Your boyfriend is so fucking lucky.Bara_no_Hime said:
As for the losing a condom thing.... wait, what? Condoms can fall off?
He isn't using Magnums to make himself feel better, is he?
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As for the losing a condom thing.... wait, what? Condoms can fall off?
He isn't using Magnums to make himself feel better, is he?
Remember guys, Herpes is like a puppy.
For life, not just for Christmas*.
*Don't get it at Christmas.
For life, not just for Christmas*.
*Don't get it at Christmas.
Haha yes!BlueberryMUNCH said:
I so happen to be sporting a raptor t-shirt from there at the moment.
That last comment there.ICantBelieveItGoesBoom said:
That is gold.
You can never be too sure!
I would also advice any ladies doing casual sex who aren't able to feel the difference between condom or no condom -> Check. May seem stupid, but just glance to see if its on.
I have a friend who doesn't use it(but tell the girls that he does), and afaik he has infected a few girls with an STD or two. He is an asshole.
Read my later posts, sorry for the rudeness, but I have been quoted enough on this, I really don't need to repeat myself :|FamoFunk said:
What I'm wondering is if you said 19 because the person that asked didn't take the time to look at your profile and see that is says that you are 21, not 19?rekabdarb said:
Or, you lied about your age on your profile for some reason.
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No across the board. I'm 25. It's not for the lack of trying to get a girlfriend since I was 14. My problem is that every girl I've been interested in, turns out to already have a boyfriend, is about to get married, or is already married.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes
Have you had sex?
Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
17, not gonna share details lol
How many people have you slept with?
one, my first gf too lol. (broke up recently >.>)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
If it's mutual, go for it. I'm not one to try it though.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
W/ and w/o condoms. Only w/o when we're both tested of course
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's fun, I prefer vaginal though
Yes
Have you had sex?
Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
17, not gonna share details lol
How many people have you slept with?
one, my first gf too lol. (broke up recently >.>)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
If it's mutual, go for it. I'm not one to try it though.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
W/ and w/o condoms. Only w/o when we're both tested of course
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's fun, I prefer vaginal though
I knew a girl who gave 5 guys chlamydia in the span of 3 months. She found out AFTER sleeping with them.s0denone said:
When I asked her how they took it, she GIGGLED, and said they'd find out on their own.
This, gentlemen and ladies, is how an outbreak occurs.
I've done things for girls, in fact, one of my gfs said that I have "magical fucking fingers" which I joke are not to be confused with the "magical fingers of fucking"...I'm such a gamer nerd. XDBlueberryMUNCH said:
I've never had sex, although when my gf reaches the age of consent, no, she's not a lot younger than me, only two years, and when she's ready, we probably will.
My views on casual sex are a little mixed. I understand that people have needs and sometimes an itch just needs to be banged...err...scratched. It's just not my thing though. I've been close to giving in, and have had a few offers with no string attached, but as cliche as it might sound, I knew that they weren't "The One" and I knew I'd feel weird about it if I did.
About the condom question...I plan to use a condom unless we're trying to get pregnant. Sure, the pill is great, but nothing's 100% certain unless you're not active.
My gf and I have talked about a lot of things, and probably would be active if it weren't for the fact that her dad is just itching for my to screw up and call the cops or something on me. So once she's of the age of consent, we can do what we want with no worries. We've talked about what we would and wouldn't try. Since neither of us have any experience, we're both open to almost anything. Communication is great, if a little awkward when you're talking to her on the phone about some stuff and her mom suddenly pops her head in to ask her to do something. XD
My first almost "sexual encounter" would be when I was about 9-10 though. I was in the hottub with a friend of mine who was about 13-14 and his gf. They were a little tipsy and he went to go to the bathroom and she was really flirting with me and asking if I wanted to do things. She kissed me and took her top off, but I said no thanks and dove into the cold pool. It was winter, so it did a good job of hiding what she was after. XD
I almost had sex with this one girl I was sorta kinda dating, but my phone rang and totally killed the mood and she realized that she had to go to work anyway. I blew that one by insisting that we start seeing each other exclusively, but she said she didn't want to commit to a single person. It was a bummer too since we were just about to get our pants off. I gave my friend that called an earful after he interrupted. >.>
Personally I am shocked at the ages of a couple of people I am still too young to have sex legally, but I must admit I do feel pressured alot as if I am missing something. But although I am still too young I have been brought to believe that condoms most likely never work and girls will lie about being on the pill so although I haven't had it yet honestly I am slightly petrified.BlueberryMUNCH said:
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
Yes to both.
How old were you when you first did? 18
Wanna tell us about your first experience? In a car sadly. I do regret that, but I'm still with the same guy almost 2 years later so I didn't regret the act itself.
Do your parents know? I'm 20 and no. They still don't know. I'd like to think they're going with plausible deny-ability. Either way, I'm not going to announce it.
How many people have you slept with?
Just the one =)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I think if both parties are sober and have laid it out before hand that it's purely physical then sure. I don't see why not.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I have and it makes me jumpy.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
To me it's a part of the whole experience. It's not mandatory but it's like kissing or petting or something. Just another option.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Nope.
Have you had sex?
Yes to both.
How old were you when you first did? 18
Wanna tell us about your first experience? In a car sadly. I do regret that, but I'm still with the same guy almost 2 years later so I didn't regret the act itself.
Do your parents know? I'm 20 and no. They still don't know. I'd like to think they're going with plausible deny-ability. Either way, I'm not going to announce it.
How many people have you slept with?
Just the one =)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I think if both parties are sober and have laid it out before hand that it's purely physical then sure. I don't see why not.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I have and it makes me jumpy.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
To me it's a part of the whole experience. It's not mandatory but it's like kissing or petting or something. Just another option.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Nope.
I'm sorry if you didn't expect any answers to your post (given that you, yourself, was answering questions) - but I have to ask you:spiffleh said:
What does it matter if either party is sober?
I mean, I go out on the town... I'm never sober when picking someone up, and whoever I'm picking up is never sober either.
i am a virgin approaching 22 years old
ive not had a girlfriend nor have i kissed or had any intimate encounter let alone sexual
its always been one excuse or another but i think ultimately i needed to have years of watching other people screw up to approach it in a mature way.
im also just an awkward guy i coulda had a whole lot of sex i just wasn't willing to play all the dumb childish games people play.
sometimes it really hits me that i dug myself into a type of hole physically. didnt take care of my teeth the way i shouldve. so first impressions arent my strong points at this juncture.
so nothing yet
but its safe to say once i start it will be wild
ive not had a girlfriend nor have i kissed or had any intimate encounter let alone sexual
its always been one excuse or another but i think ultimately i needed to have years of watching other people screw up to approach it in a mature way.
im also just an awkward guy i coulda had a whole lot of sex i just wasn't willing to play all the dumb childish games people play.
sometimes it really hits me that i dug myself into a type of hole physically. didnt take care of my teeth the way i shouldve. so first impressions arent my strong points at this juncture.
so nothing yet
but its safe to say once i start it will be wild
I don't think everyone always needs to be sober. Some people handle it better than others. But I think it's ideal if the person made the original decision sober. Such as:s0denone said:
Tonight when I go to the club, I am ok with having a one night stand.
The guys are desperate. This girl is the ugliest, nastiest, most unappealing (Physically, morally AND mentally) woman I have ever met.s0denone said:
Seriously, she's so ugly you'd need to triple bag her, and so stupid you can hear air whistling through her ears. Someone once joked that I slept with her, and I actually got physically ill. I got ILL at even the thought of sleeping with her.
Hell, I feel sick now.
Have you had sex? Yup
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? - Had just turned 15 and I was very drunk at some rock festival and she was like 4 years older ^^
Do your parents know? Yup
How many people have you slept with? 25
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Well as I have slept with 25 girls and only really dated twice Im all into some casual lovin ;p
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yea I have
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? I like it a lot even tho I havent given it that much
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Naww ^^
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? - Had just turned 15 and I was very drunk at some rock festival and she was like 4 years older ^^
Do your parents know? Yup
How many people have you slept with? 25
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Well as I have slept with 25 girls and only really dated twice Im all into some casual lovin ;p
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yea I have
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? I like it a lot even tho I havent given it that much
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Naww ^^
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Nope i havent.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Well when both parts agree, why not?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
No, except i know the girl and i can trust her. Its something you better go the safe way.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I never had Oral Sex, but to speak the truth from the porn i saw it must be pretty good. Also if she wants to do it im sure it can be a nice experience.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Well maybe an explenation why im still a virgin, not that it needs one tough. Girls in my Area dont find me attractive, in any way. Im not good looking and im a bit of a Sarcast (im no native english speaker, dont know how you write that properly, well sarcasm you get the idea^^). Female buddies tell me im funny and a nice guy, but that doesnt seem to qualify me for a Relationship as long as i dont look "good" enough. Im pretty content anyway, its their problem if they wont know me any better than "that fat gamer guy".
Nope i havent.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Well when both parts agree, why not?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
No, except i know the girl and i can trust her. Its something you better go the safe way.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I never had Oral Sex, but to speak the truth from the porn i saw it must be pretty good. Also if she wants to do it im sure it can be a nice experience.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Well maybe an explenation why im still a virgin, not that it needs one tough. Girls in my Area dont find me attractive, in any way. Im not good looking and im a bit of a Sarcast (im no native english speaker, dont know how you write that properly, well sarcasm you get the idea^^). Female buddies tell me im funny and a nice guy, but that doesnt seem to qualify me for a Relationship as long as i dont look "good" enough. Im pretty content anyway, its their problem if they wont know me any better than "that fat gamer guy".