Why aren't games chicks attracted to big & muscular guys?

[RobinHood3000]

You do realize that everything you just slammed me for, you are exhibiting yourself?
That i'm an "uber douche" and "meat head" etc. etc.
...
I mean, you think you're hot... so therefor you think you're better than me and you're being a complete... well, I don't want to get banned but you know what i'm about to say.
P.S. Posting a picture of you being a 'model' ... yeah, well, that speaks for itself.

I'm not saying that she's right or you're wrong, but I do feel it's important to point out that finding flaws in the way she presents her argument doesn't address the content of her argument; namely, that your description of women, collectively, as chicks who don't like to read or game, presents a very negative impression of yourself.

 

[Yeager942]

"...in all of the nerdy crap I do (build computers, game, read... all of that stuff that chicks hate)"

That's why.
You sound like an uber douche.
Most "nerdy women" (me) would classify you as a meat head and want nothing further to do with you.

You also don't know the difference between "lose" and "loose."

This is me being catty.

This is me being a model.




This is me leaving to play StarCraft.

Quite possibly the most badass post I've seen since ever.

Wp, ma'am.

 

[RN7]

Probably because you're kind of a dick for calling some guy that gets the girls you want a loser because he is inferior in your eyes. I don't know. Just a thought. Maybe you're not really a dick and you're just dumb. Or maybe you're misunderstood. You probably are if you got past me calling you a dick and an idiot without any cursory knowledge of who you actually are. In that case, I applaud you, good sir. Though you still may be an idiotic dick. Or maybe not. Either way, keep trying. You'll find some gamer girl that likes you. I'd also suggest finding a girl with similar interest, and if she's not into video games, try to introduce her to the medium. Just be persistent. Giving up is the worst thing you could do. Who knows what your luck will be? Maybe you'll end up sad and alone. Maybe a bullet will tear through your jugular vein and you'll bleed out in the field. Or maybe you'll find the right girl, settle down and have a happy family until the end of your days. Who knows. You don't.

 

[Dags90]

Most women aren't attracted to a man your size. It has nothing to do with what I presume you meant to be "gamer chicks". So yeah, you're a niche market. Nothing to do with with video games.

It's OK though, most men completely overestimate the amount of muscle women find attractive.[footnote]http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/comm/haselton/webdocs/frederickbodyimage.pdf[/footnote]

On the upside, there are probably some fellow workout dudes who'd like to bed you. Birds of a feather you know.

 

[LiquidGrape]

I love how some people in here talk as if the female pysche is either something obscure and foreign, or something that can be summed up in one sentence. Keep it classy, guys.

Which leads me to the OP: you're being self-aggrandising, condescending and presumptuous.

- It's not hot.

 

[Slayer_2]

"...in all of the nerdy crap I do (build computers, game, read... all of that stuff that chicks hate)"

This is me going out on a limb and saying- you're not that cute...
But thanks for playing.

That's cool.
I have met far more important people that tell me differently.
Aaaaaaand I've gotten more hot, smart, and polite chicks than you ever will.
Have fun playing!

Or, maybe you just have really high standards. Not like I'm attractive, but I've been with very few girls close to as beautiful as that, and I'm lucky if they even tolerated my gaming.

 

[Dr Snakeman]

"...in all of the nerdy crap I do (build computers, game, read... all of that stuff that chicks hate)"

This is me going out on a limb and saying- you're not that cute...
But thanks for playing.

And this is me coming to the conclusion that you are both horrible, horrible people. Both could use a lesson in humility. Not that anyone asked for my opinion, but I just thought I'd give it anyway.

I will say that her response was a little uncalled for, though.

 

[crop52]

Maybe you could try wearing clothes that don't show off your muscles, and then you say "Hey, I like gaming and nerdy things" and then after you spend some time with them, BAM! You rip your clothes off and pour oil all over yourself.

Okay, not really, but try something along those lines. It could be that those girls you talked to make the same "Buff=Dumb" assumption that a whole bunch of my fellow forum-goers are making.

Also, I seriously doubt that those girl blatantly said "You're too big."

 

[ks1234]

"...in all of the nerdy crap I do (build computers, game, read... all of that stuff that chicks hate)"

You do realize that everything you just slammed me for, you are exhibiting yourself?
That i'm an "uber douche" and "meat head" etc. etc.
...
I mean, you think you're hot... so therefor you think you're better than me and you're being a complete... well, I don't want to get banned but you know what i'm about to say.
P.S. Posting a picture of you being a 'model' ... yeah, well, that speaks for itself.

She isn't actually. She isn't exhibiting being a meat head. And while she isn't being particularly kind I don't see her slamming people for having girlfriends that she wanted.

She also didn't say she was hot. Nor did she use it to try and prove she was better than you. You assumed that. If anything it just looked like a taunt.

And she didn't suddenly start pretending to be a model or something. Looked at her posts quickly and it's not some kind of lie she's making up just for your sake.

I wasn't talking about her being a meat head... It was more about her being a stereotypical "hot" chick

 

[Mariena]

I think you can draw your own conclusions, OP. You come across as a massive douche. Jealous, pompous, arrogant and condescending. You first babble about how awesome you are, and how succesful you are. Look at you, you have your own villa, 14 sport cars, an awesome job that earns you tons and yet you're still just a kid going to school. Wow! If only we were all like you.

What a turn-off!

Besides, the idea that every guy wants to look like a massively ripped bulge of muscles is a myth, and the idea that every girl wants to have a guy that looks like a massively ripped bulge of muscles is an even bigger myth.

"...in all of the nerdy crap I do (build computers, game, read... all of that stuff that chicks hate)"

That's why.
You sound like an uber douche.
Most "nerdy women" (me) would classify you as a meat head and want nothing further to do with you.

You also don't know the difference between "lose" and "loose."

This is me being catty.

This is me being a model.

This is me leaving to play StarCraft.

I like you.

Can we date?

 

[Dr Snakeman]

"...in all of the nerdy crap I do (build computers, game, read... all of that stuff that chicks hate)"

That's why.
You sound like an uber douche.
Most "nerdy women" (me) would classify you as a meat head and want nothing further to do with you.

You also don't know the difference between "lose" and "loose."

This is me being catty.

This is me being a model.




This is me leaving to play StarCraft.

Quite possibly the most badass post I've seen since ever.

Wp, ma'am.

I don't get how this is "badass". True, the OP may be a bit arrogant, but so is she. Throwing out the "oh, look, I'm a gorgeous model and I hate you" line is just really tacky.

As my previous post states, I'm of the opinion that they are both the worst kind of person. I am also of the opinion that I don't want to share a thread with them anymore, so...

"This is me" finding another way to waste my time on the internet.

 

[Mouse One]

I know plenty of muscular guys who have geeky girlfriends (I do historical swordplay stuff. And no, I'm not talking about neckbeards with boffers). FWIW, when I was your age I was flying jets off carriers and leading 5.11b/c (better on face than crack. Erm...I'm talking about rock climbing). More into strength to weight ratio than looks, obviously. But still, managed to snag and marry a cute gamer gal with thick glasses, a body that wouldn't quit and a wiz at Civilization (and Avatar, which dates me, I know).

Truth to be told, unless you come off differently in person (and to be fair, many on teh internets do), your main issue is that you're full of yourself and more than a tad argumentative. I mean, come on, calling a girl a *&%^ just because she snarked at you? It doesn't reek of class. Doesn't matter "who started it". This isn't elementary school.

Listen, I work in a profession that has egos the size of large barns. I'll tell you that I watch guy after guy fail in his personal life because he can't see past what he's done and accomplished. They don't call it AIDS (Aviation Induced Divorce Syndrome) for nothing. And I'm not talking just gamer gals, I'm talking about women period.

Never forget that the one thing in common with all your failed relationships is you.

Anyway, just some free advice. No doubt worth what you paid for it. But you did ask.

 

[Princess_Dee]

Okay, I held a kitten for a moment and now I feel better.

To be honest, all of my gaming girlfriends like guys that are very sweet. Maybe it has something to do with the oh so popular upgrade elements in nearly all of the games of today.
You give something, then you receive something. Give a LITTLE attention, receive a little attention. Maybe a compliment, an offer for coffee....progression.

Try not to bulk a group together. Most people have at least two interests/hobbies in their lives. Some athletes like games, some models like games, some musicians like games.
Don't aim your sights at just one group; people will surprise you.

Tone down the attitude, and you will do splendidly.
:]

 

[Kuilui]

I guess the girls you've run into just aren't into huge dudes of which you are one as you stated. My suggestion to you would to perhaps try online dating sites honestly. I'm not saying don't keep asking out girls you meet or anything. Just try having a bigger net to catch that special someone.

A friend of mine is much like you he is a large dude who(probably like you) can be extremely intimidating without trying. He's my friend and I feel nervous just being around him he gives off that kind of "I'm the alpha male be lucky I'm not hurting you " aura. Hes a cool guy but he still gives off this intensity. You may be doing the same(most cops do, my retired Sargent uncle does this as well) so I would ask people around you like friends if you give that off. It might be hurting you. If it is then you can ask them for advice on how to tune that down a bit.

Maybe ask the dude at wal mart how he gets the girls to? heh, cant hurt right? Life is all about learning.

 

[AstylahAthrys]

*raises hand* Here is a gamer girl who loves muscular guys. You just needed to look harder. So does my best friend, a gamer chick who also shares my love!

My love is not reciprocated because I tend to find that muscular guys like tall, skinny girls, and I am a short, curvy lady. Horray for being 5 feet tall.

 

[RobinHood3000]

I wasn't talking about her being a meat head... It was more about her being a stereotypical "hot" chick

I don't think she's using her appearance as a way to say she's better than you. Although her response was, as she said, "catty," I think her point is that she falls into the category of women you're looking for (women who game) and she took issue with some of the things you said, meaning that if you want to improve on the impression you make, you should correct that.

 

[bam13302]

A), dont know you are a police officer and are intimidated by your size, consider you dangerous, simply scared of you
B), know your an officer and dont want to be with some so risky, despite the service you are doing, i could believe from the standpoint of someone trying to date an officer, that having someone risk their life every day is not the most comforting thing
C), think your an idiot
D), understand all that, but still dont want to be with someone in such a drastically different strength catagory than them, if you get angry (or drunk), you are a much bigger threat than a normal person, and a smaller/'nerdy'(stereotypical nerdy) girl could easily feel like they have no control (basically, they want to be able to say no if you demand something and not feel like they might die)
also, as a gamer, computer engineer, and nerd, i like someone i can talk to and they understand what im talking about, when i say i put 16GB of ram, a quad core 3.2GHz processor, and a NVIDIA GTX 480 in my computer, thats running on windows 7 64 bit, and they understand what i said (or at least can keep up and ask the right questions)

this may help with some of them (assuming she is a computer geek), ask her for help with your computer, or if you are particularly knowledgeable about computers (im trying not to make any assumptions here, i have no way of knowing if you know shit about computers), ask her opinion on yours, like on how to upgrade it, or building a new one
basically, show interest in games, or computers, or electronics, do your research, try playing some games, come off as a strong geek (they do exist, and they tend to 'fat finger' computer insides, so be careful if you do decide to crack open your desktop at home), not a weight lifter trying to pick up a nerd

im shooting in the dark here a bit, but this should help
i got first met my fiance by playing star wars the force unleashed with her and some other kids and we just continued hanging out, our first date was the renaissance festival (we are currently engaged)

good luck

i think that all makes sense >.>
(to long; didnt proofread )

 

[Mrrrgggrlllrrrg]

I'm going to throw this into the open, this is probably a troll thread. To anyone who played GTAIV, doesn't he kind of act like Brucie Kibbutz?


If this is not a troll thread then really all I have to say has been said to death. From what you have posted you come off as a less than ideal person but I don't know you so I will chalk it up to the arrogance we all have. But you put too much emphasis on your own arrogance. Success means little if you act like a fool.


I'm still assuming this is in fact a troll thread so on with it. *clapclap*

 

[Booze Zombie]

Here's the shitty part... they will then go and date some fucking loser who works at Wal-Mart and lives with his parents... because... I don't fucking know why actually.

The fact that you term someone you don't even know a "fucking loser" speaks a lot for why nerdy girls might not like you, I am afraid and I don't think it has much to do with your muscles.
Now, not all girls are the same and if they were it would be a very boring world, much like if all men were the same.

"Hey, Me, how are you doing?" "Oh, fine, Me... just fine."

But I'm guessing a lot of these girls just aren't impressed by someone who they could imagine looking in the mirror and going "damn, I look GOOOOOOOOOOOOO-" *half an hour later* "-OOOOOOOOOOOOD". I mean, they're not exactly going around looking for ugly dudes, but I've got this feeling they might find a diamond in the rough more enticing than a highly polished rock on a pedastal, if you follow my metaphor.

Anyway, just try to wear stuff that feels good and you like wearing, not because you think it's in or shows off your muscles, like you're not trying to show off, really and most importantly, be yourself.

You also appear to have a slight attitude problem from what I've been seeing here... you might want to look into what aspects of your personality you would find repugnant in a girl and then address them if they are big enough issues.