I'm not dating a gay person, or a pedophile.Fredrick2003 said:
You'd be surprised how well the expensive surgeries do.Zarokima said:
So you discover that your girlfriend is transgendered.
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If it wasn't my boyfriend who just sprung this news, then why would I care? it's their lives, go for whatever they want to.
If they told me early on in the relationship no problem at all, relationship would continue as is. Honestly don't care about biology all that much. If the relationship had been going on for a while and I found out on accident somehow I would be really pissed. Them not telling me would really show a lack of trust/respect and I would be pretty damn offended about that. I understand it can be really hard to tell people that sort of thing as they can react pretty badly, but if you're in a relationship with someone you have to be open about something like that.
I'd ask if she was cool if I just stuck it in her pooper instead. Obviously if I've been dating this person for a bit then they're physically and mentally attractive and if I couldn't figure it out at the beginning (cause you can almost always tell, let's be honest here), then they must be REALLY convincing.
If it was a friend/coworker/etc. then I frankly wouldn't give a shit. I may get curious and just ask some friendly questions (cause c'mon, how often do you actually meet someone that you know is transgendered?), but other than that, whoopdeeshit? I'd keep working/talking/etc. to them just fine.
If it was a friend/coworker/etc. then I frankly wouldn't give a shit. I may get curious and just ask some friendly questions (cause c'mon, how often do you actually meet someone that you know is transgendered?), but other than that, whoopdeeshit? I'd keep working/talking/etc. to them just fine.
It doesnt matter wether or he/she was my girlfriend or a friend or a friends girlfriend I Dont care, No one has the right to judge anyone for trying wo be who they feel they are.
Looking at the answers ive seen ao far i think many of the people here should take more time to think about what they would really do instead of just spouting the reponse that is expected to avoid being called a fag.
I mean really how many of you can say that "scream and run away" is what you would do, you dont know unless you've been in the situation, Having expirienced the subject in question first hand i found that it made no difference in the way i looked or thought about a person when this knowledge comes to light.
^That^
and the sex was good too.
seriously escapists grow up and open your mind.
Looking at the answers ive seen ao far i think many of the people here should take more time to think about what they would really do instead of just spouting the reponse that is expected to avoid being called a fag.
I mean really how many of you can say that "scream and run away" is what you would do, you dont know unless you've been in the situation, Having expirienced the subject in question first hand i found that it made no difference in the way i looked or thought about a person when this knowledge comes to light.
^That^
and the sex was good too.
seriously escapists grow up and open your mind.
Okay, some of them might pass at a cursory glance, but if you're down there for a while you'd have to be a virgin to not tell the difference. And unless there's some brand new procedure, they still can't self-lubricate, which is a pretty big tell in itself given how rare that condition is in real women.AccursedTheory said:
I'm assuming that because we were already dating, I would not have been put off by her/his appearance (a bit shallow, but that's just how I am). I wouldn't blame her for putting it off, at least for a little while, because I imagine that it might be a somewhat difficult subject to bring up. Ultimately, if I cared about the person enough, I would move past it. I'm not planning on having kids anyway, and if I changed my mind, we could always adopt.
I'd feel pretty betrayed to be honest but at this point of my 23 years of life, I'll take whatever I can get and just ask, "Why didn't you tell me sooner?"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=om7O0MFkmpw&feature=PlayList&p=76D438C459F774CE&playnext_from=PLphatdog45 said:
He speaks for us all...
I haven't embedded it cos it's not really on topic, (and i don't know how...)
On topic, I think i'd be unlikely to continue a relationship with said person, it's the trust thing and the kids thing and the fact that you'd never really be able to stop thinking about it... With a friend i'd like to think i could deal with it fine.
I'd leave them automatically without another word. I just...don't like transgendered people. I understand that its there body and they can do whatever they want with it but...there is just something extremely unnatural about changing your gender.
Also, I don't like being lied too.
Also, I don't like being lied too.
I honsetly don't know. I don't know until I'm put in that situation, but if I were to hazard a guess I would probably break up with her/him. I'd be too weirded out. if it was a friend, I'd probably stay friends with them...
I know... it's a bit of a double standard.
I know... it's a bit of a double standard.
If I'd only been dating them a short time and they told me themselves I'd probably be fine with it.
If we were having a great relationship and everything was working out, I would accept the fact that they were male. I mean, I'm not bisexual ( sadly 
) but my feeling for said person hopefully wouldn't change. That being said, I'd be incredibly angry at them for lying to me.
EDIT: I'm guessing this relationship is fictitious, as I don't have a Girlfriend.
) but my feeling for said person hopefully wouldn't change. That being said, I'd be incredibly angry at them for lying to me.EDIT: I'm guessing this relationship is fictitious, as I don't have a Girlfriend.
If my girlfriend told me that she was born male and had all the bits done.. I'd say they did a pretty good job. It's been nearing 4 years tho so she'd have to make up for not telling me.