Sebenko said:
Monkfish Acc. said:
But gays are icky!
Nope. I've slept with slightly more guys than girls over my life, and I certainly didn't find them icky
Or were you assuming that your personal perception of others sexuality has some kind of normative relevance? In which case, I find you icky, so you shouldn't be allowed to be in a sexual situation either.
There isn't a gay/bi guy on earth who is bothered over whether you find gay sex 'icky' or not. Frankly, most sex is icky - I can't think of many friends, male or female, who I'd like to accidentally walk in on. The problem is when you assume that your own perception is so goddamn important that other people should have to be villified or live in accordance with your own tastes. Plenty of folks find gay sex 'icky' without being homophobic - they're the ones that are straight, but that they aren't any better or worse for that.