Student Suspended for wearing a dress.

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Burst6

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I wonder where this school is.

In my schools anyone can wear anything as long as its not too revealing. I remember seeing one boy walk around with a pink ballerina tutu and tights.
 

GrimHeaper

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claymoreguy18 said:
Nice. Gotta love america Huh? I joined the army to fight shit like this only to have it happen in my own backyard. Great.
Fighting people wearing dresses?
 

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StarStruckStrumpets said:
Living in the UK, I'm not surprised by this at all. Most schools smack you with the stick of conformism. In my school you're not even allowed two tones in your hair, let alone a different colour. If a student came in with visibly different tones, they'd be told to leave until they washed out.

It's seriously that bad. I might come off as a bit insensitive here, but I'm used to that kind of treatment by my so called "superiors" so...Yeah, the school is kinda wrong for doing that, but at the same time, why not just wear the heels at the weekend if it was part of a bet?
Same here. My high school was the very definition. They were constantly changing the dress code without actually informing anyone or even updating the student handbook. Eventually people were getting detention for wearing multicoloured socks "because it's distracting in a learning environment." and yet kids with ADHD and such could fuck about in lessons and disrupt the class and they'd do sod all. Stupid.
 

claymoreguy18

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GrimHeaper said:
claymoreguy18 said:
Nice. Gotta love america Huh? I joined the army to fight shit like this only to have it happen in my own backyard. Great.
Fighting people wearing dresses?
No. discrimination, communism, and brown people.
Seriously though we should quit trying to force people into conforming to a set social standard, Everyone is different and I wouldn't have it any other way.
 

Lilani

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Saelune said:
I domt mind dress codes. Long as they are not sexists. If wearing a dress and heels is not ok for him, then every vagina in a dress and heels also should get suspended.
Ofcourse, fi I was him, Id be browsing for all the new dresses Id be able to buy with the settlement money after I sue. (Though I actually wear dresses cause I like them, as opposed to bets)
Or rather, if it's okay for females to wear pants and shirts, it should be alright for males to wear dresses and heels. Fair is fair.

I think if the school didn't have any policy SPECIFICALLY forbidding what he did, they were in the wrong. Sure, most schools have some policy against "distracting" attire, but how the hell are students supposed to know what constitutes "distracting" clothing?

But in other news, suing the school is never the way to go. Suing a public school is just suing the government, since that's who it's funded by and that's who will end up paying out the damages. So they might get $5 million from the government or whatever, then because of our massive growing debt (to which one contributor is thousands of government-assisted lawsuit payouts and attorney fees), they raise our taxes even more later.

So, if anything, they should sue the individual (or individuals) who made the decision. Not the school directly. That way the lawsuit is focused on the individuals who were involved, not the entire school system (because it would be very hard for them to claim that the entire school system caused the pain, rather than the administrators)
 

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I understand doing it if you want to be a woman. I understand doing it if you are a woman. I understand doing it if it's a joke.

But just to prove a point? I'm either missing something here, or this kid is just plain mental.
 

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Bloodstain said:
since the school does have a ban on hats
What the hell kind of school is that?

Really, at my school, the teachers would probably just laugh and joke a bit around if a boy weared a dress. What is wrong with your schools, America?
I know this was probably tongue-in-cheek, but this statement makes me a little mad. There are tens of millions of children in America in tens, maybe hundreds of thousands of schools, and because one school suspended a semi-attention whoring kid, suddenly all American schools are fucked up, and America has lost the right to be called The Land of the Free.
 

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Aur0ra145 said:
Meh, if the dude is wearing high heels and a dress it could potentially cause class room disruptions. These disruptions would hinder the other kids in learning.

So, he has to wear stuff that in the past has not caused disruptions and/or are of the 'norm' for people his age, and from that area of the united states.
KingsGambit said:
Suspension is a bit harsh, though I don't think there's a problem with the school sending him home. An appropriate response would have been for him to go home and return dressed sensibly. It doesn't matter what the student wants, if he wishes to attend that school he needs to abide their rules. I think it's a very american thing to believe that one can do anything because of the first ammendment.

The student is well within his rights to dress how he likes outside of his school, but in school he has to abide the rules or they are well within their rights to punish him. His choice is to exercise his rights to dress how he likes and go to a different school that allows it, or dress according to the rules. I have no issue with enforcing discipline and desired behaviour.
Pretty much both of these comments sum up my opinion on the matter.

Yes, free speech and freedom of expression are the law of the land (which I feel should be expanded and more protected if anything), but its been established that many of your rights aren't fully protected in school. One student got suspended a few years back because he held up a sign that said "Bong hits for Jesus" during a school function but off of school property. And if I remember right, he didn't go to school that day. This went to the Supreme Court and the court upheld the school's decision. No, I don't feel it was right, but that the law.

As I remember my school rules, they basically read as don't cause a disruption. Disruptions could count as clothing. Does your shirt say something offensive like "shit"? Is your hair an unnatural color like green? Do you have facial piercings or are you a boy with pierced ears? Are you wearing flip flops? Well these could all get you sent home. Though, I think the flip flop rule was due to insurance and they didn't want anyone getting hurt in the crowded hallways.

Still, I'm pretty sure my school would just send you home and allow you to return properly dressed. Unless you had a history. That might result in some in-school or Out of school suspension. Which I think would have been a proper response.
 

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Wow, I'm glad all other issues in the world have been resolved so we can focus on a boy dressing a bit oddly.
 

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This whole thread reaks of "intellectual" masturbation. Methinks some people are seriously projecting their own issues with school. Yes being suspended for wearing the dress is harsh and I can understand why the mother would be upset but since it was initially just for a bet I don't like how it's being twisted into moral crusading.

Sounds more to me that she's pissed that the school dared to suspend her perfect, delicate little snowflake.
 

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claymoreguy18 said:
GrimHeaper said:
claymoreguy18 said:
Nice. Gotta love america Huh? I joined the army to fight shit like this only to have it happen in my own backyard. Great.
Fighting people wearing dresses?
No. discrimination, communism, and brown people.
Seriously though we should quit trying to force people into conforming to a set social standard, Everyone is different and I wouldn't have it any other way.
But..but..but BROWN people look hot.
all joking aside,yea.
Needs to be more diverse and free, we also need to stop this whole well..
you know how watching MLP and other shows is all UNMANLY and all or a thign is only meant for boys or girls. things like condoms and the such are understandable, but clothing is really should be somethign we should have grown out of by now. I have the same problem with the rebel flag being called bad because t represents slavery for some reason, when really it represent freedom more than anything to me.
Some things just don't make sense around here...make that most things :I
NickCooley said:
This whole thread reaks of "intellectual" masturbation. Methinks some people are seriously projecting their own issues with school. Yes being suspended for wearing the dress is harsh and I can understand why the mother would be upset but since it was initially just for a bet I don't like how it's being twisted into moral crusading.

Sounds more to me that she's pissed that the school dared to suspend her perfect, delicate little snowflake.
We are not seeing the child at all at this point, it's the right to wear a dress, I mean you wouldn't tell a student he can't wear a kilt would you?
and it's obviously was a public school otherwise he wouldn't have even done it.
I don't think it has anything to do with morals, more to do with freedoms.
As for the parent and such I can hardly care the act in itself is more important after all.
 

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Odbarc said:
Put it to a vote; Should women be allowed to wear pants?!
better question should they be allowed to go pantyless,braless,wear a white shirt,and have a VERY short skirt on? well apparently yes. Yes, that's right they get away with that, but a guy can't wear a dress?
wtf mang.
 

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Wow.... that's a lot of suspensions from one topic. Ouch.

Anyways, my two cents worth....
The problem I have with many of the arguments is that the reason behind wearing the dress is absolutely irrelevant. Whether seeking attention, a dare, a bet, a moral crusade or whatever, it is wrong of the school to suspend one person for wearing a dress and heels and not another. That is discrimination plain and simple.