generals3 said:
Actually i don't really like the word "attraction" in this context. Simply because attraction is a consequence of many elements. For instance "intelligence" is an attractive trait and thus by default cause attraction. (well ok, if everything else fails it won't be able to make up for the other unattractive traits but if all else remains the same more intelligence will increase the attractiveness. Mainly for women) And i would also like to add that there is no such thing as quality being desired for its own sake. A quality is only beneficial if you consider it a quality and if you do there is a reason.
Fair enough, what I essentially mean is not for the sake of being an object of lust. Something that comes more directly from the trait, intelligence results in greater understanding, strength gives you more freedom to interact with the world, etc...
Secondly one of the problems we can encounter is the fact both women and men find different perks more important when it comes to attractiveness and both respond differently to sexualization. For instance traits not considered as sexual are more important for women than men. And nudity has a bigger impact on arousal for males than females. As such you don't even need to sexualize male characters for them to be sexual fantasies.
Depends, there's many ways though that guys can be sexualized in games that would probably do far more for a lot of women than being smart, funny or strong. One sec, I'm going to ask one to get an example.
Okay, here's what she says would work with a lot of the women she knows (although not particularly for her):
- Tight pants, accentuating the ass and showing off the definition of his package
- Very low cut shirts or shirtless with defined abs, but not a hulking beast of a man
- Confident, teasing attitude
- "making eyes" (I'm guessing this would be akin to giving sexual gazes to the player character)
A very large part of it seems to do with how they'd interact with the characters, acting in an alluring, roguish manner. As well as how they carry themselves and show their body.
She also gave me a link to an artist who does a lot of drawings of sexualized guys, which can be seen here [http://neemeister.deviantart.com/art/Jason-150021275?q=gallery%3Aneemeister%2F1661593&qo=22]. And while that one is rather tame, the Man for Every Season [http://neemeister.deviantart.com/art/Man-for-Every-Season-Calendar-104258603] calender goes a fair bit farther with that. Also, I feel this quote from her is prudent "90% of the men in [the artists] Gallery look like they just are asking to be fucked".
This obviously isn't every woman's opinion or taste, but I think that it makes a good enough point that guys can be sexualized for women in senses far beyond being smart, strong and funny. Those just don't get nearly any attention. I imagine this is largely due to the fact that game publishers are afraid of making guys uncomfortable by playing as female protagonists, much less have attractive shirtless men seductively make advances on them.
While they may like them they're lower on the priority scale than for women. We prioritize signs of fertility and not genetic awesomeness. Doesn't mean we don't care at all about intelligence or humour or whatever, but just care less.
And i totally disagree that there is an inherent need to give the same amount of attention to the opposite gender. That's not how marketing works. You choose your target and try to satisfy that target.
You can say that, but then that just further reinforces the idea that gaming is a boys club and that effort should be made to ensure that it remains one. Something I don't buy into at all, if you're clearly marketing your products to a single gender, you shouldn't be surprised when the other gender gives less attention to it
EDIT: Also relevant and pictured below is the reportedly very sexualized statue of a man in the controposto stance and reflects a mischievous play of dominance (her words, she also happens to have taken some art history classes). However this was in ancient greece and might not be entirely applicable as it was men doing the sexualization