Wow. Thats... kind of an ass move, to be honest.Bara_no_Hime said:
Your Dad had one confusing Christmas, I would wager.
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Your Dad had one confusing Christmas, I would wager.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) Yes.
Have you had sex? That would be aforementioned "sexual encounter".
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? I was 17, and she thought my inexperience was cute. Which I rather preferred to the alternative.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.) Yea, considering my mother's own track record I'd call her a hypocrit if she started condemning anything I do that is consensual on both sides.
How many people have you slept with? One. I'm 19 now, and split up some months ago.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I'm perfectly fine with the idea, but doubtful whether I could have sex without the emotional engagement.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Only if I can be absolutely sure as well that no diseases would be transferred either way.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? Absolutely no problem giving it (as long as she's shaven), but it's rather boring to be on the receiving end, as effectively you're mostly just lying/standing there, staring at the wallpaper.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Yea. In private.
What're your views on anal sex? Withholding judgement until I've actually tried it myself, but so far I'm having enough fun with one hole to not really feel the urge to try another.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? Yea, out of plain curiosity: how trustworthy would you rate this post? And how trustworthy would you rate posts by people claiming they're virgins, or that they've slept with double/triple digit numbers of people?
Have you had sex? That would be aforementioned "sexual encounter".
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? I was 17, and she thought my inexperience was cute. Which I rather preferred to the alternative.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.) Yea, considering my mother's own track record I'd call her a hypocrit if she started condemning anything I do that is consensual on both sides.
How many people have you slept with? One. I'm 19 now, and split up some months ago.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I'm perfectly fine with the idea, but doubtful whether I could have sex without the emotional engagement.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Only if I can be absolutely sure as well that no diseases would be transferred either way.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? Absolutely no problem giving it (as long as she's shaven), but it's rather boring to be on the receiving end, as effectively you're mostly just lying/standing there, staring at the wallpaper.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Yea. In private.
What're your views on anal sex? Withholding judgement until I've actually tried it myself, but so far I'm having enough fun with one hole to not really feel the urge to try another.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? Yea, out of plain curiosity: how trustworthy would you rate this post? And how trustworthy would you rate posts by people claiming they're virgins, or that they've slept with double/triple digit numbers of people?
I haven't and i'm not too bothered. I'm not really interested in meaningless casual sex, i'd rather wait until i meet the right person.
And on the subject of anal, even though i have no experience, i'd like to quote Marten Reed.
"No poo poo on the pee pee"
And on the subject of anal, even though i have no experience, i'd like to quote Marten Reed.
"No poo poo on the pee pee"
Have you had sex? Yes, I have.
How old were you when you first did? 15/16ish.
How many people have you slept with? 5+
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? People can do what they want, I won't stop them. Everything in moderation, right?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, or if you or your girlfriend were on the pill?
We've discussed this before, only if a condom isn't available and only if it's a special occasion, which is more than fair enough.
How old were you when you first did? 15/16ish.
How many people have you slept with? 5+
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? People can do what they want, I won't stop them. Everything in moderation, right?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, or if you or your girlfriend were on the pill?
We've discussed this before, only if a condom isn't available and only if it's a special occasion, which is more than fair enough.
I didn't tell him AT Christmas. It was a few months before, but that was the reason I told him.AccursedTheory said:
I'm mean, but I'm not that mean.
Edit: Also, it should be mentioned that I have never really gotten along with my father. And when I was a teenager (about 15 or so) he made a vague comment to me and my sister about how he'd never forgive us if we "turned lesbian and refused to give him grandchildren".
Not my own religion. My religion does have a name but do to the high population of *cough*ragingatheists*cough* I'd rather stop getting notifications saying someone quoted my post just to bash my religion.Nimcha said:
Actually your post got me, a man who finds bj's boring -drops dead of disbelief-Kargathia said:
Um... I don't actually remember how old I was when I had my first two-person sexual encounter.
I *think* I was 21, but I'm not certain. I'm pretty sure it was somewhere between the ages of 20-22, though.
I guess I wasn't really paying that much attention.
I *think* I was 21, but I'm not certain. I'm pretty sure it was somewhere between the ages of 20-22, though.
I guess I wasn't really paying that much attention.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
No.
Have you had sex?
No.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
N/A
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
N/A
How many people have you slept with?
Zero.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Personally I can't ever do that, something just prevents me from even wanting sex without a relationship.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
No.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
N/A
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?
N/A
And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?
It's always been a choice. Why, I think because I've repressed so much I've even managed to suppress lust to a degree, so it's usually a lower priority, but it's still something that eats away at me every once in awhile.
No.
Have you had sex?
No.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
N/A
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
N/A
How many people have you slept with?
Zero.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Personally I can't ever do that, something just prevents me from even wanting sex without a relationship.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
No.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
N/A
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?
N/A
And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?
It's always been a choice. Why, I think because I've repressed so much I've even managed to suppress lust to a degree, so it's usually a lower priority, but it's still something that eats away at me every once in awhile.
thank god.Bara_no_Hime said:
For your Dad, and me too. I was sure the gay community was going to come crashing down on me, insisting that they have every right to tell anyone, anywhere, that they are gay, whether it would ruin a holiday or not.
Right let's see if we can take this in order:
1) Yeah, I've had sex. Most recently with my wife though she was not the first.
2) First time was when I was 14 and man, while at the time I thought I did pretty good, with the experience of time, I realized that I REALLY SUCKED. Sorry Katy...
3) The current score card, minus the heavy petting and oral, stands at a grand total of six.
4) Casual sex is fine, so long as you're not actually in a relationship. Just make sure you're sure your partner is clean.
5) When I was a kid, I thought a condom killed the mood, but as I grew up, I realized that it wasn't that bad. Besides, putting the damn thing on satisfies the "foreplay" part of sex, at least it did in my book.
6) Oral's fine, it's pretty fun and when done right can be sort of a nasty little secret pleasure you and the SO do on the fly.
7) Used to masturbate, now, not anymore.
8) Anal's okay, if "sanitized" first.
1) Yeah, I've had sex. Most recently with my wife though she was not the first.
2) First time was when I was 14 and man, while at the time I thought I did pretty good, with the experience of time, I realized that I REALLY SUCKED. Sorry Katy...
3) The current score card, minus the heavy petting and oral, stands at a grand total of six.
4) Casual sex is fine, so long as you're not actually in a relationship. Just make sure you're sure your partner is clean.
5) When I was a kid, I thought a condom killed the mood, but as I grew up, I realized that it wasn't that bad. Besides, putting the damn thing on satisfies the "foreplay" part of sex, at least it did in my book.
6) Oral's fine, it's pretty fun and when done right can be sort of a nasty little secret pleasure you and the SO do on the fly.
7) Used to masturbate, now, not anymore.
8) Anal's okay, if "sanitized" first.
1.yes
2.yes
3.19, In a movie theater top row (only a few people down front)
5.I've slept with 4 people
6.I have no qualms with open sex and or relationships, society doesn't condone it as a whole (not around here anyway) and neither will I.
7.One of us is going to be protected if not both
8.I absolutely love it, both giving and receiving, it puts whoever is orally pleasing in a sort of dominance if they're usually the one being bossed around, if only for a moment
9.It depends on how long its been since I last had sex
10.I absolutely LOVE anal, but if they show no real interest in taking it I wont push the matter
To all the virgins who are desperate to have sex. Even if its not a person you intend to stay around and date for the rest of your life I'd say find someone your truly comfy with before going to bed with them. I'm not saying go hit on all your casual friends trying to get in their pants but if one of them does indeed seem to want to have a fling, dont turn them down right away, see what they enjoy and explain your likes and dislikes. Theres nothing wrong with casual sex just to test the waters from time to time but it IS rather silly to just go looking to have sex with every other thing on 2 legs.
2.yes
3.19, In a movie theater top row (only a few people down front)
5.I've slept with 4 people
6.I have no qualms with open sex and or relationships, society doesn't condone it as a whole (not around here anyway) and neither will I.
7.One of us is going to be protected if not both
8.I absolutely love it, both giving and receiving, it puts whoever is orally pleasing in a sort of dominance if they're usually the one being bossed around, if only for a moment
9.It depends on how long its been since I last had sex
10.I absolutely LOVE anal, but if they show no real interest in taking it I wont push the matter
To all the virgins who are desperate to have sex. Even if its not a person you intend to stay around and date for the rest of your life I'd say find someone your truly comfy with before going to bed with them. I'm not saying go hit on all your casual friends trying to get in their pants but if one of them does indeed seem to want to have a fling, dont turn them down right away, see what they enjoy and explain your likes and dislikes. Theres nothing wrong with casual sex just to test the waters from time to time but it IS rather silly to just go looking to have sex with every other thing on 2 legs.
Ah,Sex.
I'm 17, male & never had sex.
My only girlfriend was a complicated relationship spanning nigh on three years. It ended two weeks ago on very odd terms. (not getting into that).
That little exposition was actually needed by the way. I am a bit of an odd cookie (or so modern society would have me believe) in the way I value relationships and sex.
Friends and strangers constantly go on about sex, 'I'd tap that' talk, I stay mostly out of it lest I throw a joke or two. I as a rule yet to be proven wrong am always attracted to just one person, even in the fancying stage, I am hopelessly dependant and love is my world, without it I see no reason to not pick up that knife five feet from me. (Note this doesn't mean if she leave me I'll top myself it's just that if I stopped believing I would in the end find somebody I'd have nothing, again not getting into it).
As I said, three years of a relationship, and yes I loved her, hopelessly so, did the thought of sex cross my mind? Yes, it did, a lot. Did we? No. Why? Again complicated, she did care for me, though I still don't know in what way, we never got that intimate (and aye, that does kill me, one of my very short list of regrets) but, I'm also sort of happy about the fact we didn't, yeah modern society might brand me odd for not having done so after such a long amount of time, but I want sex to be a pure expression of trust, love and intimacy as well as a host of things.
I want my first time to be with the girl my rest will, chances of that happening are slim granted, but I will definitely love them first. Sex to me, is the incarnation of life, it is everything in life that is important, a perfect expression of emotion a moment to forget yourself and the world, with all its harsh realities and to just love. To enjoy it too of course, as well as to ensure the other does, women are infamously harder to please sexual than men, or so I hear. But it is for both, not for me, and not for her, for 'us'
Yes, I have a romanticised version of sex, yes I have never had sex, but alas, life is what you make of it, and if sex is love, and love is life, then sex is what you make it.
P.S Glad to see a mature topic on such a thing.
P.P.S if I get any more cliché I'll turn into Romeo or something. *shudder*
I'm 17, male & never had sex.
My only girlfriend was a complicated relationship spanning nigh on three years. It ended two weeks ago on very odd terms. (not getting into that).
That little exposition was actually needed by the way. I am a bit of an odd cookie (or so modern society would have me believe) in the way I value relationships and sex.
Friends and strangers constantly go on about sex, 'I'd tap that' talk, I stay mostly out of it lest I throw a joke or two. I as a rule yet to be proven wrong am always attracted to just one person, even in the fancying stage, I am hopelessly dependant and love is my world, without it I see no reason to not pick up that knife five feet from me. (Note this doesn't mean if she leave me I'll top myself it's just that if I stopped believing I would in the end find somebody I'd have nothing, again not getting into it).
As I said, three years of a relationship, and yes I loved her, hopelessly so, did the thought of sex cross my mind? Yes, it did, a lot. Did we? No. Why? Again complicated, she did care for me, though I still don't know in what way, we never got that intimate (and aye, that does kill me, one of my very short list of regrets) but, I'm also sort of happy about the fact we didn't, yeah modern society might brand me odd for not having done so after such a long amount of time, but I want sex to be a pure expression of trust, love and intimacy as well as a host of things.
I want my first time to be with the girl my rest will, chances of that happening are slim granted, but I will definitely love them first. Sex to me, is the incarnation of life, it is everything in life that is important, a perfect expression of emotion a moment to forget yourself and the world, with all its harsh realities and to just love. To enjoy it too of course, as well as to ensure the other does, women are infamously harder to please sexual than men, or so I hear. But it is for both, not for me, and not for her, for 'us'
Yes, I have a romanticised version of sex, yes I have never had sex, but alas, life is what you make of it, and if sex is love, and love is life, then sex is what you make it.
P.S Glad to see a mature topic on such a thing.
P.P.S if I get any more cliché I'll turn into Romeo or something. *shudder*
OP: Another question. I didn't even see anyone ask this, but hey, why not.BlueberryMUNCH said:
OT: I like it. It's a great way to start an evening. It doesn't necessarily get me off, but it sort of... energizes the rest of the area, so I get off with greater speed and intensity. A toy works just as well.
In all honestly, girls, if you haven't tried it... you might want to. Just make sure to have plenty of lubricant, and make sure to have your sig-other wash off immediately afterwards. Or wash the toy or whatever.
Sorry to hear that, man:/. You can PM me if you feel the need to talk/vent, if you want. That last part is very wise sounding, too; and it's a very good outlook on things.McCa said:
And yeah, I'm glad everyone's being decent about it:]. If I may say so myself, this is one of the most entertaining threads I've seen on The Escapist.
Once again, have to double post here -_-''.
Interesting o.o.
See, I always thought anal was something guys all secretly wanted to try, and girls always hated. But when my girlfriend asked me to try it...I was like...sure, why not o.o. And sure enough, it felt great. I wore a condom though(Y).
Society nowadays tends to shun it, and I don't really understand why. That's what I find, anyway.
...also, just thought of something else to add to the OP>:].
Haha, yeah well, just crossed my mind.Bara_no_Hime said:
Interesting o.o.
See, I always thought anal was something guys all secretly wanted to try, and girls always hated. But when my girlfriend asked me to try it...I was like...sure, why not o.o. And sure enough, it felt great. I wore a condom though(Y).
Society nowadays tends to shun it, and I don't really understand why. That's what I find, anyway.
...also, just thought of something else to add to the OP>:].
Wow.Bara_no_Hime said:
More candid than I would have expected.
...
Well... Guess I should answer too. I was asked by a girl to try this once.
It ended... poorly. It hurt her (I was gentle as could be) and she nearly clipped the tip of my dick off.
... needless to say, I will never do it again unless the girl asking for it is experienced, and even than I would be hesitant.
SIDE NOTE: I have a funny physical therapy story in line with this question, but I am not typing it out unless someone asks.