God damn, Escapist. I fucked up. I fucked up real bad.

[Kungfu_Teddybear]

Could have been worse. At least you weren't stupid enough to organize a party through Facebook and have random strangers turn up and trash your whole house.

I would just apologize and then let them calm down. But I'm sure you've already tried that

 

[CommanderKirov]

Just to say. Throwing a good party is always hard to do. And you ALWAYS end up with collateral damage. Don't throw a party if you have not helped with throwing one before or know the ropes at least a bit (IE Hiding more valuable objects in a nuclear bunker).

 

[Gruevy]

damn, you might as well party some more then.

 

[albear]

Id have cleaned the place up before my parents got back, and hidden the weed better,

seriously.....hidden beer cans?

the table my friends would have paid forand the one who threw up would have stayed to help me clean, because friends dont leave other friends in the lurch like that.

 

[Daveman]

You are stupid. If your friends won't help you tidy up or not set your table on fire then how can you call them friends at all?

I'm having friends over for a party for the second time this week while my parents are away and my house will be fine in the morning.

 

[x EvilErmine x]

That stuff happens, it's just part of growing up. Call it Exp. in the game of life.
Don't go running off to your nan's, man up and deal with it. You had the party, now it's time to live with the consequences. Learn from this.

Edit
I echo the statements above...you've got pretty shity friends if they just abandoned you and left you cleaning up on your todd. Proper mates help you to pick up the pieces after.

 

[Llamaboy01]

Also probably cut back on the partying for a while

Well, maybe at my own house, yeah. But there's gonna be a hell of a lot of parties to attend this summer.

You serious about the not smoking weed?

Ever hear the expression, dont bite the hand that feeds you?
Your 17, that crappy little age where your not officially an adult but your parents expect better of you as maturity reasons.

Dont run away to your nans, Apologise, keep a VERY low profile and accept that you fucked up with more than just a "Ima sorry guys i fucked up". Trust me everytime they hear the word party out of your mouth its gonna take them right back to this situation. Best avoid them for a while.....like till december


Btw, Really ditch the big friend

 

[Kungfu_Teddybear]

Could have been worse. At least you weren't stupid enough to organize a party through Facebook and have random strangers turn up and trash your whole house.

I would just apologize and then let them calm down. But I'm sure you've already tried that

yes, but then some stupid facebook addicted friend might have posted it on his wall..

So true. God I hate Facebook.

 

[EvilMaggot]

So, I was home-alone for a whole week. I thought, "Hey, I'm a pretty swell guy. I think I'll just go and invite a ton of my friends and throw a big, drunken party!". Honestly, though, the party was fun. But shit.

The back-garden table ended up being set on fire, leaving a fairly expensive table pretty badly damaged. This is the main issue. I'm not sure exactly how it happened, I just know a couple of my friends were smoking in the garden and were dicking around with lighters.

The other big thing, is that a guy at my party was going on holiday in two days, and asked me to hold on to a bag of weed for him. I don't do that stuff myself, I tried it and it's really over-rated. Anyway, I didn't hide it very well, because when my mom came home she found it with a few hours. She was pretty angry with me. She was also angry at finding random empty beer cans hidden around the bed, and seeing the side of my bed was sick stained (a friend of mine CANNOT hold his drink).

My mom is angry and disappointed in me, my step-dad said he's ashamed of me. I really don't feel welcome in my home. I feel kind of regretful for holding this party and betraying my parent's trust, but on the other hand, I REALLY like parties. Tomorrow morning, I'm taking all my shit and I'm hightailing it to my grandma's house. I need to get out of here for a while.

What do you think of this, Escapist? What would you do in a similar situation?

EDIT: I think they understand about the weed, but are still kinda disappointed. Also, for the moment at least, I can't reason with them.

you're an idiot.. Learn from it and move on. And ofcourse pay back your parents... hardwork.. its a ***** what it is what it takes for doing dumbshit

 

[somonels]

Write it down as a movie script and send it to Michael Bay. That table burning will be amazing.

 

[Cavehybrid]

ohhhh, thats gonna take a lot of good behaviour on ur part to fix

 

[smithy_2045]

First off, you're an idiot. Having a party when your parents are away is just stupid.
Secondly, your friends suck. Setting your table on fire? What the fuck is wrong with them?
Thirdly, you're a pussy. Running away from your problems is not a solution.
Lastly, you're a dickhead. Are you seriously trying to justify yourself with "I really like parties"?

 

[Use_Imagination_here]

Some advice

1. You obviously don't know how to control this many people. I don't suggest you throw a party like this ever again.

2. As for making up for it, just apologize, behave and do all the chores for about a month.not much more you can do without a job.

3. if you must throw parties like this again don't invite the people that create the most trouble.

4. Your friends can hide their own fucking weed.

5. If you must hide weed, put it in a plastic bag inside a book you never read in a bookshelf.

6. If for some reason after all this you decide to throw more parties, give the people that can't hold their liquor a plastic bag.

7. You were wise in putting the stuff you don't want damaged in your parents room. Next time put EVERYTHING in your parents room.

8. Seriously don't bring the kind of people that start a fire in your yard to a party. Especially not YOUR party.

9. Limit the alcohol a little. Once someone becomes drunk enough to not remember his own name he shouldn't wander around your house.

10. No but seriously don't do stuff like this. Ever. If your parents are anything like mine it will take about 2 months for them to forgive you. 2 months is not a good amount of time for your parents to hate you.

11. It's not that big a deal. You shouldn't think about it this much. Everybody does stupid shit. If I started listing the stupid shit if managed to do in just the past 4 years id still be here tomorrow. Just move on.

 

[MassiveGeek]

So, I was home-alone for a whole week. I thought, "Hey, I'm a pretty swell guy. I think I'll just go and invite a ton of my friends and throw a big, drunken party!". Honestly, though, the party was fun. But shit.

The back-garden table ended up being set on fire, leaving a fairly expensive table pretty badly damaged. This is the main issue. I'm not sure exactly how it happened, I just know a couple of my friends were smoking in the garden and were dicking around with lighters.

The other big thing, is that a guy at my party was going on holiday in two days, and asked me to hold on to a bag of weed for him. I don't do that stuff myself, I tried it and it's really over-rated. Anyway, I didn't hide it very well, because when my mom came home she found it with a few hours. She was pretty angry with me. She was also angry at finding random empty beer cans hidden around the bed, and seeing the side of my bed was sick stained (a friend of mine CANNOT hold his drink).

My mom is angry and disappointed in me, my step-dad said he's ashamed of me. I really don't feel welcome in my home. I feel kind of regretful for holding this party and betraying my parent's trust, but on the other hand, I REALLY like parties. Tomorrow morning, I'm taking all my shit and I'm hightailing it to my grandma's house. I need to get out of here for a while.

What do you think of this, Escapist? What would you do in a similar situation?

EDIT: I think they understand about the weed, but are still kinda disappointed. Also, for the moment at least, I can't reason with them.

Sweetheart.

It's not just YOUR home, you know that, right? Take responsibility for your actions and in cases like this, ask yourself if it's worth throwing a drunken party when shit like this can and probably will happen?
Go to other people's parties if you like them so much, or arrange parties that aren't about a ton of people torturing their livers and doing stupid shit when they have the excuse "but I was drunk!". You can have fun without alcohol.

Don't be a fucking dick. Realise it's not about just YOU, this is a home you share with your parents. Shouldn't they be able to not worry about things like this when they go away?

If I were in a similiar situation... sorry, but I wouldn't be. I don't drink, smoke or go to drunken parties because I know it's not worth the much more than likely backlash. Also alcohol tastes like crap and so does smoking and I can't stand idiots.

In your case now, the only thing you can do is take responsibility for your actions and

Spoiler: Click.

 

[Treaos Serrare]

why are people giving this idiot atta-boy's?

what is wrong with our culture when it's more socially accepted to be an irresponsible twat, than it is to be a responsible adult?

 

[Drunkern_Hobo]

Bite the bullet, admit you did wrong and find a way to make it up to them. It'll suck but the idea of you going to your relatives house sorta screams that you don't wanna deal with the situation there. have ya even talked to ya parents about how ya feel in the house?