Poll: Suicide

[Zantos]

I have much sympathy for people who are depressed and driven to suicide, and to the people who have lost people to it. I can't even imagine being driven to it.

The biggest mockery is the kids that come in when I was at school with shallow pencil sharpener blade scratches on their forearms going on and on about how they tried to kill themselves three times that week. To them I give a firm slap across the face and a strong STFU and GTFO (because my time is too precious to insult them properly). Do kids even still do that?

 

[Flare_Dragon123]

The reason I would think anyone would mock it is that it is so incredibly selfish. Suicide is a one person act, but it leaves lasting effects on everyone around you. The fact that you are willing to inflict so much pain on other people just because you can't stand your own self, when there are in fact ways of making things better (much more than you let on OP) is inconceivably dull.

If someone were to ever commit that around me, I wouldn't mock them, I wouldn't make fun of what they did. I WOULD FORGET THEM, IMMEDIATELY, its the last pathetic call to the world, its the ultimate "look at me,"

**** (big censored capital letters) YOU, people who think suicide is "okay" or "unfortunate". Sincerely, follow these despicably selfish people to the same personal pit that they go.

 

[Zacharious-khan]

its cheating it is, skipping to level 2 early.

That assumes this is level one for you. If that's the case, I'm not sure I want to see level 2 and wouldn't mind skipping the level one boss.

you see therein lies the problem you get to level 2 without any of the power ups or extra HP which makes level much harder.

 

[Bloodstain]

People that are seriously contemplating suicide? No, I don't mock them. It's their life and they are free to end it as they wish.

 

[Lokithrsourcerer]

it is a tricky one and context is important.
someone saying they are suicidal coz they don't like there job etc should probably be given a slap and told to get a grip but sometimes people are suicidal for understandable reasons or mental health issues.

i personally wrestled with depression for about 5 years after my mum died when i was in my teens
there were times i was suicidal and have been physically stopped from killing my self by friends and loved ones on more than one occasion (and still have a couple of scars to prove it :-/)

everyone was very understanding and kind but looking back that didn't really help maybe if someone had
been a bit sterner with me i would have seen things differently. i know now looking back how selfish my actions were but at the time it was not something i could see.

one thing you should defiantly do if a friend or loved one is in this situation is listen to them
and offer an alternative point of view if they have a genuine reason to be depressed there is usually a genuine door back out of it. if they are just looking for attention then give them a good hard slap and tell them to grow up.

I'm not going to post here about what solved my problem for a number of reasons if any of you or someone you know is having problems and you want my advice PM me and i'll fill you in ;-D

 

[DEAD34345]

other people kill themselves because they're too cowardly to work out their problems the hard way.

, but i personally do think it is often a cowardly thing to do. personally i think it is cowardly to go through with suicide knowing the affect it will have on people, rather than trying to make things better, or just push through them.

Personally i think it's the height of selfishness but i would never mock it.

Who the fuck are you people to call it cowardly or selfish? Youve clearly never reached that stage.
A suicidal person isnt a coward, their very depressed/sad and feel shit about themselfs probably, its a state of mind where the person see's less hope and meaning to his life. You dont go magically out of this state of mind, but when a person is at that state their perception of the world is compleatly diffrent to that of a normal happy person. Depression isnt something you magically man up from, it takes time. In that state of mind they wont see the world they way you do. They dont live your life, and even in a happier state their brain is still functioning diffrent to yours and they maybe more negative.

A suicidal person needs something to make them feel better about themselfs, and raise their self-esteem rather than tell them their cowardly. Same for a depressed person. Or they need new positive perspectives on the world (happier people showing them new paths, happy songs, happy books, something that is new to them and opens their eyes towards the good things).

Yes, i agree, and i would never tell a suicidal person i thought they were a coward. I maintain that suicide in itself is a selfish action, however. It's going to bring a lot of hurt to everyone around them if they do it, and i think they would be a better, braver person if they didn't. If I was ever at the stage at which i thought my life was so horrible i thought i would be better of ending it, then I hope that i would be able to pull through it, if only for the sake of my family and friends. I don't know if I would be able to do that, and anyone who has done that is likely a much better person than me.

Oh, and I never said suicidal people are cowards. I think that committing suicide is a cowardly action, but people who are suicidal and pull through it would have to be incredibly brave and strong-willed to do so. Certainly worthy of respect.

 

[DTWolfwood]

Sorry i have absolutely, unequivocally have no sympathy for anyone who for any reason other than to cease a prolong physical agony that will result in death anyways, contemplate Suicide. If they don't find any value in their own existence, why the fuck should I?

If they kill themselves, good riddance to bad garbage. Preferably they can do it standing over their own grave as to not cause the rest of us any more headaches.

So if i had the chance, i would mock them.

(im an Apatheist, so no this opinion isn't based on a religious moral high ground.)

 

[ManOwaRrior]

If one attempts suicide, chances are that there have been many things going horribly wrong in ones life. Mocking them would mean mocking the life they led up to this point, as well as mocking everyone else who currently endures something simmilar.

Therefore no, I'd not mock someone suicidal. Especially if I don't know his or her reasons.

 

[Lord Kloo]

Well as I see it suicide is a good thing, obviously you need to apologize before hand for anyone who might miss you but other than that its a good thing, something new to do if you don't like your current life (I'm rather skeptical of the idea that there is absolutely nothing after death)..

So OT: There's no need to mock them its just another decision amongst the rest, a life choice as some would call it, personally insulting peeps is just banter to me but there's no need to mock people for something they do.. just like anything any of us do..

By the way - I don't prejudice for people's reasons for suicide, I really don't care if your reason is to find something new to do or to get out of paying off a loan or getting out of pain..#

Also by the way - mocking suicidal people in no situation is going to help them or anyone else, it only helps their reasoning that its better to be in a different state of existence, or non-existence, or whatever comes next, or nothing.. but thats another story..

 

[A big red rooster]

Only half. Only half of you would offer help.

I... can't even sum up a response. I am completely disgusted.

 

[DYin01]

Some people commit suicide for completely justifiable reasons, other people kill themselves because they're too cowardly to work out their problems the hard way.

As with any group of people, there are extemes on both sides.

They can't find the courage to fix their problems but somehow they worked up the guts to actually kill themself? That sounds mighty contradicting to me.

 

[Ampersand]

I look at people who kill themselves the same way I look at murderers. They don't care who they hurt and just want to take the cowards way out. In addition to that they throw away the only life they've got and everything they could have been just because it's sometimes difficult, there's no defending that.

 

[Trivun]

Just so the people who voted "yes" to mocking in the poll understand the implications of what they're saying, I'll tell a little story. It's very much cut down from the full details, which would take a while to explain, but suffice to say that a girl in obvious and very great distress (who I'd seen, perfectly happy, at a gig we were both at merely an hour beforehand) was basically half climbing over a bridge in our city centre, preparing to jump off into traffic below. I ended up helping her out, with another guy walking past, and we tried to calm her down, while I called the police to help her out. In the end she was okay, and the police took over. Still not sure why she was so upset and all, and I suspect something had happened to her, but that's not for me to talk about or speculate upon.

By the way, this happened just last week. Literally seven days ago, in fact.

So yeah, on the whole, I think anyone even contemplating suicide should be treated with decency and kindness, because there's obviously something underlying that is driving them to such thoughts and which needs to be dealt with. Anyone who decides suicidal people should be laughed at or supported in seeking death, are sick and twisted bastards and I have absolutely no qualms in helping them achieve that state themselves. And the sooner the better.

 

[Trivun]

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Cool story bro.

except I didn't say depressed people were cowards.

I said some people commit suicide because it's the easy way out.

Suicidal =/= depressed

I have to respectfully disagree here. Have you ever seen someone about to commit suicide? I did, just last week, and she felt it certainly wasn't an easy way out. She was standing half over a bridge, one leg on the safe side and one leg over the other side, for several minutes, in tears, and eventually decided it wasn't worth it. But watching her trying to make that decision (yes, I was ready to call an ambulance, before you ask, and I didn't say anything to her because I was worried it would tip her over that edge and make her jump), I can honestly say she knew it was a really hard decision to make. Committing suicide is by no means an easy decision, believe you me...

 

[DTWolfwood]

Sorry i have absolutely, unequivocally have no sympathy for anyone who for any reason other than to cease a prolong physical agony that will result in death anyways, contemplate Suicide. If they don't find any value in their own existence, why the fuck should I?

So, what made you decide that debilitating psychological agony is any less of an issue than debilitating physical agony?

But, hey, we all know you've never experienced it. I can with certainty that nobody who holds this offensive view of suicidal people have ever been on the brink themselves. You've never known what it's like to be ready to hop the twig.

what are drugs for? (pharmaceuticals not recreational)

Look i don't believe Depression is a physical/chemical imbalance disorder (no matter how many times them drug peddlers want to sell you on the idea that depression can be cured through pills.) I went through depression in middle school and got over it when i realized my problems don't compare to other ppl whom have it way worst than i do.

so no Mental anguish/agony isn't justification for suicide because it doesn't lead to death if left untreated. If you die from having crazy thoughts than i stand by my stances that its Good riddance.

If you even have the wherewithal to know you're having "debilitating psychological agony" you can do something about it.

 

[emeraldrafael]

Why, I dont know. I would say its cause they dont understand the mentality of the person at that point, and to a non-suicidal person, it just seems trivial and funny. I've been down that road, and its an ugly thing. Though I guess I'm hypocritical, cause I've made the cutting emo joking more then once in my life.