Poll: When was your first boyfriend/girlfriend?

[Spacelord]

When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
Mine was when I was 8, can't remember much about it... all I remember is 'dumping' them by text. I was a douche wasn't I...

When I was 8 we didn't have cellphones. God I feel old.

Also: define 'girlfriend'.

 

[Crystal Cuckoo]

Never bothered.

Every girl I might have had a chance with was either a) with someone else or b) didn't pick up my hints.

Though I was never really sad about not having one (except at parties or at camps when everyone was with another girl; christ that felt lonely). They seemed much too expensive.

 

[Brandon237]

I'm in my first relationship now, only started about a month ago, month and half, and as much as I want to be mean and make you all look at my profile, I'll tell you I'm 15. At school we just have to be friends because we are trying to keep it rather quiet, what with nosy people and other complications that I can't speak of.

 

[Phlakes]

First I was 14, then again with the same person when I was 15. The funny thing is, they turned out to be very unlikable and irresponsible, and I started genuinely disliking them.

And that's it for me. Only those two times.

When I was 8 we didn't have cellphones. God I feel old.

Yeah, remember having to actually meet up with people to talk with them?

 

[drisky]

I'd love to say it was in the 13-17 group but its 18, unless i try and count things that weren't relationships but I won't.

 

[the boxdog]

13.
Damn I hate her now.

 

[Riobux]

When I was 17. Lasted three weeks. I may be better off without her to be fair but I did take quite a while to fully get over her.

Edit: Oh, and that was a girlfriend to clarify, I've also never had a boyfriend. Never had the opportunity.

 

[Fallen-Angel Risen-Demon]

When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
Mine was when I was 8, can't remember much about it... all I remember is 'dumping' them by text. I was a douche wasn't I...

When I was 8 we didn't have cellphones. God I feel old.

Also: define 'girlfriend'.

Like, kissing and stuff... Not sex! I'm not a underage!

 

[latenightapplepie]

I haven't got one yet.

And I'm feeling quite excellent about that.

/bitter sarcasm.

 

[drdamo]

Never found someone who saw me the way i saw her right from the start.
I've been in love 4 times now, and currently i'm in love again with a girl i've been in love with before. Now that i'm older and have more life experience she does feel more for me then before, yet with her personal issues it will take some time.
And as i don't want to end up like all her previous lovers, i'll wait for her.
Patience i'm willing to accept for as long as it doesn't mess up my life again.
This doesn't mean i don't screw arround tho, yet lust in my eyes isn't satisfying enough without love. Despite having had various options for a lust-based relation i never accepted such options. Call me crazy, but at least i'm having my own opinion and am not affraid to say it.

 

[Shycte]

I was fourteen, sexteen now.

Still togheter.

 

[Folio]

I can hardly call her a girlfriend because she didn't live in the same country and the relationship lasted 2 weeks. I'm feeling sad now.

 

[Mcupobob]

17, Yeah I'm lame. It lasted about a month and it really wasn't much of a relationship, I think I did just because I wanted to finally have a girlfriend. So thats why I wasn't heartbroken when she dumped me, she still has been trying to get back together dispet it almost being a year.

 

[BakaSmurf]

Haven't had a significant other yet, and that 15-minute thing with my friend that we had both, before hand and afterwords agreed was purely a goof, doesn't count.

 

[AWC Viper]

12, She was my neighbor and best friend. and my first "time" but that's for another Thread.

 

[BringBackBuck]

14. And it has pretty much left me screwed over.

She was pretty much mentally destroying me with accusations of cheating and such (I was one of the most unpopular at school, I had NO chance of that ever happening. Nor would I ever choose to). It lasted three days when I finally said screw it and split up with her. Turns out she was really going out with someone else anyway.

So yeah this has kinda wrecked my chances of having a great amount of trust with anyone.

You are joking right? a 3 day relationship when you were 14 with a girl who accused you of cheating mentally destroyed you, left you screwed over, and now you will never trust anyone again?

Melodramatic much?

OT: I think I was about 9. Being boyfriend/girlfriend pretty much meant holding hands and telling everyone in the school playground you were boyfriend and girlfriend. The topic of marriage was covered off by the declaration that by the time we were old (like 18) we would have 47 children and I would be a fireman world champion wrestler pirate.