if your girlfriend cheated on you with another woman...

[Kenko]

Since im not a hypocrite, i'd pimpslap her and throw her the fuck out.

 

[teisjm]

I wouldn't really feel hurt, heck i even told her that she could do so if she wanted, but she doesn't.

I'd hope she'd let me join in if she happened to sleep with another woman again, wouldn't mind sharing her with a chick.

 

[The Stonker]

I would catch them in the act, look all smooth and say just two things.

1.Threesome?
and if they say no.
2.See ya!

 

[Ham_authority95]

... would you really call it cheating. I've thought about it before, but it happened to my friend a couple of days ago. He's still in denial about it, but I don't get why is it a big deal. Hell, I even don't get what women even see in us. If I was a woman, with all the knowledge about men that I have now, I'd most certainly turn lesbian.

So would you call it cheating or you'd just say 'meh'.
Personally, I'd ask if I can join in, or at least take some pictures ^^

Of course it's cheating. As hot as you make it...

 

[RedDeadFred]

I would feel very hurt. Definitely end the relationship.

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

well it is cheating, no matter what you might personally think about it, however for me personally, if it was with another chick, i'd find it kinda hot that my girlfriend did that, (if it was with a hot chick, i'd definitly try and join in of course) but i had a complete change of heart as of the past year or so and i dont get jealous at all anymore, so it wouldn't really bug me...plus i know she wants, no no..NEEDS her time with me =] (she literally asks me to do stuff because she gets so damn horny sometimes)

 

[Woodsey]

I would be hurt to the depths of my soul.

And then I would propose a threesome.

 

[Bloodstain]

Yes.

I would just about die from hurt.

Pretty much this. It's still cheating, thus betrayal of trust.
Much crying and "I thought you love me, how could you do that?!" would ensue.

Oh lord.

 

[thenumberthirteen]

I wouldn't be happy about it that's for sure. We'd definitely need to have a big talk. Though if it was with someone like Anne Hathaway then I may understand.

 

[Get_A_Grip_]

I would actually be in a near suicidal state.
Cheating is cheating. I'd rather if she cheated on me with a man.

 

[DYin01]

Like many others in this thread I too say ''Yes, it is cheating''. It's just as much betrayal as with a man.

 

[Pariah87]

Wow, I love Lesbian porn as much as the next straight bloke but if it was my hypothetical gf getting off with another girl whilst we were together I wouldn't be thinking "ooo, awesome".

If I were in a relationship, I wouldn't kiss, mess around with, or screw anyone else out of simple respect for my partner. Unless you agree on an open relationship at the start it's assumed that there will be no one else involved, so bonds of trust form, trust to form an emotional or physical connection with that person. Regardless of gender, involving other people with both parties consent in a breach of trust and I would deal with it the same way, again regardless of the gender..."Nice knowing you, now kindly F*** Off!"

Of course people view things differently, and that's great for them, but as far as I'm concerned, unless we're both happy for the relationship to be an open one, any messing around with a third party, be it drunken, a moment of weakness or whatever, then it's done. No second chances.

 

[DYin01]

One of mine did and it was cheating in my eyes. Even though she pleaded it didn't count =/

Hahaha, seriously? ''It did not count''? If she thought love had 'rules' like that and that you did not have permission to feel hurt because those are the rules, she wasn't worth it to begin with.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

Of course, I'd feel deeply hurt, and doubly so because I drove that girl to lesbianism. Then I'd argue and then call the relationship off because if I gave her a chance, she'd do it again.

 

[cerano]

id say all righty then lets do the shoopdawoop and have a threesome because sure she cheated but if she cheats on me with another girl she will at least be hot note i said WILL be hot
so open up dem holse hehehe.

ps that was a joke i dont actually veiw that way towards women as a matter of fact im quite the gentlemen with my big library and going to fancy balls and sipping wine (im using this stereo type as a way to say im a really nice guy and i dont f around with women) i actually like the cuddling better than the actual sex part. basically i like intimacy.

and the answer to this is i would be torn that my lover would intentionally cheat on me.
the girl part does not really bother me too much that just means shes bi and im ok with that.

 

[Kaytastrophe]

Its cheating simply because he didn't know about it. If she had talked to him about it and such and he agreed it would not be cheating.

 

[ramboondiea]

ofcourse its cheating, how can you say its anything different?
also your second point is very immature, and a little perverted, so you would be okay with cheating aslong as you occasionally got pictures or could join in?

 

[Kilowog17]

Been there, done that, left without a T-Shirt.
It's a pretty emasculating feeling, know she cheated on you period, but even more so when you consider she played the other team.
Self confidence is hard to come by after that.