Transgendered Woman Beat Up In McDonald's; Employees Do Nothing

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When I first saw the title I sort of sympathised with the staff. Where I work is right nextdoor to a pub, and fights spill into the lobby fairly regularly. I don't go and do something because I know I'll end up getting my head beat in.

That it was a transgendered woman sort of changes the situation slightly (though I'm of the opinion that it would be discrimination to decide to help someone based on gender). Though that they stood there and recorded the thing on a phone, and allegedly, made that comment changes it for me.
 

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My job be damned I would have stopped this attack. I would rather be a decent human being who is unemployed, then some low life jackass that watched a women get beat nearly to death, but kept his job.

In a situation like this you help out not because you are getting paid enough, or because your job is not at risk. You help out because to do anything makes you less of a human then the attackers.

It is not like there was a mob beating the woman I am sure if the woman that did eventually help and every employees intervened from the start there would not have been much of a fight at all. Most people like the attacker only fight when they have the upper hand. When outnumbered they would have backed down.


Further more then though they say don't get involved. McDonald's would more then like not fire those that helped out in this instance. I can imagine the the PR shit storm that would land are their doorstep for firing the "Heroes" that stopped a hate crime.
 

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I'm sickened by those people. That guy was getting his ass kicked by two stupid twats And they just stand there.
I know that they could lose their jobs, but... Well, this might be a bit of stupid reasoning, but here it is...
They had the chance to do something heroic. To step in when someone was in need, and do something more badass than 80% of the world will do in their lives. And with very low risk, I might add, as those bitches looked to be about as profficient in violence as a two-year old.

And that guy needed help. At the end of the video he's just laying against the wall, twitching... That's never a good thing.
One wouldn't even have to do someting exessively violent to scare those cowardly bitches off. You might not even have to hurt them at all!
 

Therumancer

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I have mixed opinions on the subject there are multiple issues here:

When it comes to being a society of spectators, that's a problem with the laws in society more than anything. Whether it's viable for someone to be a good samaritan varies greatly from area to area, and of course on recent legal trends. For example after the famous stabbing of Kitty Genovese there was a lot of loosening of the laws allowing for random people to get involved to stop an act of violence.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kitty_Genovese

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect

What those links don't get into is the simple fact that even decades ago when this happened people were concerned that getting involve in a situation like that could get them in trouble. If you stay step in to protect someone, and injure the assailant, you can likely be held responsible for numerous criminal charges, and/or be used by the defendant as an excuse, by claiming you inflamed the incident futher through intervention and thus can be blamed for their action. People being concerned about witnesses, because those people can be called in to testify against you, whether they agree with you or not, simply saying they know you got involved and being able to confirm certain facts from a quick response can land you in a lot of trouble.

We've seen the applicable laws loosened when dealing with good Samaritans, but inevitably as you get further and further away from whatever incident caused that trend, the laws tighten up again.

Like it or not, there are some good reasons for this and a sort of "lesser of two evils" mentality because of how Good Samaritan laws can very much lead to acts of vigilantism, not to mention the valid concern that people WILL overreact to a situation, and committ crimes far worse than what they were stepping in to prevent. After all, if some good Samaritan steps in and stops a guy from hitting his girlfriend and paralyzes him for life in the course of administering a beating while the guy fights back against the intervention, it opens all kinds of questions, and in the end people wind up not wanting to get involved because there is no way of telling how the situation will turn out. Self sacrifice might be a heroic thing, but that's because it's not expected or required, and getting involved as a Good Samaritan might very well BE an act of self sacrifice with the person doing it being sent to jail.

Of course there are other issues involved as well here, such as in domestic abuse cases both of the people involved turning on an outsider who gets involved. A battered wife or girlfriend is not nessicarly going to be thankful towards their apparent savior right then and there. Police run into that problem all the time, and random citizens don't have anywhere near the lattitude that police officers do.

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The other side of this issue is of course responsibility for one's own behaviors. Someone who embraces an extreme lifestyle, needs to expect an extreme reaction in reaction to their behavior. Minorities of whatever sort need to understand that the majority of people have every right to disapprove of them, and when they do something, to understand their their own desicians can cause a backlash.

Let's change the situation here, by going with another minority group: White Supremicists. Now imagine for a second that some White Supremicist walks into a burger joint and starts insulting minorities. A couple of big black or hispanic guys who had been insulted jump him coming out of the bathroom, and the guy behind the counter records it and puts it up on Youtube.

A lot of the people defending the transgendered person here, would view that situation very differantly, the reason being that they like or support one minority group, but not the other. Both have the right to do what they are doing, but are embracing extreme lifestyles which provoke a substantial number of people, and when they choose to be aggressive in promoting whatever they are into this is a risk they take.

This is not to say that in cases of assault the people attacking them should be absolved of responsibility, however there is such a thing as mitigating factors, and being provoked.

The thing is that given the left wing, politically correct bias in that article, not a lot of attention is being spent on the accusations of the people making the attack. Did this transgender person make unwelcome advances towards a boyfriend? How much did they persist? Was there any words exchanged between the transvestite and the girls BEFORE the ambush that provoked the situation?

All of these things can contribute to the situation, and really for all comments about being a good samaritan they would sure as heck influance whether I'd get involved or just call the police/ambulance to sort out the aftermath. I for example would likely not jump in to defend a white supremacist who provoked a beating after lipping off to minorities. Sure it might be against the law for him to be assaulted, but when you take an extreme position, one has to understand that there is going to be a response when you push it to that kind of degree.

There is also no law saying you have to like a group of people. A fairly prevelant attitude among many people is they don't care about homosexuals and "transgenders" as long as they leave them alone. They might not approve, but feel that it's a lesser of evils compared to what would need to be done to get rid of them so to speak. On the other hand someone flamboyant enough to advertise it openly, and make passes, and scenes about the factor, isn't being "left alone". Like it or not, having limits on tolerance, does not make someone intolerant, anyone can be pushed.

In short, I think minorities with extreme behaviors need to take responsibility for those behaviors and watching themselves. Nobody is going to prevent you from a mode of dress, or speaking your mind, but take responsibility for it, and understand if your a walking aggravating factor, you should be prepared to deal with it. Whether you dress in cross gender clothing, insist on wearing a turban or religions/cultural dress, or tattoo an inverted pentagram with a swatstika in the middle on your forehead, you should expect a reaction when you interact with other people, and should not expect to be able to push their buttons and be absolved from responsibility for provoking them.
 

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Cowabungaa said:
DaphneRose said:
I'm not so sure this is a hate crime
To paraphrase South Park; most crimes are hate crimes, so it's a silly thing to say anyway.

But yes, it's disgusting that the employees just stood there. Sadly, that's how a large part of humanity is, it's almost hardwired in our brains to not get ourselves in the line of fire.
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If you're getting paid minimum wage in a job you hate, would you step in to help someone? I wouldn't, because I know for a fact I'd be fired for it. It is NOT in your job description to act like security.
This has nothing to do with your job description or your wage, but with acting like a good fucking person. And if you'd get fired for being one, the manager deserves to get his own beating.
Exactly. You can try find another crappy-ass job.

Letting someone be beaten like that is cruel. It doesn?t matter if they were an employee, they are still people. Once that name tag goes on they do not cease being their own living, breathing person.
 

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Newtonyd said:
WolfEdge said:
There's a psychological theory at play here. It's called "Diffusion of Responsibility".

I'd look it up and give an exact definition, but I'm sweepy...
Yep, that's the one. Also called the 'bystander effect'.

I'm not sure if that's the case here though. It seems like the employees really didn't care, or were rooting for the attackers.

Hard to tell without more facts.

*Edit* To see the bystander effect in gruesome action, take a look at this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Kitty_Genovese#Psychological_research_prompted_by_the_murder

38 witnesses, several attacks over a half an hour, 0 calls to the police, 1 dead body.
Essentially this. It's not that the McDonalds employees in particular were either pussies or sick assholes who want to see an innocent person get beaten. It's that nearly everyone is a pussy or a sick asshole who wants to see an innocent person get beaten. This happening at a McDonalds was merely happenstance.
 

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Newtonyd said:
Yep, that's the one. Also called the 'bystander effect'.


*Edit* To see the bystander effect in gruesome action, take a look at this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Kitty_Genovese#Psychological_research_prompted_by_the_murder

38 witnesses, several attacks over a half an hour, 0 calls to the police, 1 dead body.
That is a very brutal and horrific example, and it's proof that people are often shown up by the animals we've domesticated; a herd of cows will at least attempt to defend one of their number, if they're cornered.

OT: Regardless of the sexual orientation or effective gender of the victim at the time of the incident, someone should have stepped in, but I now from experience that in a situation like that, minimum wage, the threat of job loss and the threat of the attackers turning on the person intervening would stop a lot of people from interfering.

This also sort of highlights one of the issues with the massive inter-connectivity of our current world; it's not that these things are necessarily happening more often, but there's definitely more of it being captured by personal recording devices, and displayed for unregulated (read: internet) public consumption.

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Apparently the victim (Chrissy Polis) has made a statement.

"Polis says she went inside the McDonald's to use the bathroom and get something to eat. Polis says, one of the girls' boyfriend tried to hit on her, that's when the girls confronted her and became violent.

Polis says the girls became even more upset after the realized she was transsexual, continuing to attack her even dragging her by her wig across the floor"


So it didn't start out as a hate crime more of a jealous rage, but I'm guessing when the attacker found out the victim was a male -> female they probably felt disgusted and then it escalated into a hate crime.

That's just speculation though.
 

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Therumancer said:
The other side of this issue is of course responsibility for one's own behaviors. Someone who embraces an extreme lifestyle, needs to expect an extreme reaction in reaction to their behavior. Minorities of whatever sort need to understand that the majority of people have every right to disapprove of them, and when they do something, to understand their their own desicians can cause a backlash.

Let's change the situation here, by going with another minority group: White Supremicists. Now imagine for a second that some White Supremicist walks into a burger joint and starts insulting minorities. A couple of big black or hispanic guys who had been insulted jump him coming out of the bathroom, and the guy behind the counter records it and puts it up on Youtube.

A lot of the people defending the transgendered person here, would view that situation very differantly, the reason being that they like or support one minority group, but not the other. Both have the right to do what they are doing, but are embracing extreme lifestyles which provoke a substantial number of people, and when they choose to be aggressive in promoting whatever they are into this is a risk they take.

This is not to say that in cases of assault the people attacking them should be absolved of responsibility, however there is such a thing as mitigating factors, and being provoked.

The thing is that given the left wing, politically correct bias in that article, not a lot of attention is being spent on the accusations of the people making the attack. Did this transgender person make unwelcome advances towards a boyfriend? How much did they persist? Was there any words exchanged between the transvestite and the girls BEFORE the ambush that provoked the situation?

All of these things can contribute to the situation, and really for all comments about being a good samaritan they would sure as heck influance whether I'd get involved or just call the police/ambulance to sort out the aftermath. I for example would likely not jump in to defend a white supremacist who provoked a beating after lipping off to minorities. Sure it might be against the law for him to be assaulted, but when you take an extreme position, one has to understand that there is going to be a response when you push it to that kind of degree.

There is also no law saying you have to like a group of people. A fairly prevelant attitude among many people is they don't care about homosexuals and "transgenders" as long as they leave them alone. They might not approve, but feel that it's a lesser of evils compared to what would need to be done to get rid of them so to speak. On the other hand someone flamboyant enough to advertise it openly, and make passes, and scenes about the factor, isn't being "left alone". Like it or not, having limits on tolerance, does not make someone intolerant, anyone can be pushed.

In short, I think minorities with extreme behaviors need to take responsibility for those behaviors and watching themselves. Nobody is going to prevent you from a mode of dress, or speaking your mind, but take responsibility for it, and understand if your a walking aggravating factor, you should be prepared to deal with it. Whether you dress in cross gender clothing, insist on wearing a turban or religions/cultural dress, or tattoo an inverted pentagram with a swatstika in the middle on your forehead, you should expect a reaction when you interact with other people, and should not expect to be able to push their buttons and be absolved from responsibility for provoking them.

Comparing a white supremacist to a transgender person is hardly an accurate comparison. White supremacy is a point of view that one chooses to take and chooses to display openly and is directly and purposely provocative. Being Transgendered is something that the person has no control over, and its not something that can usually be ignored. In my case it was a choice between treatment and living as a girl, or suicide, and its the exact same with a good many of my trasngendered friends, thats what is comes down to, its not something that you can just choose to accept or to flaunt, I dont try to look transgendered in public, but im not at the point where i can pass completely as female yet, someone like a white supremacist or a homosexual or someone of a particular religious belief, can hide that, they can walk down the street without every eye turning to them and knowing exactly what they are and having to worry if anyone might turn around and attack them for their position, should i be punished for trying to make progress towards living the way that i should have been from birth, and dont think that 'toning it down' or 'just acting like a man/woman in public' is even a valid option for alot of transpeople, because its something that can be extremely mentally and emotionally damaging if you have to regress back to your original sex.

Oh and please dont confuse transgender and tranvestite, its not the same thing

Also im sorry if i missed the point or misinterpreted what you were trying to say, please feel free to correct
 

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Therumancer said:
Let's change the situation here, by going with another minority group: White Supremicists. Now imagine for a second that some White Supremicist walks into a burger joint and starts insulting minorities. A couple of big black or hispanic guys who had been insulted jump him coming out of the bathroom, and the guy behind the counter records it and puts it up on Youtube.
If you hereby are comparing transgenders with white supremicist you lost all the respect i had for you that instance.
Transgenders do not discriminate other people on color, race , religion or whatever.
 

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Optional Opinion said:
Apparently the victim (Chrissy Polis) has made a statement.

"Polis says she went inside the McDonald's to use the bathroom and get something to eat. Polis says, one of the girls' boyfriend tried to hit on her, that's when the girls confronted her and became violent.

Polis says the girls became even more upset after the realized she was transsexual, continuing to attack her even dragging her by her wig across the floor"


So it didn't start out as a hate crime more of a jealous rage, but I'm guessing when the attacker found out the victim was a male -> female they probably felt disgusted and then it escalated into a hate crime.

That's just speculation though.
Given that at some point the attackers were told she was transgender, it would be hard for them to defend against a hate crime. If they had beaten the women then found out afterwards then sure no hate crime, but since they knew early on in the encounter it could be argued that they continued the attack because she was transgender.

In short they will probably be charged with a hate crime especial if they were using derogatory transgender slurs while beating her (haven't watched the video)

At least that is how I see it.
 

Therumancer

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Kerra said:
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Comparing a white supremacist to a transgender person is hardly an accurate comparison. White supremacy is a point of view that one chooses to take and chooses to display openly and is directly and purposely provocative. Being Transgendered is something that the person has no control over, and its not something that can usually be ignored. In my case it was a choice between treatment and living as a girl, or suicide, and its the exact same with a good many of my trasngendered friends, thats what is comes down to, its not something that you can just choose to accept or to flaunt, I dont try to look transgendered in public, but im not at the point where i can pass completely as female yet, someone like a white supremacist or a homosexual or someone of a particular religious belief, can hide that, they can walk down the street without every eye turning to them and knowing exactly what they are and having to worry if anyone might turn around and attack them for their position, should i be punished for trying to make progress towards living the way that i should have been from birth, and dont think that 'toning it down' or 'just acting like a man/woman in public' is even a valid option for alot of transpeople, because its something that can be extremely mentally and emotionally damaging if you have to regress back to your original sex.

Oh and please dont confuse transgender and tranvestite, its not the same thing

Also im sorry if i missed the point or misinterpreted what you were trying to say, please feel free to correct

I disagree. Nothing basically grafts women's clothing onto someone who is a transgender and forces them to go around and act on their impulses.

For someone who instinctively thinks Whites are superior, it's the same thing. It's what they think, and how they are wired. Inherant, learned behavior, or whatever else doesn't matter, it's who they are too. Nothing however forces them to run around expressing this, and covering themselves with hate imagery.

Maybe the transgender person is uncomfortable, but so is the white supremicist whenever he seems something that pushes his buttons and remains silent and doesn't express himself.

It's the same thing, it's just that you agree with one, and not the other, so you of course want to say that they are differant.

My attitude is that both of these people have the right to express themselves, but being tiny minority groups that slot a LOT of people off, they should be ready to deal with the consequences. Neither is entitled to aggravate people, and then claim special consideration as victims of a "hate crime". If anything by being overt, it should be considered an aggravating factor.

If someone stalks a transgender person for being what they are, and beats the crap out of them in a vaccum, that's one thing, that's a hate crime. If a transgender person makes an unwelcome pass at someone, persists, and then gets insulting and lippy about the whole thing, and makes a big deal about what they are and their status, well that's a provoked attack. That doesn't mean the person who hits/beats them is right, and shouldn't be charged with a crime, but the crime should carry a far, far, lesser weight given that it was provoked.

If you opt to express an extreme lifestyle, that's your right, but you should be ready to accept the consequences of that choice. If a transgender person doesn't want to risk that, then they can suffer in silence just like anyone else with an extreme position who doesn't want to deal with the repercussions. It's all about choices.

While unfair to some, understand we're dealing with very small groups of people overall, who wind up being diametrically opposed to the majority and their comfort zone or what they believe in. These people have the right to dress how they want, and speak their minds, but shouldn't be entitled to any special consideration when they piss people off by doing so.

As I said, we don't know the entire situation here, my gut feeling is that the attck was provoked, and that's why you saw the general attitude you did about it. That doesn't mean the attack was right, but it does mean that it's not some kind of especially heinous situation either.

In the end we're going to doubtlessly have to agree to disagree, however I do not agree with you that there is a differance between one person's state of being and another. The distinctions being made here are entirely politically correct nonsense, based around supporting one thing, but not supporting the other.

After all as a lot of transgender people will tell you "I'm born this way, it's natural for me to act like the other gender", a lot of white supremicists will tell you "I'm born inherantly superior, instinctively recognize this, and have simply not been brainwashed" especially when you read a lot of that propaganda. Hitler for example had this big huge thing about a race of psychic white giants from Atlantis as a central principle of his Aryan supremacy theories from what I read. Extreme positions always seem insane to those who don't agree with them, and like they shouldn't be protected, where the ones they do agree with are sane and reasonable.

The point is tha the person who believes they are innately the other gender, and the person who believes they are an entitled master race, are the same thing, and will argue an instristic state of being. Choosing to express that however and piss people off who would otherwise tolerate them if they kept it to themevles, is still an aggravating factor. Understand also, that it's not JUST about what the minority group believes, but about the rights of the majority as well, and what they believe. Pissing someone off, is pissing someone off, whether you believe your intristically right in pushing their buttons that's still what your doing, and shouldn't expect to be excused for it.

Just as the majority needs to tolerant minorities, minority groups need to be tolerant of the majority and work to fit in without provoking people. You get in someone's face with something they don't like, and your asking for trouble, it doesn't really matter what it is.
 

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what were the employee's to do? you know that when you get hired they tell you if you get involved in any confrontation, no matter the reason, you're fired on the spot. they can't take the risk of someone getting hurt. so if the kids (probably) valued their jobs there was nothing they could do.
I used to work at a Wendy's and I would gladly step-in. Most of the time the news exonerates the employees that step in and make the people who fire them look bad. You'll probably lose your job but you'll look good doing it.
 

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Why is this thread even here? All it's going to attract are trolls and stupid people saying "that ****** shouldn't have been pretending he was a girl" because that is what 99.9999 percent of the world believes. This thread has no reason to exist. As someone who's transgendered, calling more attention to the hatred that demographic receives is not something that needs to happen. Can't we have a news story about a female-to-male transman saving a kitten from a tree or something?
Ignoring it is the best possible way to insure it will continue. The Civil Rights movement India winning its independence, all happened because people stood up and showed the world the injustice and said enough is enough.

It really changes is going to happen the good and the bad needed to be shown, after all it can't be change if no one knows it is a problem.
 

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DefinitelyPsychotic said:
Ellen of Kitten said:
-Drifter- said:
DefinitelyPsychotic said:
Ellen of Kitten said:
DefinitelyPsychotic said:
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So this is former guy who got beat up by a bunch of girls?
DefinitelyPsychotic said:
Yeah, pretty much.
...and your points are?
That its pretty pathetic a former guy couldn't defend himself from a bunch of teenage girls...
You are incorrect; It's a girl that got beat up by a bunch of teenage girls. It's considered felony assault, and she was pretty heavily thrashed, and blind sided a few times.
No, you are incorrect. If you are born a guy, you are a guy.
End of conversation.

End of conversation? Hardly. I get the feeling this is going to be long, drawn out affair, and it's not going to end well.
Nope. the previous post just above this one has sealed it for him. 99.9% sure.

And it was well worth it!
Can we just have a vote on this.
those in favour of a perme ban for mister phsco say aye. and if you don't want him gone your insane. yeah we got 100% wanting you gone. no suprise

OT: it is terible that nobody stepped in sure but then how did those people know that the teens didn't have a knife that they had not used.
 

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D Moness said:
Therumancer said:
Let's change the situation here, by going with another minority group: White Supremicists. Now imagine for a second that some White Supremicist walks into a burger joint and starts insulting minorities. A couple of big black or hispanic guys who had been insulted jump him coming out of the bathroom, and the guy behind the counter records it and puts it up on Youtube.
If you hereby are comparing transgenders with white supremicist you lost all the respect i had for you that instance.
Transgenders do not discriminate other people on color, race , religion or whatever.
No, but they bother a lot of people. It doesn't matter why they bother them.

The point is that you are argueing one is differant than the other, when to the person on the receiving end, being bugged is being bugged. Tolerating something's existance does not mean you want it waved in your face.

A transgender making persistant, unwelcomed advances on someone, is no differant than a white supremacist insulting a minority. It's an act of provocation.

... and for the record, I'm not out to "earn people's respect" or win popularity contests. I'm just giving my opinion. You can replace "White Supremacist" with anything that annoys you and someone insists on getting in your face with. I used White Supermacy because it's a position that the politically correct people who inherantly defend Transgenders are opposed to, and because the people who are involved in it will ALSO claim that it's about an intristic state of being, just like Transgenders.

Chances are if what I said causes you to "lose respect" for me, then your really beyond reason anyway, because your going to take the side of a group you feel needs to be intristically protected and to whom the regular rules should not apply. I disagree with that, I believe that the same rules apply to everyone pretty much, and being provoked is being provoked, it doesn't really matter what is pushing the buttons. Also I never said that even when being provoked someone should be cleared entirely of wrong doing, simply that it acts as an aggravating factor.