KRAKENDIE said:
someonehairy-ish said:
KRAKENDIE said:
someonehairy-ish said:
Moonlight Butterfly said:
They would never do it with a male character though because apparently male characters don't have to go through a traumatic experience to be tough...
Bullshit.
Because nothing bad ever happens to male characters in origin stories. I don't see any of them having loved ones die or abuse or training from hell.
Oh, wait...
You're missing the point. They used a specifically harrowing act to display her traumatic experience, but it's one that is culturally specific to her gender (meaning the automatic thought when "rape" comes to mind is a woman being raped). There would not be a Nathan Drake attempted rape trailer. There would not be a that-big-asshole-from-GOW attempted rape trailer. The overwhelming majority of traumatic experiences in game characters are what you said, dead loved ones, abuse, training. Lara Croft is one of incredibly few central main characters who are female, and it just so happens she's the first to have an attempted rape be her traumatic event?
Well yeah. Most real life rape attempts are aimed at females. The unfortunate truth is that if someone looking like that got captured by a group of terrorists/drug smugglers/whatever kind of scum they are, somebody would make an attempt.
You said that the implication is that
all women 'for some reason' have to go through a traumatic event to become badass, and men don't. What I'm saying is that
all characters tend to go through something traumatic before becoming badass; the fact that said event happens to be attempted rape for Lara isn't being sexist, its a reflection of what realistically
might happen to a woman. Note that it isn't unheard of for men to get raped in media as part of a harrowing backstory, where it would make sense for that to actually happen. Eg. fiction taking place in prison. Shawshank redemption springs to mind.
Also, she doesn't actually get raped. Some dude grabs her and then she manages to escape immediately. If anything, I'd say that's a better deal than the usual 'entire family murdered' or 'torturous training from hell' that male characters often get lumbered with...
Her appearance doesn't matter beyond the possible vulnerability, and the only provision for that would that she is alone or unarmed.
I never said that. Moonlight Butterfly said that.
But I can contest that the assertion that that is what "realistically might happen to a woman". That is where the sexism is, if anywhere. Realistically, it could happen to anyone, male or female. But across media, it happens almost exclusively to women, and the justification is never anything more than "she's a woman". Woman + Traumatic Experience = Rape, is the equation that isn't checking out for those claiming 'sexism'.
Prison and childhood sexual abuse are the only instances where men are raped in media. And the justification is never "well duh, he's a man". The justification for this attempted rape of Lara Croft is "well duh, she's a woman". You can add that 'in that situation/setting' disclaimer to curb that if you want, but then it gets back to why the countless other male treasure hunters, spelunkers, bounty hunters, and pirates in those same situations have never been raped or had rape attempted.
We have no need of getting into the territory of what is worse than what. Attempted rape is not as bad as having an entire family murdered, but that is not the question here.
"But across media, it happens almost exclusively to women"
Nope, most rape of main character depicted in media has been of men being raped (* for those not in prison or childhood):
-Pulp Fiction*
-Deliverance*
-Midnight Cowboy*
-American History X
-Mysterious Skin*
-Scum
-Shawshank Redemption
And it is heavily implied in many other films like Mad Max. You know why I think this is? I don't think this is for any particular interest in male-on-male sex, I think this is simply because most stories are ABOUT men, they take the principal roles. And considering rape is a profound thing to happen, male-rape is going to be depicted. So when there are female principal role, why should it be any different?
And the justification is never "well duh, he's a man" nor was the justification "Well duh, she's a woman" with Lara, BOTH of those are made up.
The justification is more like "Well duh, THE RAPIST is a man" that's the kind of evil that comes from men without the restraint of society, laws, and learned decency kept in check. Though it is not just men.
assertion that that is what "realistically might happen to a woman". That is where the sexism is
It is not sexist to address the reality that men will try to force themselves women, it is very true. It is in no way misogynist, this is misanthropic (against men) if anything as it shows men as animalistic rapists and women as just normal people who wouldn't want such abuse.
This says NOTHING about women, this says something ABOUT MEN!
Two premises here:
(1) there are a LOT of men out there capable of the horrific crime of rape, even in large groups conspiring together to commit rape
(2) Overall men have a preference for women, though some have prefer males, a large proportion will easily go for either
You can't have all these male protagonists in the media getting raped, but then say there should be must be a conspiracy by all writers so that female protagonists by must be always have such character armour that there is no even possibility nor intent that they might be raped, so there is no tension that they may or may not suffer a terrible fate.
This is denial about the nature of men who reject all rules of society and decency, when they become criminals and mercenaries with no accountability to any society or family, the kind of anti-social thugs Lara would face. If they are OK with killing an unarmed woman, why would they be worried about her consent? These are utterly amoral kind of people.
Think about this, Lara is a pretty well adjusted character from Britain, she's not a psycho, yet later she is regularly heavily armed. Why? Why would she chose to arm herself so often? Many Americans are raised to carry guns but not Brits, she'd need a personal reason. Self-defence from the most severe and WIDESPREAD threat as rape makes sense. She's not the type of character to have a chaperone, or not go into dangerous situation without tell people where she is going, she's independent and guns are a way of getting that independence OVER threats like rape.