Your first love
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My first lasted a year. I really did love her, but she had too high standards coupled with family trouble, and I couldn't help her enough. Lots og things went wrong in the end, and we grew from eachother, to the point where she gave up.
I treated her like a princess, and I'm still not completely over her, even though it's been a year since we broke up.
But hey, plenty fish in the sea, right? ... Right?
I treated her like a princess, and I'm still not completely over her, even though it's been a year since we broke up.
But hey, plenty fish in the sea, right? ... Right?
Oh the jealousy!aseelt said:
OT: My first love decided after a few months of serious relationship that she just wanted to be friends. I was crushed but I got over it. I haven't found love since but I'm always waiting for it. I talk to girls and they talk to me. Odds are eventually I'll find her.
Still fresh, even after all this time. Despite my crust, I'm quite squishy inside if someone manages to get that far. She was the most amazing and most vile thing that ever occurred to me.
And I reckon I will rot sooner than forget her, despite my better judgment.
And I reckon I will rot sooner than forget her, despite my better judgment.
Buddy, I'm pretty much in the same boat. Because of her (different girl, but "first love") I can't get close to girls without having some annoying little voice in my head stopping me. Subconscious fear of getting pushed away like she would always do. As for the still loving her bit, nah. I look back and while I'd like to be friends, any more than that and I would probably hate her.Mr. Google said:
My third girlfriend is the closest I can consider being in love with. For the year that I was with her, it was one of the best years ever and felt happier then I had ever been. Sadly I ended it after I found out she had been cheating on me for three weeks and then she personally told me she wanted to have his child. I forgave her after a few months had passed and today were just pretty good friends.
well, my first was the neediest chick ever, until about a month after i realized i loved her, then she was cold and distant. luckily i left the relationship angry. I can deal with anger, i hate sorrow.
A few years ago (up until probably earlier this year actually) I would have had answer to this. Though that word applied to someone, but now I can honestly say it didn't. We never officially went out and she stomped all over my heart (twice), but no, it wasn't love.
What it did for me? Well one thing was that I learned some things about myself. A less positive thing was that it left me in romantic limbo for about 4 years, though admittedly that was mostly my fault. Oh well, I'll live.
What it did for me? Well one thing was that I learned some things about myself. A less positive thing was that it left me in romantic limbo for about 4 years, though admittedly that was mostly my fault. Oh well, I'll live.
For some reason I'm thankful I'm not the only one in this boat, but then I realize I'm sorta sad to see there are others too. Months after letting it go I was on a date and she was there too, with another guy, and since then I haven't gotten my "mojo" back... Perhaps I need a "Time Machine".SilverUchiha said:
Forgive me if this sounds bitter, it's really just an assessment of the situation.
My first love is a girl who still calls me her self-adopted brothers after six years. She's the girl I've never breathed a word to about my feelings because I'm too afraid to ruin the friendship. She's the girl that's been there for me no matter how many others take it upon themselves to ruin my life. She's the one that I always want to believe has feelings for me, but facts are I'm just too weak to man up and find out. I'm nearly 18 and I still lack the stones to ask her the question that's been on my mind since I was 10.
What did my first love teach me? That I'm a coward, and I don't deserve her.
My first love is a girl who still calls me her self-adopted brothers after six years. She's the girl I've never breathed a word to about my feelings because I'm too afraid to ruin the friendship. She's the girl that's been there for me no matter how many others take it upon themselves to ruin my life. She's the one that I always want to believe has feelings for me, but facts are I'm just too weak to man up and find out. I'm nearly 18 and I still lack the stones to ask her the question that's been on my mind since I was 10.
What did my first love teach me? That I'm a coward, and I don't deserve her.
I share your love of Nordic girls. Mmmmmm....Best of the 3 said:
OT: My first love was when I was 4 years old and my mom put in a Backstreet Boys album into the stereo.
For the first time, I realized that sound could make your heart race, and thus is why music is my first love.
When we were both fourteen, I loved a really clever and shy boy with blond curls and green eyes.
Dated. Ended badly. He called me a couple of things and I checked out.
Years later, went abroad and told an metal worker and inventor (more blond curls) that I loved him.
I think I wanted to hide it. To say it and leave so that it couldn't go bad like that.
Dated. Ended badly. He called me a couple of things and I checked out.
Years later, went abroad and told an metal worker and inventor (more blond curls) that I loved him.
I think I wanted to hide it. To say it and leave so that it couldn't go bad like that.
When we were both fourteen, I loved a really clever and shy boy with blond curls and green eyes.
We dated. Ended badly
Years and boys later, I told an metal worker and inventor (more blond curls) that I loved him.
I thought I'd have to settle - but I don't know how much better things could get!
We dated. Ended badly
Years and boys later, I told an metal worker and inventor (more blond curls) that I loved him.
I thought I'd have to settle - but I don't know how much better things could get!
Well, if anyone wants to read my massive paragraph about it, you can click the spoiler I guess.
So what did it teach me? Not to get so obsessed with a girl ever again, and that, rather than looking for the perfect girl, to let her come to me (as told to me by my second love). I have had three major loves and each was worst than the last so I am done looking for love in high school and maybe even college.
There was this girl in my class who I really liked in about 8th grade. She was funny, cute, smart, and seemed to know all of the right people. I, being a shy person after my first minor crush blew up in my face, kind of admired her from a far until we eventually because friends. She didn't know that I liked her and I was always too chicken to try and ask her. Summer vacation came by and I did another community play with this new guy who soon became one of my best friends. Over the summer we traded games, he gave me his PS2, we had fun in the play. Then school came around and we were still talking. I was the girl that I liked again and my friend from the summer had helped build my confidence up. He didn't know that liked her be he knew I liked someone. So one day, about half way through the school year, I decide to nerve up during lunch and ask her. Just before I go to ask her, I over hear her talking about how she asked my friend out and he said yes. I wasn't mad at him because I kept it a secret. I was just crushed. Oh, but the story doesn't end there. I told my friend when he came over that day and he said he was willing to break up with her for me and I said it wasn't fair to him so we left it at that. I sat at games with my other friends and she and him talked and hugged and all. Then one day, my he and I decide to rent a horror movie but we could only invite one person since it was at my house. We both decide to invite the girl. So we watched the cheesiest damn movie on the face of the earth (P2) and when the movie was over, I look over to my friend and the girl is almost slobbering all over him. He shoots me a, "I'm sorry dude. No clue what is going on", look and we wait until the girl's mom picks her up. After she leaves, he apologizes profusely and I could tell he didn't start it. She was out for lust. I go on MSN Messenger and apparently, she is finally told that I liked her by one of her friends when she got in her car and she kept saying she was sorry and didn't know. I let it go and finally she had to break up with him because of his wrestling and after a LONG time of waiting, she was looking for somebody new and so I asked her. Then I get the, "Your my best friend and I don't want to ruin that", speech. I was crushed yet again. now that we are older, she has slept with a whole bunch of guys, and I found out that she is SUPER clingy. Now I am glad I didn't go out with her but it still hurt when I was younger.
I've never been in love. I always get to that point in the relationship where you start saying "I love you" but I never mean it. I haven't found anyone who doesn't start to annoy me after about a month. Most of my girlfriends have either turned out to be less mature than I originally thought, or get really fixated on the relationship. (Not exactly clingy, but overly head over heals for me in a way that gets annoying.)