Now let me see...NO. Come on, if a girl says she doesn't care and you believe her, then you are just naive. Yeah, a few girls wouldn't care, but that's about as many as the amount of men who don't just care about sex. Tis a cruel world, and as such, I can kiss any hopes of ever having a girlfriend goodbye. I have a saying I recently made up, don't get emo, get used to it.
Poll: Hes a Virgin and never kissed? Do girls like that?
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I'm a guy, and I can't say that I know this for sure, but I heard a gripe from a girl I knew once that sounds like someone offering entry-level jobs to technical personnel.
Her point was that dating a guy with no experience was like hiring a tech trainee. She gets involved with this 'new guy', and has to show him the ropes; how to kiss, how to make love, how to be in a relationship, what girls like and what they don't like. Problem is, more often than not, after the new guy's all trained up and just starting to be 'productive' in the relationship, he gets a better offer somewhere else and moves on to bigger and better tits things without giving his 'original employer' a return on her investment.
Her point was that dating a guy with no experience was like hiring a tech trainee. She gets involved with this 'new guy', and has to show him the ropes; how to kiss, how to make love, how to be in a relationship, what girls like and what they don't like. Problem is, more often than not, after the new guy's all trained up and just starting to be 'productive' in the relationship, he gets a better offer somewhere else and moves on to bigger and better tits things without giving his 'original employer' a return on her investment.
Well, if they don't - I'm fucked. (Not literally of course, but you know what I mean!)
I'm not exactly lacking in the confidence department. Just social interaction wise, due to various things over my school time.
I'm not exactly lacking in the confidence department. Just social interaction wise, due to various things over my school time.
I wouldn't mind dating a girl who's a virgin, so I imagine there are girls to whom it wouldn't matter. Isn't the fun in a relationship figuring out what they like in bed anyway? Even if they don't know what they like, wouldn't it be fun to figure it out together?
There has to be a few at least. Otherwise, how do the guys they stereotypically go after get that way in the first place?
Well it depends on how old he is, and on his reasons, doesn't it? If he's 30 and it's because his halitosis kills every human being that comes into a three metre radius, the answer is no. If he's 16 and it's because he wanted to wait for the right one, my guess would be yes.
Simple algebra. The jerk who nails all the girls has slept with X girls, the other guy has slept with Y girls. If Y = 0 and X > Y we can assume that more girls like the jerk who nails them unless (for some reason) we assume girls like to sleep with guys they aren't attracted to/inherently dislike.
Now there is a small minority of girls who feel differently but the key word here is small. For every one girl who thinks Mr. Nailem is a loser I estimate nine who think he is "amazing, misunderstood, so cool, etc."
The lesson? If you want to sleep with girls be a jerk. Approach as if it's already concluded and her clothes are already strewn on your bedroom floor. If you prefer to stick to your guns and wait for the special one you can be totally honest with be prepared to stay a card carrying virgin into your late 20's. Most likeley you will meet her later in life after she has been used and abused by a string of jerks.
The older you get the more being a virgin labels you as a defective male to the MAJORITY of females (not all of them). Once you pass the age thirty you had better join a heavily religious dating site so you can claim that as an excuse.
Sad? Yes. Reality? Yes.
Now there is a small minority of girls who feel differently but the key word here is small. For every one girl who thinks Mr. Nailem is a loser I estimate nine who think he is "amazing, misunderstood, so cool, etc."
The lesson? If you want to sleep with girls be a jerk. Approach as if it's already concluded and her clothes are already strewn on your bedroom floor. If you prefer to stick to your guns and wait for the special one you can be totally honest with be prepared to stay a card carrying virgin into your late 20's. Most likeley you will meet her later in life after she has been used and abused by a string of jerks.
The older you get the more being a virgin labels you as a defective male to the MAJORITY of females (not all of them). Once you pass the age thirty you had better join a heavily religious dating site so you can claim that as an excuse.
Sad? Yes. Reality? Yes.
With the possible exception of you ben, not that I have an in depth knowlage of your skill in the romantic arts. Anyway....PurpleLeafRave said:
It depends if the guy revealed this in a conversation, something i dont imagine would spring up naturally talking with a member of the opposite sex. Who asks that kind of question anyway, and who volenteers it randomly out of the blue? It shouldnt matter, people learn, it isnt the hardest thing in the world to pick up.
..Hard to say.
I would think that many would not want like that, simply because they like having someone with experience. But then, I know some people like being the 'teacher' for things like that. Slippery slope, though, since those people often times like control (as you can imagine)
I would think that many would not want like that, simply because they like having someone with experience. But then, I know some people like being the 'teacher' for things like that. Slippery slope, though, since those people often times like control (as you can imagine)
Oh haw haw. Chris did a funny.BiscuitTrouser said:
I wrote that because I know couples like that. There are some people that tell me everything.
I can imagine, if you aren't experienced and needs to be 'taught', as many of you put it, the fact that you explore and learn it together, creates a special bond or an emotional link that tie you together.
This could be the same case for the "teaching" (even though I don't like to call it that, since kissing, sex, etc...is an experience, not something that needs to be 'taught').
This could be the same case for the "teaching" (even though I don't like to call it that, since kissing, sex, etc...is an experience, not something that needs to be 'taught').
Well if you're only physically attracted to someone of course it matters. And in highschool that happens alot.
Otherwise I guess it really shouldn't matter to them. It's like picking on someone who has an awesome car but can't drive it properly because he's a beginner. We all go through the process one time or another.
Otherwise I guess it really shouldn't matter to them. It's like picking on someone who has an awesome car but can't drive it properly because he's a beginner. We all go through the process one time or another.
"I taught him everything he knows"
is probably something chicks like, actually. and the humble naive innocence is probably attractive too but really, if a chick gets off on, "corrupting innocence" then really, is there anything worthwhile to her?
is probably something chicks like, actually. and the humble naive innocence is probably attractive too but really, if a chick gets off on, "corrupting innocence" then really, is there anything worthwhile to her?