Ok. So basically I'm trying to rip the scab off a healing wound. Man, I'm a dick. I could ask you some more follow up questions about how what you saw others go through, how quickly they healed- and what you felt when you saw them... but I don't want to be a bother.Instinct Blues said:No, because I went to the candlelight vigils and all that stuff. It was more of a time heals all wounds sort of thing since I didn't lose anyone close to me it just went away quicker.
That's gotta suck. I remember going out of my way to treat middle eastern people with the same respect I always did... because I could see their guard up in my every exchange with them. We heard plenty of hate crime stories coming from around neighboring Dearborn, MI. It has the highest concentration of middle easterners out of any city it's size.Iffat Nur said:Im a muslim, so take a wild guess on what my school years from 2001-2004 like -.-
The death of one person is a tragedy, the death of a million is a statistic.dancinginfernal said:It's funny, really. Thousands of people dying didn't affect me as much as my uncle being shot a year before the incident.
9/11 has never really affected me, aside from the fact they've rendered airports completely paranoid.
Well maybe I should have qualified that statement. I was a kid living across the US with divorced parents. My mother wouldnt let it go on tv for fear of scaring me and my father didn't have cable. They mentioned it at my school but I never made a personal connection with it.xDarc said:And if a family member had touched you when you were a kid, would that do nothing too? You have to realize people are most impacted by what's around them during their formative years? Can you give me any examples at all of what you noticed that was different in your own little bubble amongst your community, your family- things that affected attitudes and happiness- in the years that followed the greatest turning point in recent history?Lineoutt said:I was a kid so no, it didn't do anything.
xDarc said:Ok. So basically I'm trying to rip the scab off a healing wound. Man, I'm a dick. I could ask you some more follow up questions about how what you saw others go through, how quickly they healed- and what you felt when you saw them... but I don't want to be a bother.Instinct Blues said:No, because I went to the candlelight vigils and all that stuff. It was more of a time heals all wounds sort of thing since I didn't lose anyone close to me it just went away quicker.
By themselves, cynicism and a lack of trust in people to be inherently good isn't much new- I guess. But what you're telling me is you noticed a change at that time and in the years that followed- because you do contemplate about "how things used to be" from the stories you've heard.THEAFRONINJA said:I had no idea what was happening. I was... 7 years old. I have noticed that the world and the people in it have seemed.... colder, than previous generations (well, from what I gather after hearing stories of said generations).
I don't know if it is all down to that, though, I don't think so. I mean, for us, a bunch of Primary School kids in England, it didn't really affect anything, yet we still grew up to be quite cynical, and it's something that seems to go beyond teenage angst. Most of us have past that angsty 'woe is me' stage, but the cynicism and lack of trust remained. I don't think we can blame the current state of things all on 9/11 (as I've heard people do).
So your mother tried to shield you from it? Did you ever wonder why? Did you ask her questions about it? What would she tell you?Lineoutt said:My mother wouldnt let it go on tv for fear of scaring me and my father didn't have cable. They mentioned it at my school but I never made a personal connection with it.
So would you say in some ways you might be numb? If so- do you think you may have numbed yourself, even a bit, to more than just fear?Sebenko said:So yeah. My main response to the climate of fear was to tell it to fuck off. ... I've just stopped caring.