Guys and their choices of women...
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I hope it's not a normal guy thing, if so, I'm ashamed. I (and I should hope most men are as well) am way too smart to have even done the first half of that story, let alone the second half. Guy is retarded, and Girl is a colossal *****.
My boyfriend wondered why the guy would go after the girl if she had two kids. He said it would be a turn off for him. It might not be a STOPPER, but it might at least hinder many guys from the chase.The3rdEye said:
And her not being hot thing. I didn't say she was butt ugly, the question was, "Is she hot" which as my fellow guy friends have told me and as I've overheard them talking amongst themselves, she's not hot. She's "meh".
This happens often. Because a lot of guys are bitches or have a low self-esteem/apathetic self-image.
In this situation, I like to use the following mantra:
"You're not Pinocchio. Lying is not going to make it bigger."
In this situation, I like to use the following mantra:
"You're not Pinocchio. Lying is not going to make it bigger."
Love is blind and deaf. And I am fully guilty of this myself. Fortunatley, I was able to let go after she got married. Now I date girls that cheat on me. Yay.
It goes both ways as well. Girls do the same thing. People will do anything for the people they love.
It goes both ways as well. Girls do the same thing. People will do anything for the people they love.
Eh to me everyone deserves a second chance so yeah I would go back, but if another wrong is done, then thats pretty much the end.
Meh, I dunno. Some say, "It's better to have love and lost it than to never had love at all" but I always say, "You can't miss what you never had". I guess it's something you have to experience to understand. 
I say let it be and leave it alone. The lesson in getting self-respect and learning not to be used by others, in only one that can be learned alone.
I think that when he gets back together with her, and starts to feel drained from giving to a relationship that he gets very little out of, he will realise and finish.
I do not know his motive either but people will do strange things just so they do not feel alone
I think that when he gets back together with her, and starts to feel drained from giving to a relationship that he gets very little out of, he will realise and finish.
I do not know his motive either but people will do strange things just so they do not feel alone
I dunno. Me and my friend's are trying to find a solution.
His best guy friends are trying to tell him to wise up, but he won't listen. He's blown off all his friends to do whatever the girl wants to do, which is poor management on his part.
I mean, the girl hates his best guy friend, which she should. His best guys friend caller her a..bad name.
The best guy friend really doesn't like her because he feels as if she is just playing the guy until "the next best thing" comes along.
His best guy friends are trying to tell him to wise up, but he won't listen. He's blown off all his friends to do whatever the girl wants to do, which is poor management on his part.
I mean, the girl hates his best guy friend, which she should. His best guys friend caller her a..bad name.
black hole ****
The best guy friend really doesn't like her because he feels as if she is just playing the guy until "the next best thing" comes along.
Qui mon ami.cleverlymadeup said:
When I (being a guy) look for a girl i always look for someone with similer interests, someone thats fun to hang around with, and someone who i don't neccacarly need to impress. Sure I can impress many people with my stories of old but I don't need to if im with the right person
As cleverlymadeup said, c'est la vie.
I actually thought the point of the story was how the girl was being a sucker for some random guy thats smothering her in toys and gifts so he can get his deep dark evil way.... look if she needs to add some random person online to have friends coz she split with a fella she needs to go out and play more. go to a bar get drunk maybe, sleep with someone meet real folk. as for him, I would trust any guy that spends cash on people they dont really know.shifty aint the word... think about it...read that story, ignore the kids, she's like 15 and he's 30......
run girly run.
run girly run.
You could try to completely emasculate him in front of her, although he'll probably be mad at you for a while. Everyone has a breaking point in an abusive relationship and this might just push him there faster. If he does eventually break it off, then you can probably talk to him about his self-esteem issues.VanityGirl said:
From the age of 11 to 17 I've witnessed my mother and step"father" "split up" and "get back together" about 90 times now. I've lost count of how many times he's moved out of the house and left to another state, only to come back in a week or two. There's been plenty of unpleasant business too.
It is something I will never understand, not that I'm trying very hard to.
It is something I will never understand, not that I'm trying very hard to.
