Poll: Hes a Virgin and never kissed? Do girls like that?
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Wow, well, it's a neat study in the gender demographics of this website.
Either there are relatively few girls on this website, or the guys on this website are more interested in projecting ideals onto girls.
I would imagine that it depends on the girl. Much as the inverse is also dependent on the guy.
Some girls with experience might want a guy who "knows what they want"
Some girls with experience might want a guy who "they can teach how to do it"
Some girls without experience might want a guy who can "show them the way"
Some girls without experience might want a guy who they can explore new together with
Then again,
Some girls with experience might not want a guy who will "show 'em how it's done"
Some girls with experience might not want a guy they have to "re-teach"
Some girls without experience might not want a guy who makes them uncomfortable
Some girls without experience might not want a guy who is just as lost as they are
And, there's always:
Some girls want girls.
Invert the genders and it still holds true.
So, yeah, it depends.
Either there are relatively few girls on this website, or the guys on this website are more interested in projecting ideals onto girls.
I would imagine that it depends on the girl. Much as the inverse is also dependent on the guy.
Some girls with experience might want a guy who "knows what they want"
Some girls with experience might want a guy who "they can teach how to do it"
Some girls without experience might want a guy who can "show them the way"
Some girls without experience might want a guy who they can explore new together with
Then again,
Some girls with experience might not want a guy who will "show 'em how it's done"
Some girls with experience might not want a guy they have to "re-teach"
Some girls without experience might not want a guy who makes them uncomfortable
Some girls without experience might not want a guy who is just as lost as they are
And, there's always:
Some girls want girls.
Invert the genders and it still holds true.
So, yeah, it depends.
It really depends on the girl but to be honest you shouldnt be worried. When I was 17 I got my first kiss and lost my virginity on the same night to an slightly older woman, im not sure whether to be proud or ashamed. Either way you shouldnt be worried, what they dont know wont hurt them.
Also make sure you take into consideration the main demographics of this site. I am willing to bet if you took this poll to your local mall you would get vastly different responses from the women you ask.Fraught said:
In general, the people who post on these forums are probably more introspective than the average person, meaning that the women posting here probably care more about things relating to mental prowess than physical prowess.
I was gonna get all pissy and say we're not an alien species to be studied, but then you made me laugh.Rarhnor said:
I voted yes and my thoughts have been voiced by many in here - we like who we like and who we (or I) like is not based on experience level or anything that quantifiable, not even on looks. But like Lady Nilstria said - chocolate is key.
My girlfriend and I were each other's firsts as far as sex goes, and that's worked out extremely well(not initially, of course).
She'd definitely had more experience kissing than I had going into the relationship, which was next to none, but it's really not that big of a deal. I'm sure I made some blunders early on but really it's not all that complicated. She 'says' that she likes the fact that I was low in mileage when we met...whether that's true or not, I don't know.
I mean, being experienced is great and all, and it saves a girl the trouble of having to teach you some things, but it also says, 'Hey, I have a track record of getting around'. Some girls like that, I'm sure, some don't, and some don't care. It's all about finding the right person.
She'd definitely had more experience kissing than I had going into the relationship, which was next to none, but it's really not that big of a deal. I'm sure I made some blunders early on but really it's not all that complicated. She 'says' that she likes the fact that I was low in mileage when we met...whether that's true or not, I don't know.
I mean, being experienced is great and all, and it saves a girl the trouble of having to teach you some things, but it also says, 'Hey, I have a track record of getting around'. Some girls like that, I'm sure, some don't, and some don't care. It's all about finding the right person.
I'm an owner of a vagina and I'd say "how old is he" and "why hasn't he been kissed". The answer isn't going to sweeten the deal for me but the wrong answer might be a deal breaker.
Yes the 'guy that knows what he's doing' is a good thing but the 'mack daddy' type of guy is a totally off putting. At least to me. Every woman is different and likes different things so a world of experience isn't always going to mean he's a sex god.
Yes the 'guy that knows what he's doing' is a good thing but the 'mack daddy' type of guy is a totally off putting. At least to me. Every woman is different and likes different things so a world of experience isn't always going to mean he's a sex god.
I find it distressing that people seem to be confusing matters lying in the "sex" category with matters lying in the "love" category.
My first kiss was at 19, up until that point I was a classic anti-social nerd to the 100th degree. Since then I've managed to massively improve my self confidence and am, at 20 in a relationship and actually having to turn girls down. (Which is something I can safely say I never thought would happen)Woodsey said:
Shit. I voted before I saw the "good looking guy" part. I think if he's attractive then yes she would like him.
If the question is if she would rather him have had experience then I would say yep.
If the question is if she would rather him have had experience then I would say yep.
Hmm, there seems to be rather a large amount of virgins here at the escapist..... myself included. Anyway, I don't think it matters, I mean, neither my girlfriend aren't old enough to even consider it in any way, but my girlfriend likes to joke that she's glad to have finally found a non-dirty (no that's what she said jokes) boyfriend, so I think it really depends. She also jokes (happily) that we're both still terrible at kissing since she was my first kiss, so I think some people can really appreciate it. And yes I am a hopeless romantic, just thought I'd throw that out there.
Oh no - no offense taken at all! You were all quite funny and actually endearing. But don't forget about the chocolate or the shoes. Those stereotypes are true though none of us will ever tell any of you exactly why. Just a couple of the things we're sworn to keep secret from that other alien species - males.Rarhnor said:It was all meant as a joke. Good to see, you didn't take it (too) offensivelyLisolet said:
