Tdc2182 said:
And no one here said that being married somehow gives you magical parenting abilities. It just means that they are responsible enough to wait for sex and wait for each other, so they are more likely to be good parents.
Of course, waiting until marriage doesn't necessarily say anything about responsibility. It can just as well just be a matter of religious dogma making them feel forced to act a certain way.
Additionally, willingly abstaining from sex isn't necessarily a responsible action either. Sex is an excellent source of stress relief, which potentially leads to a healthier and longer life.
Lastly, I refer back to my post on responsibility. I see abortion as a last line of defense, and nothing more. Contraception being the first line. However, birth control pills can fail, condoms can break, rape exists, and some people are just too damn stupid to take precautions... and as such may also be considered too stupid for parenthood. One could say abortion is a necessary evil, if one believed in the concept of evil.
Tdc2182 said:
Hell, I'm not gonna wait till marriage. Just because something is associated with religion doesn't mean that the practices still hold true today.
And just because it works at times doesn't mean it's beneficial.
Alas, I have spent more time discussing this than I'd wish to, so off I go now.