Only if we'd already launched the weapons.....Rutawitz said:if america suddenly just disappeared, people would miss it
Seriously though:
I can understand the original posters frustration, but this largely comes down to perception. As has been stated before there will always be people looking at things differently, they're reacting differently to America's actions. The American media tendency towards glib "them against us" scenarios leads to the impression that you have. Not trying to blame it all on them, but its a mentally that tends not to distinguish between detractors.
A lot of abuse of things like Iraq comes from not only those who oppose the action, but those who oppose how it has been carried out. I myself have contempt for what Saddam did, but am also not impressed by the US' (and the UK's) actions in his stead.
As a final note try to consider interpretations of motive. Most Americans will steadfastly hold to the fact that they are trying to do the right thing. Fair enough. But others will not see it that way. It is natural to distrust foreign interventions and what their motives are, especially when (regardless of whether it was or not) there are such apparent other motives possible (placing in a friendly regime, oil etc.). An outside example may be useful. Iran states it wants nuclear power. Many western countries distrust their motives and will regardles of outcomes. This probably frustrates many Iranians who truly believe that they simply want whats best for them and no harm upon others.