ryuutchi said:
As glad as I am that the Escapist's topic this month focused on gays in the gaming community, I found it both interesting and a little depressing that "gays in gaming" apparently means "gay men in gaming". And beyond that, the focus on non-gender-normative male characters seems a little odd for the topic-- non-gender-normative men aren't necessarily gay (and I found Robert Yang's focus on "I'm not making you do girly things when you're being gay" a little off-putting because not only does it derogate gay men who like feminine activities, it derogates straight men, and women of all sexual orientations who do enjoy those activities.)
General critique over, what about the gay women? We're not represented either, except insofar as some guys want to watch two women make out (for the men's pleasure, natch, conventionally attractive women only, please). When do we get long-winded articles about the lack of representation?
I disagree completely with the statement that LGBT women are
under represented in games. I do however believe they are
misrepresented.
I'm not a lesbian woman, [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/6.147586?page=2#3416041] so I don't mean to co-opt your perspective and speak for you. After reading the newest issue of the Escapist, I just happened to have a conversation with my best friend who happens to be a girl who prefers girls, and she shares the opinion that I will share to you.
The largest demographic of gamers happen to be heterosexual males. Many of these heterosexual males are extremely homophobic when it comes to the notion of romance between males, but still find two girls kissing hot. [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/6.147761?page=2#3415327] Many of them are willing to play a female character, but find it uncomfortable to take part in a romantic relationship with a male character, even when playing as a female character.
Due to this, lesbian and bisexual women are seen everywhere in games. There are games that merely feature the option to have a lesbian relationship such as in The Sims, Fable, or Vampire The Masquerade: Bloodlines. Then there are games that feature in depth subplots between two characters. From Lady Howard and Estelle Stiles in Gabriel Knight, Hana and Rain in Fear Effect, Juhani in KOTOR, or Shepard and Liara in Mass Effect. These characters are given great prominence.
Unfortunately many of these characters are portrayed as lipsticks simply there for the enjoyment of teenage boys. Yet nearly all of them are portrayed as strong and independent women. Gay men are more often depicted as sissies, deviants and more often just excluded.
Case in point: Vampire the Masquerade. Nearly every lady can be seduced by either a male or female avatar. Yet most attempts for a man to seduce a man elicits a homophobic response, or one that replies that they're straight. Only two women tell a female player character that they're hetero and only one responds in disgust.
There are greener pastures up ahead though. I cannot sing Rockstar more praise for the handling of the subject matter in Bully and Grand Theft Auto IV. With protagonists like Jimmy Hopkins, Luis Lopez, and Gay Tony the playing field may finally change for the better.