Transgender and gender roles

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DanDanikov

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It's rather closed-minded to think that perfect transition is and always will be impossible (in fact, I think you'd be surprised with what they achieve now). If someone could become indistinguishably the opposite sex, why would they be obliged to disclose the fact that their sex had been different previously?

Better still, what if all children were born sexless and later in life, probably puberty, chose a sex? Would you judge them on that first choice, rather than an initial assignment at birth? What if they went on to change their mind? Obviously currently issues over sex are currently based on two things- historically, the sexual binary existed because there just wasn't any other option, and right now, we have yet to achieve safe, easy and flawless sexual transitions.

Also, the idea of changing sex is far from an alien idea- there are very old stories about individuals changing sex or swapping bodies and modern story-telling hasn't let up on that subject, while intersexed individuals have been well documented throughout history. The only different is that modern medicine is making the reality of changing sex far more possible.

Back to the OP, there are a number of people who have body dysmorphic issues that can be confused for transexual feelings, which is why seeing a specialist psychiatrist is very important. I mentally lump transexuality in with body integrity identity disorder and those sorts of issues- there is an obvious mismatch between what the brain believes the body should be, and what the body is. Regardless to the cause, the best solution is successful psychiatric care merely because this avoids the risks and expenses that surround surgery. As suggested before, if such changes to the body were safe and easy, there'd be no good reason to prevent it and I'm sure a number of curious people would give it a go to (possibly to the outrage of a number of transexuals who feel like their experiences are cheapened by people treating sex change so casually? I'd love opinions on that concept).
 

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Rawne1980 said:
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Beautiful Tragedy said:
Get a room guys :L

OT: There is a sci-fi universe where there are six genders. I think it was something like male, female, transgendered male, transgendered female, hermaphrodite, neutral/asexual, with sets of pronouns for each. Which would make talking about these things much easier, from a purely meta-linguistic standpoint.
Hmm...
It's quite a weird thing to try to think about. As in, I'm just not equipped to truly understand what it would be like to have a female body, therefore I have no real way to comprehend how transgendered people might feel. The only thing I can compare it too is if I were to lose a limb or something. I can imagine the sense of loss and frustration I'd feel if I were to be missing say, my right hand. I need that hand for all my means of expression. I use it to draw, play bass, type, play games. It is a fundamental part of who I am. If I did lose it, I'd try to build a robot one...

So my conclusion is, I want a robot hand. Just in case.

What was the topic again?
 

Beautiful Tragedy

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RhombusHatesYou said:
Relish in Chaos said:
So what are your thoughts on this whole can of worms I may've opened?
Personally, I see no point in denying the point-of-view of transgendered people or trying to tell them they're wrong or the hundred other mountains of bullshit the TG community faces everyday, most of which boil down to saying "no, you're wrong and don't know your own experiences".

FUCK. THAT. NOISE.

And the bullshit of telling TG people what they are and what they aren't... fuck that as well.

It's all the insecurities of other people having things harder and it's a load of shite. We're all people and should be treated as such, without bullshit judgements and without trying to cram other people into convenient box for our own piece of mind. Are our societies so weak that they need to make everyone conform to these strict, constraining, sometimes utterly and destructivelty inappropriate labels? Because if they are, I would say that the problem is withour societies not with the people who make them uncomfortable by being who they are or who they want to be?

I mean, shit, isn't striving to be who you feel you should be one of the most fundamental goals for humanity?

Or as Gandhi said "be the change you want to see in the world"
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