Tr3yk1ng said:
A man puts a women in a bikini for an ad thats bad.If a women puts a women in an ad thats fine.Wow that doesnt sound very EQUAL and it doesnt matter who its aimed at.Its like doesnt the women have the right to chose wether she wants to be in the ad or not.Cause thats kinda how it works no one forces these women to do this.
First of all, nobody's crying for torches and pitchforks on objectification. A lot of people
don't like objectification, or consider it to be problematic, or consider it's only problematic when it's done unequally (objectifying women but not men), or consider it's only problematic when the person being objectified is not given agency or power. There are a lot of things to discuss when it comes to sexualisation and objectification (which are also not the same thing), so it would be nice if you didn't automatically assume that everyone who is critical of objectification simplistically says "objectification is bad", because that's not really a fair treatment of the subject.
Second of all, if a woman objectifies another woman (or herself) for the sake of a male audience, she's just as guilty of objectification as if she was a man making those decisions. That's why I emphasised in my reply to you that it was important to distinguish who the decision was aimed at. If a woman wants to walk around topless because she wants to objectify herself, that's completely different from the woman who wants to walk around topless for the same reasons that men want to walk around shirtless (because it's hot, because it's more comfortable, because she wants to get an even tan, etc). That second reason has nothing to do with objectification.
Tr3yk1ng said:
I went to see the movie pain and gain a while back and there is a scene were the rock takes off his shirt.As soon as he did pretty much every women in the theater started hollering and whistling and wisper to each other how he was sexy.I know they did cause they were loud.Is this objectifying men?Course not its a power fantasy of men wanting to see a shirtless dwayne johnson right.
Cause I know when i go see a movie my first thought is i that i realy hope a big muscle man takes off his shirt soon.You can say all day you want equality but you just want special treatment.
That actually depends very much on what the film maker's intention was. If he was deliberately trying to please the women in the audience, you would have a point. But let me tell you, most people who watch boxing and wrestling (activities where most men are shirtless and deliberately show off their muscles) are straight men. Most people who watch action movies with shirtless, muscled male protagonists are straight men. So yeah, most men do enjoy watching muscled shirtless men and projecting themselves onto those characters, because it very much
is a power fantasy for them.
FireAza said:
Hmmmm, I guess it could be seen as less "constant exposure = less sexy" and more a combination of the two. The aforementioned African tribes don't view boobs are sexy, because that's part of their culture, but that thinking might have come about since every woman has them hangin' out since they never thought they needed to cover them up.
They actually
do see boobs as sexy. That was the point I was making. It's not as simple as saying "we covet what we don't see because of the exotic factor". That isn't
wrong, it's very much true, but it's not
all there is to sexuality. Again, you see it in Western society where male shirtlessness is very common, even outside beaches, and people still find men baring their chests as extremely hot. Hell, there is a huge part of sexuality that is about sexualising people IN clothes, not without them. A great deal of people (I would even say a vast majority) find people hotter when wearing specific items of clothing than completely naked.