Virgin want virgin confliction

[Redworld13]

I agree with One of the first posts, Virgin + Virgin = No fun for anyone, hell virgin + non-virgin isnt great (ive had both), besides if the girl you find is great but has already had sex, she wont mind your fumbling around and will be better in the long run.

 

[ThisIsSnake]

Good luck and get ready for the most awkward, nervous and scary moment of your life (it may also be painful).

 

[Palademon]

Unlike half the people here, I have no problem with what you believe, and even find it annoying how several people say you'll be miserable as if the pleasure factor is all that matters, even though they've already been proved wrong about what it can be like by several others.

Do whatever you want. I'm in the same position as you(Well 16, not 19), but I'd like to focus more of the loving side instead of whether they're a virgin. I can understand that though. I'd certianly be a bit aggitated if I was having sex with someone who previously had sex with someone I hated. That's a bit childish for me to think though, but I don't think your idea is at all selfish, afterall it's only denying yourself sex for someone of comparable level, so you can both have the same first experience.

 

[Bobkat1252]

No no no...

Virgin + Virgin = The worst sex. Ever.

I'm not saying you should go trolling for people with experience, but to actually aim for such a catastrophe...

Oh, the humanity.

This; my first time was also my girlfriend's first time, and we both agreed now that its been several years that it was an awful experience. I'd say don't be picky as to whether your first is a virgin or not.

 

[Airsoftslayer93]

Do you really think a lass who is a virgin would really be thinking in the same way? she would want her first time to be someone who is experianced and know what he is doing, sorry mate but you really need to just go for anyone

 

[Kiju]

Sex.

Rule 1: Make sure they're "clean". Don't need an STD after your first time.
Rule 2: Condom condom CONDOM. Get a few, dawg.
Rule 3: Let your body do the thinking for you. Sex is a physical and emotional act, the mental part comes afterwards.
Rule 4: Enjoy yourself...

 

[AVATAR_RAGE]

My advice find a girl and role with it

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

No no no...
Virgin + Virgin = The worst sex. Ever.

Its true, Me and my ex were virgins it was the WORST sex humanely possible.

 

[Gurk]

Dude. Get laid whenever you can, to whoever you can.

That sounds a bit spineless.

Twas a joke...

 

[A Free Man]

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Now I've never had sex, but I'm pretty sure you can't tell someone is a virgin unless you actually ask them. It's not like she's going to take her clothes off, and she'll be glowing red down there to indicate whether or not she has had sex before.

This over-romantized fantasy that two virgins will get together and rose petals will fall from the sky as they do it the first time is a load of crap. If you truly love someone, there sexual encounters prior to you don't mean a lot. Just remember, after their first time with you, they're no longer a virgin.

I'm sorry but I don't really see how anything you said applies to my post. Firstly I don't know about the acting skills of the people you hang around with, but generally if you know someone well enough to be thinking about having a deep relationship with them then you will probably have an idea about whether or not they are a virgin. Obviously this won't always be the case but if you are perceptive you can usually notice things like that. As for the over-romantizing part I never said anything to do with that. I am not saying it will be something out of a movie or anything like you just said... All I said was that it is possible do it the way you want to do it and not to just do what other people expect you to do.[/quote]

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I must admit you sound like you know a bit more than me in the area. But to me it is not so much just that I want my first time to be with any virgin I can find. I guarentee you now I won't be having sex until I meet someone I really care for (which won't be to soon due to my all guy school and lack of many female friends :{ but that being said it would be nice to sort of learn how with someone else so you don't feel pressured to know what your doing. I don't know maybe it is just a silly thing but to me I think it would be nice, and I don't see anything wrong with it.

 

[maninahat]

Rofl.

I had sex when I was 20 for the first time with a girl who got around plenty of times. She said I was one of the best and never would've guessed that I was a virgin if I hadn't have told her. (She found out after she complimented me for the sex, so it wasn't a pity one).

You're overthinking this shit. Just get in the bed with whomever you want to share it with and have fun. People put too much stock into this first time bullshit.

Pretty much this (though I was 19 instead).

Don't worry about you're first time. It isn't anywhere as meaningful or important as people make out. Your second time is the one that really counts (when you actually know what you're doing). I think we should stop this stupid society perception that virginity is of any value. It really isn't. It means nothing.

 

[Russian_Assassin]

So you're basically asking for the stars, the sun and every other celestial body out there.

Just find the right person and fuck her. She will understand that you are a virgin and even help you. If she doesn't then she is a whore and you should totally burn her house and family break up with her.

It doesn't matter that you have no experience (what is this, world of warcraft? Do we level up after fucking a certain amount of people or something?). Besides, you are 19. Being angsty (this is totally a real word. SHUT UP FIREFOX CORRECTOR!) about a subject like sex makes you sound silly, at least to me

 

[Communist partisan]

Just pay a prostitute and get it over with, you'll enjoy your first time and she don't care as long as she gets paid, and she will GTFO as quickly as it's over.

 

[yoyo13rom]

No no no...

Virgin + Virgin = The worst sex. Ever.

I'm not saying you should go trolling for people with experience, but to actually aim for such a catastrophe...

Oh, the humanity.

but i dont care about how good the sex is at first.
we'll get their in time, its not major science.

Ok first of all: yeah the sex might not be that great physically at first, but look at the bright side, neither of you will have big expectations of each other.

Now for the most serious part: Don't worry about not enough virgins in the world and about not being able to find one. I mean I'm a male virgin and a know at least several virgin girl friends(as in we're friends and they happen to be girls, not as in I'm in a relationship with all of them). And we're all 19-21-ish something.

Anyway you must not make this wish into a relationship breaker. If you like someone and feel close to that person, the fact that she may or may not have slept with other people shouldn't mess up your feeling for her.

Yeah, I feel like I'm not getting my point across here...
In short the idea is: Don't worry there are tons of virgin girls out there(just look for those how want to get married first), and it's a really nice and emotional thing you've set out to accomplish there.

 

[Simriel]

This is the creepiest thread I've seen on this website so far. Did a post actually suggest looking for virgin hangout spots? EWWW...

Have sex with someone who you think is groovy and who thinks you're groovy back. If you create rules other than that, you're going to have unsatisfying relationships. Trust me.

You sir, are a prophet of the ages. Where may I here more of your enlightened opinions? (Not Sarcasm, seriously)

 

[Simriel]

Nothing sexier than a guy with checklist.

I lolled hard.

 

[Simriel]

I know completely how you feel... I am the same as you and i am 20... I dont want to go out and meet women who have "slept around" so to say, I want someone who is experiencing this for the first time, because i want it to be special, so me and for her. whats so special about the 10th + time youve done it? the first is something that will remain with you, and i want no regrets

The first time with any new person in a relationship is pretty special. Each still has to explore e.c.t what makes the other one squirm and moan.

 

[Exterminas]

Jeez. What is twilight doing to the world?
Everyone is determinated to fetishize their virginity.
Let me give you a few datas on sex:

-It so not some magic fairy tale thing that is the best when you have been a good boy. It is a mechanical process with a very strong psychological component. You push physical and emotional buttons and get a response. No idea what the buttons are? You aren't going to blow minds, even when Santa things you are a nice guy.

-Sex is the best with a person you have feelings of desire and affection for and when you both have a vague idea of what you are doing.

-Sex takes time and practice between two people to reach it's best level. It's not going to be great the first times. If it was, then you are either madly in love, or were incredibly lucky.

-Sex is not important. It is rubbing certain body parts together. It's a legal way to get a chemical buzz. It's NOT the pillar of the western civilization.

-Having "Slept around" doesn't dimish a person in any way. The common vagina doesn't get
smaller by usage.

-What makes sex special is not the bodycount of both partners, but the feelings between them.