Mcface said:
Playing as super soldiers is cool, and manly.
Most gamers like that.
Most gamers wouldn't like being a gay guy.
It's pretty simple, this really isn't a debate.
(Given that I'm about to unironically use the phrase 'I beg to differ', I'm fairly sure that this is, in fact, a debate)
I beg to differ (see, told you). Concepts such as 'cool' and 'manly' are really pretty slippery, changing over time and meaning different things to different people.
FUN RANT BEGIN NOW! In Japan, muscular men are regarded as more likely to be homosexual, whereas skinny guys are more likely to be straight and 'manly'. Hence why we look at the JRPG's and go "I'm not sure if this protagonist is male or female" and feel uncomfortable, whereas in Japan they're much more the norm. To speak in terms of manga, 'yaoi' is written by Japanese women and hence is about their 'heterosexual, manly' ideals - slender, beautiful bishies - whereas 'bara' is written by gay men and hence features muscular men. They're both gay romance/porn stories, but the ideas of masculinity are polar opposites to ours.
That's why so many manga have slim lead characters, who we would normally consider androgynous. It's their idea of heterosexual manliness. I'm not saying it's better or worse, just to show you that there is no one universal ideal of 'manliness' for developers to be going for.
Besides, heterosexual people play unmanly games. Harvest Moon, anybody?
Similarly, I don't think it's safe to say that it's 'uncool' to be gay. Look how much of the entertainment industry is gay outside of video games.
I also think you really don't speak for 'most' gamers, or even 'some' gamers. You speak for you, just like I speak for me. You don't want to play a gay character? That's your own thing, but no-ones going to force you to buy it and play it against your will. But we gay gamers want the option, just the OPTION, to be able to choose to pick up and play a game with characters we can sympathise with, because that's an option we don't have. That's what isn't open to debate.