors? I certainly don't think so.
 

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TerribleTerryTate said:
Xorghul said:
Ciarang said:
Why do people marry again ?

Also if I see an asshole in this thread who says "ooh yeah" I will flip out
Ooh yeah!

OT: I don't really give a crap, it's the way their culture work. Sure, it's fucked up but, it's not really any of our business.
Agree tbh. It's about time we (USA/Britain/Other countries in middle east) took a step back and stopped messing in other people's business. It's their culture, who are we to tell them their culture is wrong - even if we believe it is. Haven't we messed with the area enough to start getting arrogant and to demand they change their views once again? That'll do our popularity a load of good in the middle east won't it?...
'We want you to make your own decisions and legislation and to stand on your own two feet..but that legislation...it has to go, oh and so does this, that, and that one too...' Great.
I watch all of this on the news and see that there are a lot of women who dislike being forced into things and they try to solve the problems themselves which doesn't seem to ever end well (even setting themselves on fire as a form of protest). I admit I don't know much about their culture but it always looks like some of those people really do want help.

The USA/British/etc. army's invaded their country to kick out all the so called bad guys and are trying to make it a better place for the non extremists, and they still have a long way to go! I don't think it's about pushing them around, telling them what to do, just trying to get rid of all the stone age violence and sexist stuff.
 

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E-Z said:
coxafloppin said:
muslims have never treated there women right but that is just insane.
You'd know this how? Sure this seems to be common in the middle-east, but it's silly and ignorant to say all male muslims mistreat women. I'm a muslim and I haven't beaten anyone or mistreated women, nor do I intend to (unless someone tries to beat/kill me).
Mine beats my dad.

Oh and for the lulz, he just lost the family cat (3 year old, well bred cat). The old man is going to get 'dps'd' to hell and back.
 

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The amount of ignorance in this thread makes my eyes hurt a little.

I otherwise am bland and have no opinion besides starving people is a dick move.
 

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Ahhhh the joys of a state based on the principles of an organised religion. Hey some of you Americans might think this is weird, but I have to say, it's no less weird than Americans putting a halt to Stem Cell research because of the bloody Bible. Afghanistan has still got all that to look foward to once they have their cultural revolution.

When it comes to nations waking up and saying, "You know what Mister Pope/Archbishop/Rabbi/Witch Doctor, I'm no longer an ignorant uneducated mongoloid, take your repressive bullcrap and shove it up your heiney hole you sociopathic dingus!" You have to leave them to it. Forcefully trying to get people to wake the feck up only causes them to hold onto their indigineous cultures with greater zeal. Whatever doubts they have over their leadership are instantly quashed when they are united in hatred of some nosey, foreign invader who really aren't making things much better.
 

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In some ways it doesn't sound too horrible. I know that starving someone is horrible, but if you are going to tie someone down in a monogamous relationship, you have to pleasure your partner now and then, either that or allow them to seek pleasure elsewhere. This goes for the husbands too, naturally, as there are wives out there who are frustrated because their husbands won't sex them up. So yeah, if you're in a relationship, sex up your partner.
 

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Macgyvercas said:
I...I just...I'm sorry, but this is severely messed up.

My faith in humanity just died again.
If the tribal Taliban warlords were still in power, do you think that would be the limit of such terrible sexist practices?
 

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We instituted their democracy, we are not allowed to ***** when the leader that they elected does something that we don't agree with.
 

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Macgyvercas said:
I...I just...I'm sorry, but this is severely messed up.

My faith in humanity just died again.
I don't think a faith in humanity ever existed in me in the first place.
 

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Obviously democracy only works when the electorate isn't stupid.

Also - staving your wife, great way to keep her thin.
 

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JaredXE said:
Abedeus said:
All of you - shut up.

It's not a religious thing. It's a cultural thing.

There is nothing about starving people in either Bible or Qu'ran. Sure in the second one there is a bit of anti-women stuff, but we might as well criticize America for the same thing.
And I do have to argue that it is a religious thing. When your culture intertwines with what is preached for so long like it has in many parts of the world, it becomes their religion. And there is more than "a bit" of that anti-woman stuff in the Qu'ran.
Backwards. Religion becomes culture, not culture becoming religion.

IceStar100 said:
bjj hero said:
IceStar100 said:
No I don't the women stay in the bs they can deal. If Jews can get out of Germny Muslums can women can give out. The choose to stay for there sky wizard. If I don't like some I don't expect other to make it so I do I leave. Yes they can die but they can die if they say. Sorry it like an abused wife. If she gets her butt beat and stay I feel no pity for her.
Its not quite like an abused wife in the UK. Imagine if you have little or no education, have never been out of the house alone, never driven a car, have no access to money, the authorites will do worse to you than your family, you probably have no passport to leave, always watched by a family member, the authorities will give sole care of your children to your abusive partner (including the girls so they can carry on the culture of abuse)...

Not the easiest thing to escape.
I know if a royal ass today but still. If you want out you'll get out. Yes bad things might happen but they already are. I've see women get out before so I know it can be done.
Bad things? Dude, this is Afgan. You don't "get out". That place is so religious, even bringing up divorce can get you killed. Seriously, don't try and act like you know what a wife beating is like.

Even regular wife beatings: You loved that man, and now he's beating you. The one person you care about more than anyone, and they wish harm on you. They don't think there's anything else better. Beatings are traumatic.

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Now, on topic, I'll agree with what someone else said: You can just start making radical changes to their customs and beliefs.

Oh, and there is some nonsense being spewed about this being a Muslim thing. It's an Afgan thing.