No I didn't, despite the handle.AdeptaSororitas said:You do, of course, realize that I AM a woman right? I have two X's, breasts and a vagina, with ALL the working parts installed.
Secondly: Damn, that is one castle's worth of brick wall of text, not gonna lie, I skimmed, it's just too massive to go into detail.
Thirdly: I'm not here to argue why or why not "real" women don't appear in games/books/movies or even if most people want them there, I'm simply asking if you know any games they do appear in. I'm sorry If i come off as frustrated but it seems people have been ignoring my original question like it was the gorram plague.
That said, the bottom line of my wall of text is that your dealing with fantasy and science fiction, your dealing with heroic ideals. The female characters that you see in the games as protatagnists represent that ideal, and not just as seen by men, as seen by women who create such things themselves (with several referances given previously).
Perhaps I misunderstood your question, and as you state it above, the basic answer is that you don't see any "real women" in video games for the same reason you don't see "real men", it's heroic fantasy, intended to get away from the norm. Just about everyone is basically a super hero and looks the part, or at least has unusual powers or whatever. Even the "nerds" tend to be fairly ideal.
The same thing applies to books, movies, and other things.
With material outside of the heroic fantasy genere you do tend to see a more normal looking people when they aren't playing characters that aren't supposed to be bigger than life. I mean when you consider that little old ladies who solve crimes, like Miss Marple and of course the TV series "Murder She Wrote" is now a genere stereotype for mysteries, your getting away from the heroic ideal there for sure.