Goddamn this thread is depressing.
Okay, my opinions on sex are as follows:
I honestly don't give a fuck about it. I'm still a virgin, yes and I proudly maintain that because I want to wait for someone I love, but is that what I'm all hyped up for? Hell no. I'm a romantic and I want love. That's it. I don't care about the sex aspect of it and in that respect, I am asexual because if some girl came up to me right now whom I've never met before and said "Please sex me up Julian!" I'd just be like "Please leave me alone"
I'm looking for the love aspect. That's all I really care about and unfortunately, my desire to be loved has caused some rather awkward situations. Being someone who's never really felt loved even by his parents makes me rather emotionally clingly. If someone shows me the slightest bit of human compassion, I typically think they've taken interest in me in someway and often times, I end up liking them too much, which is a really horrible way to be.
Now, those are my opinions on virginity itself. It's a special thing to me and I want to keep it until I meet someone wonderful but as for "Is sex or losing your virginity hyped?"
Yeah, I can say with 100% certainty that it is. It's looked at as a right of passage or a badge of honor and that's never the way to look at something like this. More often than not, people's first times are typically 3 second periods of quick spasms and then a strange grunt followed by an hour of shame and regret.
