couldn't have put it better myselfOnyx Oblivion said:[HEADING=1]NOT THE CROUCH EMOTE![/HEADING]
Seriously, this isn't sexual assault. This is some douchebag being an idiot and thinking that he's funny.
Well sadly, every young person must go through rite of passage in which they discover that the internet is not place for virtue and honor--no, it is the dumping ground for that which would not be spoken in society. The internet does not discriminate nor does it spare the self-esteem. If you expect anything else, then you should stick to the physical world (though to be honest, healthy exchange of ideas is not much better there nowadays)UrsulaMin said:Gee thanks for the warm welcome.
If I'm going to be the only person to defend this someone who wants to play a non violent, non sexual game without perverts following them around, than so be it.
It's pretty unfortunate that being uncomofortable with being stalked online apparently makes you a social outcast who apparently "needs to be raped". Charming. You think SHE overexagerated? Give me a break.
Yes, I'm aware this is the internet. The level of violence expressed against this girl for her complaints on this thread already makes me wonder if she shouldn't be more afraid.
Kudos to that its morons like these two that give the frumpy moms their idea's of video games are satanismwolfgamesstudios said:ITS A GAME.ITS NOT REAL. not to side with the douche who thought this was funny, but for real. people dont sue for t-bagging each others dead bodies in halo, do they? its in a game. its not real, and never will be (hopefully). you cannot connect the real world and games like this, or else frumpy mom will win.
Truth.UrsulaMin said:The problem here isn't that someone is being a whiny *****, or that people are immature, or even that people get teabagged in halo all the time.
The problem here is that here is a girl who was essentially harrased for the heinous crime of being a A GURL ON TEH INTERNETS. Realistically, weather or not you consider the game world to be "real" or not, no one should be expected to sit and allow someone to harrass them just for existing.
Because in this situation, all she can do is quit. She can't get up and go shoot some guys in the face or make an attempt to redeem herself from the humiliation of being sexually objectified in-game. She has no recourse, except of course, to run away and be properly shamed for attempting to particpate without being a sexual object.
This isn't assault on the level we'd expect in the physical world. Translate these actions to the real world and it IS assault and harrasment. Home is trying to live somewhere between the game world and the real world, which translates this behaviour from "harmless fun" to sexual harrasment.
People of all genders deserve respect, be it online or off.
Hey smart guy. What do you call harassment dealing with sex or gender? I'll give you three guesses, but only three.killer-corkonian said:UrsulaMin said:The problem here isn't that someone is being a whiny *****, or that people are immature, or even that people get teabagged in halo all the time.
The problem here is that here is a girl who was essentially harrased for the heinous crime of being a A GURL ON TEH INTERNETS. Realistically, weather or not you consider the game world to be "real" or not, no one should be expected to sit and allow someone to harrass them just for existing.
Because in this situation, all she can do is quit. She can't get up and go shoot some guys in the face or make an attempt to redeem herself from the humiliation of being sexually objectified in-game. She has no recourse, except of course, to run away and be properly shamed for attempting to particpate without being a sexual object.
This isn't assault on the level we'd expect in the physical world. Translate these actions to the real world and it IS assault and harrasment. Home is trying to live somewhere between the game world and the real world, which translates this behaviour from "harmless fun" to sexual harrasment.
People of all genders deserve respect, be it online or off.
I know this is your first post, and you're obviously unexperienced with the Escapist, but... That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. It is not harmless fun, I agree with that, but what it IS is harmless idiocy. Not sexual harassment.
If you think this makes her feel uncomforatble, imagine if she DID get assaulted.Boxpopper said:No offense, but...
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She needs to get over it. It's just a person being annoying online (like that doesn't happen often) and has no where near the psychological damages real sexual assualt can cause.
I mean sure its stupid when someone is messing with you like that, and its stupid as well to tell her that she should just "log off" because she has just as much right to play as anyone.
However, having the idea that this is a real problem and that they are throwing crap on Sony for letting happen is pure, steaming, bullshit.
Hear, hear. Well spoken, Ursula. The fundamental issue here is the lack of respect.UrsulaMin said:People of all genders deserve respect, be it online or off.
No, no it isn't sexual harassment. Even thinking it is so is a disrespect to those who have been sexually assaulted. Ì'm sorry but beyond being an obvious lack of respect on the griefer's part, there's no grounds for any kind of assault case.UrsulaMin said:The problem here isn't that someone is being a whiny *****, or that people are immature, or even that people get teabagged in halo all the time.
The problem here is that here is a girl who was essentially harrased for the heinous crime of being a A GURL ON TEH INTERNETS. Realistically, weather or not you consider the game world to be "real" or not, no one should be expected to sit and allow someone to harrass them just for existing.
Because in this situation, all she can do is quit. She can't get up and go shoot some guys in the face or make an attempt to redeem herself from the humiliation of being sexually objectified in-game. She has no recourse, except of course, to run away and be properly shamed for attempting to particpate without being a sexual object.
This isn't assault on the level we'd expect in the physical world. Translate these actions to the real world and it IS assault and harrasment. Home is trying to live somewhere between the game world and the real world, which translates this behaviour from "harmless fun" to sexual harrasment.
People of all genders deserve respect, be it online or off.