Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

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the rye

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Well i really don't understand all you young people (i'm 19 by the way) and your sex and music, why can't teenagers just eat brie and read books.
 

Jamie Johnson

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im 20 and still no :/ im just not into it, it kinda creeps me out... but on the rare occasion i don want to try my luck i go out dancing... then i relise i cant actully talk to new girls let alone flirt :/... funny story my mates forced me to talk to a "easy girl" who basicly said she waned sex with the next guy who comes along (i think they thought they were helping me :/) by the end of out chat she had told me about her old bf who wasnt nice brought me a drink and added me as a bff on face book :/ i litterally an too nice lol but i dont mind the right girl will come some day when she does i hope i can talk to her lol :)
 

Amy Sorel

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

Yes.

Have you had sex?

Yes.

How old were you when you first did?

11.

Wanna tell us about your first experience?

Sleepover with my best friend in the middle of summer: Pillow fight became tickle fight became sex. All went really fast and we were out of controle and unsafe... I didn't have any time to think about it, it just happend.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)

No.

How many people have you slept with?

3

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

As long as it's safe, and with someone i want it with, it's fine.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

I'm not on the pill, but i don't want to get pregnant, so i stick to No condoms = no sex.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

I'm ok with oral, but sex is better.

Also, do you masturbate?

Sometimes.

What're your views on anal sex?

Not for me.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)?

Maybe.

Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

No. Not really.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Nope.
 

RaffB

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter'

Yes

Have you had sex?

Yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?

17, and no

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)

....Most definitely Yes

How many people have you slept with?

Exactly One ( still together after 4 years and planning to marry

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

Meh, never appealed to me

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

Been there, done that, stopped because the pill was annoying her

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

Oral sex.... well, for lack of a better word, ROCKS!! (both ways)

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?

Meh, every now and again

What're your views on anal sex?

Meh, been there, done that, both giving and recieving , was rather "Meh" all around

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

Not really, there is only one person i love enough to have sex with and id rather keep it that way, sex without love doesnt appeal to me

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Turtles.....i like them
 

RobCoxxy

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Fetzenfisch said:
RobCoxxy said:
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
I only seem to be sexually attractive when I'm taken. And by some of my girlfriend's friends as well! WHY!!?!?!
This phenomenon, it might be as old as the times of the first washed and shaved human being (when it was possible to tell the cavemen apart ;) ), is indeed mysterious.
My personal experiments showed me, that it might have something to do with having fun without looking for the flirts at all.
For whatever reasons being not interested makes yourself more interesting.
And i guess it might be one of Stinson's laws that it can be learned and utilized
Thanks for filling me in on this great mystery.
 

megaraccoon

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i was 13 when i had sex i got paid for it too :) thanks too a love starved 16yr old gay guy cant remember his name but met two years ago (im 21 now) and his wife was with him he gave me the most awkward look ever concieved not sure why though, regardless sex is fun but plz dont do it without protection and try to do it resposibly unlike me its not fun feeling like a whore now matter how you justify it with the whole i needed the money so i can buy the nintendo ds or gameboy advance it still doesnt make me or you any less of a whore.
 

DevilWolf47

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Yes
No. When i answered "Yes" to the above question, i was lyi-- YES I'VE HAD SEX!!
26, though there is a "Maybe 23" option that i should mention. More on that later.
No.
Two, though the exact number isn't clear. Nights when Kahlua are involved typically create 3-10 hour gaps in my memory. It's happened more than once where i woke up naked and a nurse was unusually friendly with me the next morning.
Keep it safe and there's no real problem.
If you mean safe sex, it depends on your definition of safe. But for the most part...
No.
I myself have explored my girlfriend, though she never went down on me.
No. My wrists are in bad enough shape as is.
I'm not a fan personally, though the reason for that is a little complicated.
I won't deny that the fantasy exists, but it takes me a long time just to get aroused. A threesome with me where both women get a bit would take over an hour.
In response to women with fake breasts or who are considering surgery, i would like to say that symmetry is more important than size, and i have never once seen a good looking woman with fake tits. Better to be small evenly proportioned rather than unrealistically busty.
 

endnuen

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
- yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
- 17, it was really awkward and over almost immediately. Super embarrassing, but after 5 minutes we gave it another try and it was good from there on.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
- They knew at the time.

How many people have you slept with?
- 4. Two were relationships and the other two just casual fun.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
- Huge fan.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
- Only when in an established relationship.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
- Great for foreplay, and I do enjoy a girl twitching from pleasure.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
- Often.

What're your views on anal sex?
- Never tried it, and reluctant to ever do so.. I just don't find that hole very appealing.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
- Hell yes on the tricycle. Hell NO on the devils threeway..
 

Verp

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Drakane said:
Verp said:
Drakane said:
Verp said:
I'm 23 and haven't had sex and I have no intention to, either. But, I refuse to vote 'no' because the word is followed by an unhappy emoticon. I'm not unhappy about it.
I think thats what the Nah, not yet is for. As in No I haven't and I really don't care or am actively perusing it... the No :( is for the ppl wanting it and not getting it.
"Yet" implies that you're pursuing or at least open to sex. Which I'm not. I mean, does this conversation sound normal to you?

"Have you ever stood on a rooftop and sniped down dozens of innocent civilians?"

"Nah, not yet."
I guess our assessment of the statement is different. And just because you have no intention of ever having sex in the.... 60+ years you may be alive, their is a distinct chance that your opinion changes on this particular mater at some point in your life, at least (probably) higher then you planning on snipping someone at some point. so yes "yet" can imply intent, it can also infer a possibility that it will arise in the future based on the context. Since the other option has the :( that makes it a more negative connotation to me and the other option neutral/apathetic to the notion.

In the end its all semantics on a mindless thread and if you feel its a shitty choice to your personal opinion on the matter, then cool don't vote.
Tell you what: whenever it is common for heterosexual people to publicly accept that there's a possibility that they'll have homosexual intercourse in the future and like it, I'll admit that I have not "yet" had sex.

Until that, I consider myself completely entitled to say "Ha, no way!" without dropping a disclaimer.
 

ReservoirAngel

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I lost mine when I was 17, to a random dude in the alley behind a pub. something i deeply regret to this very day
 

TzarChasm

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I'm in the minority here but I'm perfectly okay with?and open about?that: I lost my virginity at 28 to my wife. I couldn't be any happier that I waited my whole life for her, because what we share now is unaffected by burdensome comparisons to past lovers, feelings of inadequacy or inhibitions left over from bad relationships. Together we're cultivating and exciting, extremely active and very kinky love life that has richly satisfied the both of us.

I feel sorry for people who honestly believe that one sexual relationship is insufficient for a lifetime. I married my best friend and I get to rail her dizzy anywhere from three to six times a week. I know exactly what thrills her, and her alone, and she loves serving my needs. The hormonal cocktail that drives a one-night stand with "blonde #43 I met at Jake's party" could never compare to the quality of what we share sexually, and otherwise.
 

uncle-ellis

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Not really, most people are so fucking annoying. there all just like "lets do fingering and shit because I'm a ***** and I want you to service me" and I'm all like listing to cobra starship and its so fucking good.
 

The Last Parade

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
yeep

Have you had sex?
yeep

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
I was 16 so was she, we were both scared but it went well

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
I'm 18 atm and my parents have assumed bc I'm still going out with that girl =)

How many people have you slept with?
Just one

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Whatever people like is up to them, I'm in a relationship but if things go bad I might try it

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
yep, of course we'd need a test month to see if they were effective but once I know then of course

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
not as good but it's really exciting and great for getting in the mood

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Not for a while, mainly because I dont see why I need to when I'm in a relationship

What're your views on anal sex?
as long as no one ends in pain then it's great

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
yes and yes, we've talked about it and it's something we'd like to try

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
 

similar.squirrel

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes.

Have you had sex?
That I have.

How old were you when you first did? Want to tell us about your first experience?
I was 19. It was entirely as I had thought it would be. Unexpected, nice and embarrassingly short. Nice sense of intimacy.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
I never told them. I presume they know I'm sexually active, because I'm 20.

How many people have you slept with?
One.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I see no problem with it. But there may be a problem if it develops into another relationship.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Seeing as one of my friends gave birth recently as the result of a non-functioning pill, I would avoid that option. I would much rather get a vasectomy.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's interesting. It's nice to give, and I haven't gotten it very often.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Of course. Good to keep things in working order.

What're your views on anal sex?
That orifice is a one-way street, as far as I'm concerned. If there is no other option [as in the case of male couples], then there's not much else one can do. But I would avoid it.

Could you ever have a threesome (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
It depends on the male: female ratio. I wouldn't know what to do while the other guy was doing whatever needs to be done to the girl, for example. Nod appreciatively? Give pointers, perhaps?
It would be awkward, and the idea of taking turns doesn't hold much appeal either.
Two girls is obviously a nice prospect, as long as there's no favouritism.
 

SpartakRB

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes.

Have you had sex?
Yes

How old were you when you first did? Want to tell us about your first experience?
19 years old. A bit awkward and nerve-wracking but ultimately good!

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
Never told them but they tend to not ask about that kinda stuff.

How many people have you slept with?
Two

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Yes please lol. Seriously, I don't think there's anything wrong with it if thats what makes you happy.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I'd probably not, better safe than end up a parent unexpectedly.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I have a distinct lack of experience unfortunatel so can't comment really.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Yep

What're your views on anal sex?
As a heterosexual male, I really don't see the appeal.

Could you ever have a threesome (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Would love to try it at some point. Not sure it could happen with a member of the same sex though, would feel too much like 'competition' if you get me?
 

Hap2

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
No.

Have you had sex?
No.

How old were you when you first did? Want to tell us about your first experience?
N/A

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
Told my mom and brother I'm ace. Don't know if dad knows.

How many people have you slept with?
None

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I wouldn't do it, I have no need for sex so definitely not for me.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
No, the only time I would have sex is if my partner was sexual. I'm a hetero romantic ace, so I would do it for someone I love, but otherwise I couldn't care less about sex.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Disgusting to be honest, knowing what parts are used for what.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Nope, tried it a few times, didn't like it and had no need or want for it, and I haven't done it since.

What're your views on anal sex?
Same as with oral, I'd never do it myself.

Could you ever have a threesome (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Probably not, I don't mind cuddling with people I'm really affectionate for, but I don't feel comfortable in groups.
 

Floss

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes

Have you had sex?
Yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
17, it was alright. I'd been with my boyfriend for over 9 months so we were pretty comfortable with it and had talked etc. Cuddling was rudely interrupted with my father arriving home early from work, although I managed to get dressed and he never actually caught us thank God.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
I don't think my dad did, he never said anything haha. But I appeared to have it written all over my face when my mom came home and she immediately asked me if there was something I needed to tell her...

How many people have you slept with?
1, still dating after 4 years.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Not for me, even if I were single. Anyone else can go for it, several of my friends have done.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
We've done that maybe twice. But I'm overly paranoid about it so it just makes me uncomfortable so it's just less stressful to use a condom.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's pretty good, not better than sex.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I do.

What're your views on anal sex?
It's not something I'm interested in.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
I don't think so
 

Squeaky

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Have you had sex? Nope

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Why not if you both just want a fling


Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Fuck that there both not full proof and id rather not end up with pattering feet at the moment thank you to many people i know have or are having kids (iam 20)
 

Ironrose

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Have you had a 'sexual encounter'? Yes
Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? 14 years and 3 months. My first time was with my boyfriend at the time at my parent shack(holiday house whatever). Was a bit painful and not very good at all compared to later experiences.
Do your parents know? They knew by the time I was 16.
How many people have you slept with? 14: 11 men 3 women.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?I'm absolutely ok with it and have done before, but I believe you should set boundaries beforehand if you want to be fuck buddies.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? I am a girl, I have had sex without condoms, with two people, with both f them I was in a relationship and we used other means of contraception.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? I get very turned on by giving a guy oral sex but I don't really enjoy receiving it, I just don't think its as good as other things.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?Yes I do.
What're your views on anal sex?Have tried it, was ok but not great.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?Have had a threesome with another girl and a guy, was great fun and would do it again but not with the same individuals.