Damn, you deserve a high five for that, bro.s0denone said:Why is everyone calling him a homophobe?
Chances are nobody here would know how to react, if their best friend suddenly turned gay over night(I know that's not what happens, but as one doesn't know anything until one day, that's what really transpires) let alone if we weren't told.
Think of all the showers(gym class/football/whatever) you had with the guy. Think of all the times you gave him a hug. Sure, not all gay men are attracted to all straight men, but the mind ponders - and realizing that your lifelong friend is gay and has been all the time, is a frightening thought.
Show some fucking respect for this guy, instead of condemning him without knowing any kind of circumstance. The OP is particularly vague in this post, and maybe we need more information to decide, if we should even decide on anything.
Everyone is different. Stop being assholes to people who aren't as "open-minded" as yourself. It's really getting old.
OT: Maybe you shouldn't have hit on him, OP. It's one thing for your bestest buddy to be secretly gay, but it's a whole different thing for him to hit on ya.
He'll prolly come around if you've been friends for that long. He's just shellshocked that there's a part of you he had no idea existed. Give him some time, but be sure you make it clear that you just wanna be friends again.