Yes to everything you just said.UrsulaMin said:The problem here isn't that someone is being a whiny *****, or that people are immature, or even that people get teabagged in halo all the time.
The problem here is that here is a girl who was essentially harrased for the heinous crime of being a A GURL ON TEH INTERNETS. Realistically, weather or not you consider the game world to be "real" or not, no one should be expected to sit and allow someone to harrass them just for existing.
Because in this situation, all she can do is quit. She can't get up and go shoot some guys in the face or make an attempt to redeem herself from the humiliation of being sexually objectified in-game. She has no recourse, except of course, to run away and be properly shamed for attempting to particpate without being a sexual object.
This isn't assault on the level we'd expect in the physical world. Translate these actions to the real world and it IS assault and harrasment. Home is trying to live somewhere between the game world and the real world, which translates this behaviour from "harmless fun" to sexual harrasment.
People of all genders deserve respect, be it online or off.
Why is everyone attacking this girl, instead of getting mad at some guy being a douche? There's a whole lot of "she should have just logged off" and not enough "That guy should have stopped being a douche."