What non-physical things attracts you to a girl/guy?
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someone who's mind is just as tired and broken by all the bullshit of social politics as mine. Honestly it would be someone who could open up to me because I have this strange need to work out other peoples emotional bullshit, probably so I don't think to much about my own, or perhaps to help fix my own, dunno its been awhile... pretty much someone I can talk to without getting my head bit off >_>
She would also have to put in as much work into her appearance as me, not much mind you just kind of if you eat a bit extra you work out a bit extra to fix it kind of dealo.
To be honest I'm really the kind of guy who needs a girl to shape him, I don't really have any incentive or direction at the moment and I'm hoping whatever girl I find might be able to give me some, romantically, I need some inspiration! factually, I'm a drone without any primary objective.
She would also have to put in as much work into her appearance as me, not much mind you just kind of if you eat a bit extra you work out a bit extra to fix it kind of dealo.
To be honest I'm really the kind of guy who needs a girl to shape him, I don't really have any incentive or direction at the moment and I'm hoping whatever girl I find might be able to give me some, romantically, I need some inspiration! factually, I'm a drone without any primary objective.
Continually repeated sexual lust and appetite, and not scared to try anything new and (possibly) dangerous.
Also if she'd like rainy sunday's and long walks on the beach, always a plus.
But not a requisite.
Also if she'd like rainy sunday's and long walks on the beach, always a plus.
But not a requisite.
Empathy, meekness, an enthusiasm for many forms of media, a strong sense of self awareness...
I'm sure there's a great many things even I don't realize would draw me to a girl. With every great woman, the more you know about her the more interestinting she becomes.
That's about all I have for now seeing as I've never had a successful relationship, I don't have a lot to go on.
I'm sure there's a great many things even I don't realize would draw me to a girl. With every great woman, the more you know about her the more interestinting she becomes.
That's about all I have for now seeing as I've never had a successful relationship, I don't have a lot to go on.
I hate women that are pro feminism, that really pisses me off. And I hate women that are too womanly and dainty. But I prefer them to be leaning toward womanly and dainty.
I like women that are open to senses of humor, and interested in techy stuff.
I like women that are open to senses of humor, and interested in techy stuff.
I require brain-power. This is someone that has to be able to show me that she has a reasonable intellect. Fortunately, I DO have someone who fits that bill.
Wisdom, shyness, humor, a love for gaming, hatred of feminism, awareness of Twilight being stupid, things like that. 
Absolutely must enjoy rainy days, light naps, and cuddling to ambient tunes.
And a love for ponies would be an added bonus! ^o^
~Tom<3
Absolutely must enjoy rainy days, light naps, and cuddling to ambient tunes.
And a love for ponies would be an added bonus! ^o^
~Tom<3
Intelligence, common sense, sense of humor, kindness.
Kindness is probably the biggest thing. There was this one girl during Freshman year of high school that I was infatuated with. One day, she was talking to her friend during a test in World Geography. Teacher (Who, at the time, had recently found out she was pregnant) failed both of them, as per the rules of the classroom, and entire school.
Few weeks later, teacher miscarries. She's absent a few days. Tragic time, class expresses their sympathies. Except the two that failed. They both agreed that our teacher "Deserved it, the *****." I cut off all ties with her there.
My apologies for the rant, but it really is a big deal to me. Someone could be the perfect person, physically beautiful, and fills all of my criteria.
But if you don't have a shred of compassion for your fellow human beings, I don't want anything to do with you.
Kindness is probably the biggest thing. There was this one girl during Freshman year of high school that I was infatuated with. One day, she was talking to her friend during a test in World Geography. Teacher (Who, at the time, had recently found out she was pregnant) failed both of them, as per the rules of the classroom, and entire school.
Few weeks later, teacher miscarries. She's absent a few days. Tragic time, class expresses their sympathies. Except the two that failed. They both agreed that our teacher "Deserved it, the *****." I cut off all ties with her there.
My apologies for the rant, but it really is a big deal to me. Someone could be the perfect person, physically beautiful, and fills all of my criteria.
But if you don't have a shred of compassion for your fellow human beings, I don't want anything to do with you.
The ability to be as completely nerdy as I. To give an example, if you can throw MST3K quotes at me as well as I can throw them at you, you will be in very good standing with me. Also, accents. Specifically British ones, but French accents will also work.
An intellectualy savy, witty, humorous gal with some common sense sprinkles on top. Is it so hard to ask for?
I love happy goths. Girls who are into the goth click but rather than act like they hate the world are actually quite chipper. Its a nice contrast.