So, I'm dating my cousin now... Yeah...
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I have nothing against dating a close relative. But you see the thing is, you're still too young. If you make this decision now and a few months later you both realise that it isn't working out too well and break up, it would not only have been a waste of time and effort but your family probably never see you in the same way ever again.
It would be better if you just waited. Once you're an adult you can let everybody else just fuck themsleves and do what you want. But right now, you don't have that option.
It would be better if you just waited. Once you're an adult you can let everybody else just fuck themsleves and do what you want. But right now, you don't have that option.
I hade a relationship my family didn't approve of and i must say it was a total nightmare. We had a lot of fun but the scrutiny eventually broke me down.
You're so don't expect this to be your final relationship, and if it does end it will be awkward as hell. For the time being though, enjoy yourself.
You're so don't expect this to be your final relationship, and if it does end it will be awkward as hell. For the time being though, enjoy yourself.
Yeah that's what I thought too. But his parents might not be so open-minded I figure.Gudrests said:
I'd give it time...if there is something there then tell them (however if someone already knows its probably best to say now before they do), if its not blood related then I guess that would be better than if it is. If it were my family I wouldn't exactly like it and I recommend against it, but really anything anyone says doesn't matter as much as the way YOU feel about it. Just try not to screw things up with your family...Sacman said:
What is this? I don't even...
Ok, ok, you want my advice? Don't go through with this, or at the very least take a good long look at what would happen when everyone else finds out. If you two really and truly feel for eachother in this way go ahead, but there will be people who won't accept it and you better be ready to weather that storm or it will never last.
Ok, ok, you want my advice? Don't go through with this, or at the very least take a good long look at what would happen when everyone else finds out. If you two really and truly feel for eachother in this way go ahead, but there will be people who won't accept it and you better be ready to weather that storm or it will never last.
I feel like I should say that "Go for it, love's great. If you love her who cares. etc etc"
But I just feel weird supporting this.
Mostly just because you're both teenagers and this probably won't amount to anything, and you wouldn't want to ruin your relationship with your family.
But I just feel weird supporting this.
Mostly just because you're both teenagers and this probably won't amount to anything, and you wouldn't want to ruin your relationship with your family.
Just...be careful, alright? I'd recommend that you finish college before telling anyone, but if you don't, at least make sure that you'll have the means to pay your own way. You don't want to end up trying to support a family with nothing but a high school diploma.Sacman said:
This is a touchy subject. As many other people have said, its alright. However they are very right when they say its a Social Taboo. You can marry your cousin and have a live, however it will be looked down upon by family and friends, being viewed as an 'odd match'. However i will say this. Sure, try it out. But i assure you that it won't work out. mostly because you are still teenagers. Teenage love never works, not without hardships, and being related only makes it worse. You have so many variables that will get in the way that the relationship to a Teenager will force the attraction to recline, and permanently end the relationship. I think the most awkward thing would be that in the future you get married, your cousin comes up to your wife and sais 'Hes good in the bag, ohhhh ya, i remember.' Thats one variable that is possible in the future. BE CAREFUL YOUNG ONE!
