So my mom still thinks I'm gay... (A Follow-Up)
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Dude, I've been trying to do that since I was old enough to talk, and to no avail.InterAirplay said:
Strange, have you talk with your mom about the guys you like?? Maybe if you just be honest with her in your love situation and what kind of men you like and things like that and last but not least saying "Heeey, I'm straight, ok? what do you want me to do?"DuctTapeJedi said:
Sounds likes your mom has some gay trauma or obsession, well I don't know her and I don't want to offend you or your mom but sounds like that.
Yesterday my mum told me I need to have more sex with loose women. Seriously.
What do you say to that?
What do you say to that?
Try again these are some serious issues that should be worked out with your mom. Its the only way for this to end.DuctTapeJedi said:
Or you just could have hot passionate sex with your boyfriend on the kitchen table just when your mom is about to come home.
Your suggestion, while reasonable, and founded in logic, goes under the assumption that I get along with my mom.MAUSZX said:
I'll direct you to another post I made a while back when I was having a bit of a breakdown.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/538.248083-Is-there-something-wrong-with-me#9129641
Wow. First of all, your mother shouldn't assume something like that.
Second of all, your mother shouldn't tell other people about things like that without your consent. Even if you were a lesbian, she shouldn't give out information like that unless your ok with that. Even then she probably shouldn't do that anyway.
A useless rant, since that should be already known and already said, but I had to say that.
I suggest telling her that you are straight, and asking her if/why she is saying this to everyone.
Second of all, your mother shouldn't tell other people about things like that without your consent. Even if you were a lesbian, she shouldn't give out information like that unless your ok with that. Even then she probably shouldn't do that anyway.
A useless rant, since that should be already known and already said, but I had to say that.
I suggest telling her that you are straight, and asking her if/why she is saying this to everyone.
Promise never to marry a girl? Jesus, Your mother has some close minded friends. I know you're straight and all but perhaps you should marry a girl just out of spite. And besides them assuming that you're a Lesbian I think it's incredibly rude that your mothers friend basically forced you into promising never to marry a girl.DuctTapeJedi said:
Sure, you never actually will due to your preference but all the same the context speaks in volumes. She's trying to enforce her morals on you. If I just happened to be one of your mothers friends and I basically made you promise to me to not eat meat on Sundays that would be no more or less rude.
My mother likes spreading the word around that I'm autistic (Apserger Syndrome but I don't actually believe I've got it) and that I have/had ADD.
The latter annoys me the most because no one can make up their god damned minds on whether I have ADHD or ADD. They're always saying one or the other and I personally believe this as well is bull shit.
Buy a lottttt of condoms, unroll them and put them everywhere in your house....like after they've been gone for a few days or a day or so....then! when they come home....condom city! they'll never think your a lez again....but they will think ur preggers.......also!DuctTapeJedi said:
My dad tells people........that i grew up just like him....in the sack because ever since he found out ive been having sex....its been one big bragging trip with him.....
That was sort of my response. It was my 22nd birthday yesterday and she was worried I wasn't having enough fun in my life. She wants me to be more like my sister and go out drinking all the time.this isnt my name said:
Get pregnant.
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OP: This is an interesting situation. I do think that getting a boyfriend in this case would be beneficial, even if you only *ahem* hire one for appearances.
Hit on that lady.GreyKnight3445 said:
(Not in that order)
OP: This is an interesting situation. I do think that getting a boyfriend in this case would be beneficial, even if you only *ahem* hire one for appearances.
And take plenty of pictures. And maybe a video, if you have a video cam- I mean, clear examples of what you should not do when faced with a potential situation such as the above. Clearly. Yes. Right..e2density said:
*Ahem*
OT: Pretend your a lesbian, and have fun screwing around (as in, with the mind!) with your mother with the act? Though, nonetheless, that comment about "not marring a girl" was out of line in every sense of the statement.
Well how about (assuming that you have some guy friends) you just pretend one of your guy friends is your boyfriend. It's kind of the coward's way out, but anything to make her shut up right?
Strangely enough, no matter what, I always assume that people are straight unless they actually say that they are homosexual. At my college, my roommate told me over facebook before the semester started (I kinda had my suspicions because he listens to Lady Gaga and dances, and how most of his friends were girls). One of my good friends had only the stereotypical lisp, but other than that, he listens to death metal and likes all manner of nerdy things. He dropped that he was gay randomly in a conversation. I said "OK". My orientation leader, also listening to hardcore metal with even less of a lisp, turned out to be gay when the previous person told me. So I guess that I'm the opposite of your mom then?
Also, on the topic.
My parents have never really told me anything really traumatizingly strange like that.
Strangely enough, no matter what, I always assume that people are straight unless they actually say that they are homosexual. At my college, my roommate told me over facebook before the semester started (I kinda had my suspicions because he listens to Lady Gaga and dances, and how most of his friends were girls). One of my good friends had only the stereotypical lisp, but other than that, he listens to death metal and likes all manner of nerdy things. He dropped that he was gay randomly in a conversation. I said "OK". My orientation leader, also listening to hardcore metal with even less of a lisp, turned out to be gay when the previous person told me. So I guess that I'm the opposite of your mom then?
Also, on the topic.
My parents have never really told me anything really traumatizingly strange like that.
It sounds to me like your mum has some pretty serious issues of homophobia as she is making a huge deal out of it. Just tell her your straight, it's insulting that she wouldn't believe you and that your sexual orientation is none of her business.DuctTapeJedi said:
Your mum needs a more open mind, and needs REAL friends with REAL brains. She also needs to check, not just think your gay.